[flowers4medusa]

used to be: @terfspleaseinteract

Just here to connect with like minded women. This blog is safe space for girls and women, especially lesbians. I don't care what your main blog is about, I might not follow back if it doesn't match my interests, but I'll never "out" anyone, I'm just sad you can't share something you agree with on YOUR blog without a certain group of people and their devotees coming to attack you.

[reflejadoss]

I know drag queens are supposed to be in good fun and all but the mockery exhibited by them is actually disgusting. Posing as a stereotypical Russian hooker? It’s literally just a mockery of women who are being trafficked in foreign countries. People forget that Gay men can be just as misogynistic as straight men and it’s a huge issue.

[flowers4medusa]

kill yourself white rape pig

You really think some lame anon message is gonna make me off myself after struggling with mental health issues for 25 years?

PS: I know you're not scoring really high in the IQ department, so you probably really don't know, but not everyone living in Europe is white.

[majchic]

[lavendermenace666-blog]

I just wanted everyone to have a reminder that you really need to be suspicious of anyone who says they don’t mind your mental health problems or they think it makes you a “deep” person.

It’s predatory .

If they don’t care that you are suicidal , show indifference to your symptoms, and let you harm yourself in anyway and justifies what you do as “ your personal choice” they are NOT your friend.

[flowers4medusa]

Spoilers from my time in the sex industry, (underage) prostitution edition: I had sex buyers downright ask me who abused me when they saw my more or less fresh self harm wounds and offered insanse amounts of cash to recreate those specific situations.

On a side note: some felt sorry when they saw my scars or wounds, others pretend not to realize, others thought I'll be able to endure whatever they're dashing out. And no, it kept none of them from trying to get with me again.

[latinaradfem]

there’s so much research that shows how harmful porn is towards the treatment of women and children so asking why women are against porn is such an ignorant question. it’s common sense for women to be against an industry that is run by human trafficking and rape.

[unsentimentaltranslator]

Go talk to a current or former porn “actress” and ask her about her PTSD, Barbie.

[wtfizwidoin]

We don’t think you’re a whore, we think you’re at best unaware and at worst careless of the consequences/implications/reality of porn. Like I don’t hate female porn attresses, prostituted women, onlyfans girls, strippers or any other women in the sex industry. I care about their safety, wellbeing and health. And I truly believe that the sex industry is harmful to all of the above and as such I oppose the INDUSTRY. I do not despise or oppose individual women within it. Even the more privileged among them, who tout porn as empowering and liberating, I feel are usually just misinformed and brainwashed. I just feel so sad that women are taught our bodies are a commodity, that objectified and dehumanized is our default view of women.

I think those women deserve better. I don’t think they’re dirty/wh*res/damaged goods or any other misogynistic garbage. I don’t tie women’s worth to their bodies or how they exercise their sexuality.

I am concerned with the objective consequences of the sex industry. I’m concerned about how many women who are “sex workers”(read prostituted women) are kept reliant on drugs by their pimps and having the money they make taken from them to keep them from getting out, how many of them started being sex trafficked as children and don’t know any other way, how many of them wouldn’t be able to eat without allowing repulsive depraved men to rape them for money. I’m concerned with the fact that behind the scenes of much mainstream porn is girls who had no other choice, who were sexually abused in childhood and never got the help they needed and instead were told their reckless/dangerous hypersexual behavior made them a great fit for porn, who were coerced at a young age and now feel they can’t do anything else. I’m concerned about how much of mainstream porn has been found and proven to be recorded rape, revenge porn, child sexual abuse material and coerced participation.

I’m concerned with the consequences of porn consumption, how men who consume porn are shown to view women as less competent, how men who consumed porn were more likely to SELF-REPORT they would rape a woman if they knew they wouldn’t get in any trouble for it. How men who consume porn begin to consume more and more extreme and violent content(which is real! Real women are being choked, beaten, gagged, punched, and being made to vomit, bleed and cry in this porn) and develop paraphilias they otherwise wouldn’t through porn consumption. How in time they will want to act these things out. This is my concern! I’m not concerned with sexual prudence or your chastity, get fucking real! This is terrifying and it’s really happening.

The fact that opposing this is viewed as extreme is what’s insane. It’s legitimately dystopian that all of the shit happening in porn no one bats a lash at and criticizing it gets you called a prude/sexually repressed/misogynistic. What’s more misogynistic, the trafficking and abuse of women for male entertainment or criticism of said traffickers and abusers? Somehow this is a real question and people are saying the latter! I feel like I’m taking crazy pills ffs!

I’ve actually sat down and listened to previous porn actresses and they can’t say enough how often they were made to do things they didn’t agree to, how much substance abuse was involved, how they needed to be under the influence to even perform. I actually know women who have been prostituted. I know how they got there and I fucking guarantee you they don’t feel “empowered and liberated” I’ve heard from their own mouths that they feel trapped, scared and helpless.

TLDR: most of us don’t think of you as a “wh*re” (though the men consuming the porn probably do). We are genuinely and rightfully upset, horrified, and concerned about the abuses, coercion and outright violence that occurs in the industry. As well as the effects porn has on the minds and behaviors of the men consuming it.

[flowers4medusa]

Just take a look at the causes of death of female porn performers in the last five to fiveteen years. Usually suicide or (accidental) overdoses. If this doesn't tell you everything...you're beyond help. And those are just the more popular we hear about. Nobody in that industry cares if you have 1 or 2 scenes on your list and had to quit because you couldn't take it anymore. You'll be replaced within a day or two. You're just another traumatized woman who now also has to pay for therapy (depending on your country, I guess).

[nightmareofhands-deactivated202]

just heard someone use the phrase “sex workers from ancient rome” you mean female sex slaves those women were probably born into lower classes and forced to become slaves to males, the glorification of the horrific things females have had done to them does still shock me everytime.

[gracieslvss]

No woman should be forced to share bathrooms with males.

It's funny how the discussion about who should enter which restroom is always directed towards women, it's always that there is one restroom for men and another for everyone else, it's always women who have to risk their comfort and safety for the comfort of others.

“But trans women need to go into women's bathrooms to feel comfortable and validated” You. keep. putting. male. comfort. over. female. comfort. and. safety. You never ask how women feel about this, it is not transphobic for a woman to not feel comfortable with a male in the bathroom, every woman has the right to express herself when her safety and comfort is at risk.

Asking for women's restrooms to be inclusive without taking into account the opinion of women does nothing more than demonstrate that you care more about the comfort of a male than the comfort and safety of women.

[crisisdotorg]

From @ pinkpillled on tiktok

[denmark-street]

[niiwa-angel]

These people will cry that women like JKR are on the wrong side of history and in the same breath tell a survivor of intimate partner violence that her abuser didn't hit her hard enough.

[moidhaterxxx]

The creepiest thing about bdsm "safe word" requirement is that it's training moids to completely ignore "no" or "stop" and associating that with pleasure.

[cuttingcherub]

This is such a good point.

[radriotgrrrl-deactivated2025050]

i won’t stop calling gay males faggots until they stop using the term bitch.

[liberate-women-now]

If you can't find what's wrong with this definition your are homophobic and sexist. This loser used the word male/men 4 times and female/women 0 to describe BEING A LESBIAN.

[honeyblankets]

“gender is so fun to play around with and be silly with!” okay cool personally i’m not having fun with a construct that has oppressed women & girls for all of its existence

[cupcakesandmisandry]

[flowers4medusa]

And I'm going to repeat it again:

Imprisoned women are one of the most vulnerable groups already WITHOUT sexual predators suddenly claiming they're women and getting transferred into women's prisons.

[trans-activists-are-mras]

Wow. Radfems like you maybe are worst than neo nazis

Do you know Dana Rivers ? He's a man pretending to be a woman, or a "trans woman" as you would call him.

He was angry because lesbians did not see him as one of them. So he joined a "trans camp" and him and his buddies used to try and harass the lesbians who enjoyed a feminist music festival called Michfest. There was one lesbian couple who used to go every year. I guess "Dana" maybe thought as you did, that when a woman rejects a man or finds him creepy that makes her a bigot or maybe he thought of trans activists' favourite slogan "terfs graves are gender neutral bathrooms". Anyway he found this lesbian couple's house and entered it. "Dana" beat them up, including their adopted son, using brass knuckles, then he stabbed them dozens of times and if that wasn't enough he shot them. Then he burned the place down, probably trying to cover his tracks. Neighbours heard the gunfires and called the police. When the police arrived, the couple's adopted son ran outside, but the gun shot he had received proved fatal. "Dana" did it because lesbians had no right to reject men and their misogyny, in his mind. This brutal and sadistic triple homicide is now counted as committed by a woman in crime statistics.

In case you were wondering, yes I am using your idiotic "waaawaaa feminazi" message to shine more light on this terrible story. You can whine behind your computer about pronouns all day long, but in the real world it is men who hurt women, not with words, not with tweets, not with memes, not with pronouns but with fists and knives and guns.

[radgalsarerad-deactivated202106]

I'll always remember a reddit post about it having someone try to justify it.

They will try and justify hate crimes when TIMs commit them.

[pinkribbonradical]

oh I’ve never heard of this case before, absolutely heartbreaking😢

we must protect lesbian spaces

[flowers4medusa]

I'm afraid we must (re)create them first. I live in one of the biggest and LGB "friendliest" city in Europe, we have ZERO lesbian/wlw only spaces. We do have parties that exclude "cis men", but that's about it. No club, no party, no bar, no meeting places strictly for lesbian and bisexual WOMEN. And looking at our politics, it's fairly impossible to achieve that because people like "Dana" will always demand access as well and refusing would likely end up in a court case that won't end up in our favor.

[edwardslovelyelizabeth]

PAMELA ANDERSON

photographed by Ditte Isager for "Better Homes & Gardens" (2024)

[billy-pilgrims-steering-wheel]

I love that she seems to have found herself. 💚

[xxactlyperfect]

Her smile is everything.