STARDWEEB

18, Artist, and total Hero-in-Training

[hiraeth-doux]

Chris Pratt is the best thing that happened to us all

Pass it on.

[wondyrwoman-deactivated20160623]

anyway mcu civil war could have been avoided if steve and tony got locked in a room overnight and were forced to have a heart-to-heart that resulted in an understanding a la leslie knope and ron swanson from parks & rec s7

[atlanxic-deactivated20250205]

sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

[nebet-ren]

This is the most carefully-nuanced discussion of this I think I have ever seen. Thank you for writing this.

[goatish]

coming out of your room at 3 am and seeing your parents

[barefootcosplayer]

Listen I am so here for platonic “I love you"s. I don’t care if you think “I love you” is some sacred phrase to only utter to one person in your life, i don’t care if you think it makes me look overbearing. I say “I love you” to my friends every time I say goodbye because I want them to know 100% without a doubt that I care for them and love them and am there for them so so much.

[glumshoe]

You know you grew up on Steve Irwin when you see a photo of a crocodile and think, “Wow. Just beautiful.”

[oboet]

And you see Stingrays as the devil themselves

[glumshoe]

nah man Steve would have forgiven that stingray and absolved it of its sins

[the-hermits-guidance-blog]

He would have apologized for getting into the stingray’s space and making it afraid. 

[autobotsaboteur-archive-blog]

He actually did! Some of Steve Irwin’s last words were, “it wasn’t his fault. I startled him.”

He actually did forgive the stingray. He knew that he had scared it, and that it was only acting to protect itself.

[zooophagous]

If you put your ear up to a seashell you can hear the sound of mY HEART BREAKING INTO A THOUSAND LITTLE PIECES

[fisheninja]

It's #witchsonaweek ! I'm 102% sure that @devilchica96 would be into voodoo and we would definitely own cloud cats and I would probably only ever float ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #artistsoninstagram #fabercastell #copics #witchsonaweek2016 #cat #magic

[fisheninja]

Teeny tiny little outfit sketch from yesterday. Big swords make everything better ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #artistsoninstagram #fabercastell #sword (at Kutztown University of Pennsylvania)

[fisheninja]

Got my hair cut! It's shorter than I'm used to, but it's a welcome change. #chopchop

[wooden-folks-deactivated2016102]

scientific evidence that andy is a puppy

[fisheninja]

And the prodigal daughter returns #superhero #artistsoninstagram #copics

[gentlemanbones]

Dunsparce is ready to love again.

[marciaillust]

daily life of a digital artist:

is that a not coloured spot or a stain on my monitor

I didn’t save for at least 2 hours god is real

my playlist ended 1,5 h ago I’ve been drawing in silence this whole time

‘ “asdf11.png” already exists. Do you want to overwrite? ‘

I resized this very part of a picture but now it looks too small so let’s ctrl+z ohMYGOD IT’S SO B I G

this idea seemed cooler yesterday at 3 am

I want to pee but right now I’m doing so well and if I go I will leavE THE ZONE

opacity 67% or 68% I can’t decide

well this pic looks nice //*flips it horizontally*// I regret having eyes

where the fuck is my pen

[kingjaffejoffer]

[profsugoi]

i literally almost suffocated

[dennys]

good luck, crispies

[notjustsmart]

I can’t not reblog this…it might help me pass chem

[telnaga]

I’m Jasper and my family isn’t doing good with money. We can’t afford a lot of necessities right now, and we haven’t for a long time. My mom just lost her job and my brother makes minimum wage. Getting a job would be really really hard for me because I’m mentally and physically ill. We need money to help with health, clothes, food, our house, our pets, and my school. 

Donations are really welcome, but also you can commission me. I’m an artist and a writer and I love both of those and I’d love to do them for you for any price, and really I could do anything else for you too. A lot more information and art and writing examples are on my blog here. You can contact me through tumblr or through my email at [email protected], which is also my paypal

[witchspell-deactivated20180525]

what she says: im fine

what she actually means: what happened to bee and puppycat??? we got more episodes after the kickstarter so we have to give more money? will bee and deckard ever get together??? will bee ever find an actual job? will we see any more of bee’s super cute outfits? will we get an episode showing puppycat’ origins? did the writers and animators forget about how much people love the cartoon? will it ever go on cartoon network? will they ever make a puppycat plushie??? will bee and puppycat ever get a theme song???