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[crybabyangelgirl]

its so hard to take fatphobes seriously when you realize they're living in a fullfledged delusion. Like you could look at a thin person and i buying our groceries one after the other and see them buying nothing but carbs and snacks and soda and frozen processed foods and me buying nothing but locally sourced meats and whole vegetables and water and maintain that i must live a less healthy lifestyle bc of my weight. You can watch me and a thin person walk up the same hill and see them losing their breath and needing to take breaks and see me make it to the top without breaking a sweat and maintain that i must live a less healthy lifestyle bc of my weight. You can watch a thin person eat an entire bucket of fried chicken in one sitting and have nothing to say and then see a fat person eat nothing but salads for a week and tell them "hey you know salad isn't as healthy as you think it is i bet that dressing is full of fats and croutons are just carbs i bet that salad is mostly croutons and disgusting fatty dressing this is why you aren't losing weight". You have to completely divorce yourself from reality to maintain your worldview and its pathetic. 99% of the thin people i know dont go to a gym regularly and dont worry about eating healthily at all. Im simply not going to live in your fantasy world where thin people are allowed to be thin because of their genetics but fat people can never ever be fat because of their genetics and every choice they make is a moral failing.

[crybabyangelgirl]

No matter how little notes something i post about fat liberation gets some volatile fatphobe always manages to find it and say the stupidest least science informed bullshit ive ever heard in my life, its a true show of dedication from them even i don't think about fat people this much

[mooncarabiner]

butch and femme under warm blankets cuddling to sleep and giving eachother sweet kisses

[nimandmossy]

Ok but can we talk about the loneliness that comes with being chronically ill? If you’re not able to work or go to events, there’s so much time spent by yourself.

It feels like Im a zoo animal with no enrichment or friends, just me staring out the glass

[bagel-bird-ainsor]

I started replaying Deltarune again, going for all secret bosses and eggs n such. (It’s already going great I beat Jevil on my second try)

[dykewozniak]

i really need healthy, able-bodied people to understand that there are many illnesses that cannot be cured and which, in many cases, don't even have effective treatments

and that constantly putting the onus on the people who have to live with these illnesses to simply "get better" is an incredibly shitty thing to do

and that it's not "toxic" for chronically ill and disabled people to feel down, and occasionally talk about how down they feel, in a world which continually disregards their suffering and makes their lives much more difficult than they need to be, sometimes deliberately

and that telling these people that they continue to be ill only because they haven't tried a certain exercise, supplement, therapy or diet will only further damage their health by causing them stress

and that doctors are not only not infallible magic-workers, but are very often actively prejudiced against their patients; especially female patients and patients who belong to marginalised and minority groups

please just understand this and accept that the chronically-ill and disabled people you speak to know more about their health and their limitations and what works or doesn't work for them than you ever could

thank you

[flightawayhome]

This! I refuse to ever be silent about my disabling chronic illnesses again. I've literally only gotten more and more disabled from ignoring it, dismissing my pain as that's what everyone around me did. They saw I was fat and assumed it was that. That I'm fat, not chronically ill. And now I can't live an able-bodied life ever. So fuck shutting up I'm never gonna shut up about my pain and my health or even just little things like the amount of salt I consume to manage my pots and that's okay

[fufatron]

everyday i thank god for making me a femme lesbian…#iktr

[kittypuppyribbon]

im so sick of lesbians welcoming transmascs with open arms while begrudgingly permitting transfems. stop telling us that you'd rather date a man than a trans woman ffs. do better. yes, you, the cis lesbian reading this post. do better. make a transfem feel welcome in the wlw community.

[flightawayhome]

People understand that transmasc ≠ men challenge. (It's transphobia to call transmascs men unless they identify as a guy, non-binary transmascs and woman transmascs exist. Level 1 queer stuff.)

Also when have trans women been barred from the lesbian community and trans mascs accepted? /Gen From what I've seen online it's actually the complete opposite so I'd appreciate good faith examples.

[twistedsweethearts]

I wouldn’t love me either…

[cyannidex33]

i was told ts SOO MANY times as a kid and my parents wonder why i don't open up to them

[nightfeverfever]

murder isn't okay however sometimes your friends have REALLY bad parents

[menheramellow]

[calebssuicidalentity]

I am not wanted by anyone in this world.

I am not wanted by anyone in this world.

I am not wanted by anyone in this world.

I am not wanted by anyone in this world.

I am not wanted by anyone in this world.

[emotionaleating]

when someone doesn’t wanna tell me what i did wrong and suddenly i’m 8 years old wondering what i did to make my mom mad again

[rotting-lilac]

It really fucking pisses me off when people try to invalidate any form of SH. SH stands for Self Harm. Self Harm literally means anything someone does to harm themselves. Whether it's something that makes their physical or mental state worse, usually intentional.

Bruising yourself is Self Harm.

Cutting yourself of any depth or severity is Self Harm.

Hitting or slapping yourself is Self Harm.

Picking at your skin is Self Harm.

Pulling out your hair is Self Harm.

Starving yourself is Self Harm.

Pushing yourself to your limits is Self Harm.

Scratching yourself or biting yourself is Self Harm.

Any form of Self Harm is valid. Whether it's physical or mental Self Harm, it's valid.

Isolating yourself is Self Harm.

Not sleeping (purposely) is Self Harm.

Overworking yourself til breaking point or a burnout is Self Harm.

If someone tells you your Self Harm isn't valid, the truth is your Self Harm is valid and their opinion isn't.

[gnabnahcgi]

[cyb3rangel1]

edit: why does this have so many notes,,, all of my tumblr notifs is from just this post,,

[shushututu]

People seriously underestimate the long term effects of constant loneliness

"why are you so weird?" Idk, maybe because being completely isolated while growing up has destroyed my brain and now I'm nothing more than a human-mimicking creature that bases all of my actions on what I think is normal human behavior rather than just doing things naturally