FluffyGamerNerd

Old (Over 21, under 70), fat, nerdy. Mainly here to read, may change my mind.

[lovethisfatcryptid]

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[fluffygamernerd]

Follow her, she’s awesome.

[allfattenedup]

You love fat but WHY?

Fat and weight gain is an incredible kink. The range within it is enormous - two people might gain 100lbs but have completely opposite reasons. Personally I think a love for fat usually falls under a bigger umbrella topic which is the reason why you love it. I wanna run a little poll to see where we all sit.

Open to gainers and non-gainers! Please reblog, I'd love to get a good sample size.

What kink/topic encapsulates the reason why you love fat or gaining?

Transformation

Humiliation/embarrassment

Softness/safety

Lack of control

Adrenaline

Rebellion/Bodily autonomy

Fat as bondage

Something else (write it in the tags)

Voting ended onJul 29, 2024

[pochariwavve]

mix of softeness, bodily autonomy and bondage for me.

[belly-sexual-ffa]

softness and safety, accepting my own fat is a part of it too

[fluffygamernerd]

Softness and safety. I want a partner that’s soft and safe that wants soft and safe.

[fluffygamernerd]

Goddamn.

Any fat FFAs wanting to make me bigger than them? Or vice versa? 🥹

[madison-grey-bbw]

miss me? 💖

message me to add my free snap 💜

[fluffygamernerd]

Came back. Fatter than ever.

[lizzieefeeds]

Big Sexy Belly🤭🥰

[lilcowzia]

my gut is getting so heavy...

[fluffygamernerd]

#anabsolutefeedismlegend #delightfullyfat

[heavy--feels]

What if we gained weight together?

Our soft bellies touching and squishing as we kiss. We explore each other's softness. My nose digs deep into your plush cheek as I kiss it. You help me button my shirt, giggling as you notice the buttons won't even come close. We go shopping together, slowly outgrowing size after size. We play video games and watch shows, and by the end, both of our snack bags are empty. We take turns cooking for each other, trying to outdo ourselves every time. You excitedly share a recipe you just mastered. I'm so happy to test it. You made way too much? Don't worry, love, between the two of us, it will be gone in no time.

What if we got fat together?

What if we were so, so happy?

[fatterroundermoreblubber]

Reblog if it’s cool for people to stuff feedee/feeder comments/questions/messages in your ask box!

[lovethisfatcryptid]

Is feedee Friday a thing? Anyway here's my belly 🥰

Check my bio for ways to see more of me

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This creator is Nonbinary and uses any pronouns

[fluffygamernerd]

#itiscriminaltheyarenotmorebelovedhere

[myhusbandsasemni]

It means a lot to me that when people send heart emojis, they have a specific color/style they use. And heart they choose to use seems to really reflect that persons personality and how they love.

Actually, do me a favor. Reblog this with the hearts you typically use.

💜💜💜💜

[fluffygamernerd]

Purple 💜💜💜💜

[alexandy99]

I want to be touched and toyed by someone gentle and steady. I don’t want the usual desperation, I want slowness. Cover me and keep me

[fluffygamernerd]

Me and who???

[fatpunk]

red flags in feedees (a warning to feeders)

my 'red flags in feeders' post got some traction, so I figured it was time to explore the other side of the coin.

🚩they hound/message a feeder that has already given them a "no" in some form and/or ignore the boundaries a feeder has set. 🚩they think all feeders want to/should interact with them based on the principle of the kink dynamic. 🚩they expect you to be into mutual gaining and get angry/upset if you're not. 🚩they're staunchly anti fat acceptance/liberation/etc. 🚩they pressure you into aspects of feedism that you aren't comfortable engaging in. 🚩they're unwilling to incorporate broader kink best practices such as aftercare, safewords, RACK checklists, etc. 🚩they throw a temper tantrum when you retract your consent/change your mind. 🚩they expect you to pay for ALL their meals and new clothes, no questions asked. 🚩they get upset if you gain weight, whether intentionally or not. 🚩they don't seem to understand why fat feeders =/= mutual gainers. 🚩they're needy; they get angry or upset if you aren't able to chat with or take care of them 24/7. 🚩they try to guilt trip you into breaking things off with any other feedees you might have. 🚩they try to shoehorn feedism into every corner of your relationship and/or life; they don't know when to "switch off" the kink talk. 🚩they try to weaponize their marginalized status against you/play oppression olympics (e.g. "fat people have it worse than POC")

there's probably more, but I'm having trouble thinking of any. stay safe out there.

[fatpunk]

hey maybe reblog this post too instead of just the "red flags in feeders" version

[tummysmoocher]

Having this kink is so funny because You will have a crush on someone and think they are soooooo fucking hot and they will stand there and tell you that they are insecure about their body and you will have to do the equivalent of locking your brain in a straitjacket to formulate a response that sounds supportive and socially acceptable when the reality is that you would commit atrocities just to kiss their stomach ONCE. That, if given the opportunity, you would worship them like they were royalty. And you would do this in both a non-kinky way because you love them and think they are beautiful and wish that they could see themself the way you see them but also in the kinky way where it feels like there’s a feral dog inside of you that wants to sink it’s teeth into the softness of them and never let go. You have to stand there and think to yourself “you have no idea the things I would do to you. You have no idea just how desirable you are.” And it’s honestly unbearable !!!!!

[bigbelleborrada-deactivated2024]

Fat folks are hot and so are people that find fat folks hot.

[fluffygamernerd]

Always looking for other fat mutuals. As a neurodivergent fat demisexual, I promise I’m respectful and here for friendships first and foremost. 💜💜💜

[soft4softtummy]

The hottest thing a girl can be is very fat and proud of it

[fluffygamernerd]

Facts.