idk I follow from here

29 he/him minors don't interact my last account got fuckered

[johnny-depp-is-loved]

Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: [phone] (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: [phone]

Trevor Project: Call [phone], text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

[foxglove-garden]

It really boggles me that I have experiences through the day, doctor's appointments, calls with my mom, discussion on dating apps, interactions with dozens of random people on here, and so I come on here and I'm just like....

*beep boop boop* boot up the social media

*voice types the random shit on my brain*

*tags*

*posts*

And then I go check on my kids or go to Walmart or whatever, I find out later that someone I blocked like 3 weeks ago has been going through all of it, plus going through tags that I use on my NSFW accounts, and they're just like... "Yes, yes. This is all about me. Those 25 other accounts are secretly this person, even the accounts that he's blocked and argued with! It's all a giant conspiracy about me, and it's all because of one single conversation, because they defended someone who messaged them and was upset." And I find out about it days or weeks later?

Like.... What the fuck......?

I feel like I need to hire a lawyer and buy a gun, people are psychotic.

[transexualpirate]

STOP PITTING TRANSFEMS AGAINST TRANSMASCS AS THOUGH WE'RE OPPOSITE OR EVEN MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE. WE'RE NOT JUST A COMMUNITY WE ARE THE SAME. WE HAVE THE SAME FIGHT

[foxglove-garden]

I made bacon and eggs for dinner with bagels.

[foxglove-garden]

I guess people in the LGBT community think that it's okay to misgender and fake claim people and shit whenever they don't agree with them but like....

I'm just a bisexual intersex trans dude that you don't agree with.

[foxglove-garden]

Hey, did you know that if your mental illness gets bad enough you can convince yourself that I secretly run every single account on this entire website that is against transphobia?

Because I just realized that's what someone who apparently has been stalking me on here for the past month has convinced themselves. Every single thing I post they think is about them despite the fact that I haven't talked to them for a month.

Like.... Are people really that self-absorbed?

Do you really think that I even still think about you other than whenever I see your account name pop up?

Sweetie nobody gives a fuck about you other than whenever you're fucking annoying.

Edit to add some humor:

[foxglove-garden]

Reason why I'm called a TERF as a trans man #97857575333456774:

I don't consent to interacting with misgendering content on my NSFW blog.

[foxglove-garden]

I love whenever a terf thinks that all of my general posts are about them just because they've been obsessed with me for the past month.

Hi punky. I know you're block evading. Not everything is about you. Go be a terf somewhere else.

[foxglove-garden]

Lol I'm coughing up blood.

[foxglove-garden]

"why do you make so many long posts about x"

Trauma.

"I don't get it"

I have complex post traumatic stress disorder from a lifetime of repeated trauma including

S/A

CSA

Grooming

Human trafficking

Transphobia/transandrophobia

Homophobia, biphobia and panphobia

Medical trauma

Disability

Gun violence

Home break ins

Homelessness

Racism, specifically against native American and mixed people

Generational trauma

Addiction and recovery

Plus the trauma of having two NDEs

The way my cPTSD works, especially because I also have OCD and autism, causes me to get easily triggered by certain subjects that relate to my trauma and have severe intrusive thoughts about the subject, sometimes for days. It can be extremely harmful to my mental health to dwell on it, and I find that expressing my thoughts and feelings on the subject helps me. So I write out what's on my mind until I feel heard.

What I might be on an OCD/cPTSD rant about might not seem like a trauma thing to others, and that's okay, but my trauma and experiences are why I have the opinions I do.

Idk, maybe it's also just because I've been online since 2002 and I don't give a fuck about current Internet sensitivities the same way others do. But yeah.

[yoursadisticdomme]

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

Anyone can withdraw consent at any time.

[foxglove-garden]

I love pointing out that the erasure of trans men and antagonism from trans women towards trans men, specifically coming from white trans women, is essentially just women trying to hold onto male privilege by shitting on people they see as women and therefore below them.

Like it's bioessentalism and internalized transphobia turning external and it's what the TERFs want.

If you're a trans woman who's against trans men or thinks transandrophobia isn't real, you're just as bigoted as any TERF and you're harming the entire trans community.

[ayomides-things]

i think one of the reasons why people hate transandrophobia theory and any mention of the specific hatred & oppression trans men face, is the same reason why it’s frowned upon in the university (and other less formal study spaces) to study Black masculinities, and the experiences of Black men & boys, rather than just only focusing on Black women & girls. It is often seen as anti-feminist to focus on the experiences of Black men & boys. I think this is a similar manifestation of radical feminism, and I often wonder what it means for me as a transmasc mixed Black person who studies sociology. I’ve been curious about studying Black masculinities but I’m even more curious and wanting to be intentional about studying Black transmasculinities, and combatting the erasure of transmascs/men. We are dying. And being essentially forced into the frontlines of queer combat on the basis of us being men— that we should be tough, we should be protecting everyone, that we wanted this. And that we are disposable.

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

Less than five years ago, if you split all trans people into transfeminine and transmasculine, you were a truscum who thought that non-binary people were not real. And the only reason to include non-binary transfems and non-binary transmascs at all was because you believed that they would inevitably recognize themselves as binary.

And today this is what passes for inclusion.

[foxglove-garden]

It's really funny how all the people who are bitching about me not being supportive of people who claim to be MTM or FTF are either part of those groups or are otherwise cis....

[foxglove-garden]

Apparently I have to say again that I don't consent to interacting with people, especially unhinged people, who claim to have a self diagnosed dissociative disorder like DID or self diagnosed systems.

I don't have any issue with people who have actual mental illnesses with a diagnosis, obviously. But if you're an adult, you have the ability to get diagnosed. It's not that hard to find a psychiatrist who offers good faith estimates for the uninsured (my psychiatrist appointments were $4 each when I lost my insurance, you can afford $4-10 a month) and it's not that hard to apply for medical assistance or insurance through what used to be Obamacare (also $5-20 a month for low income people, and that covers your prescriptions too)

My main reason for this is because I was that "annoying self diagnosed DID system" kid in highschool and when I actually got help I realized that I actually was going through manic psychosis due to bipolar and CPTSD with dissociation. I was an unstable monster during that period of my life and I don't want to deal with people like that now that I'm stable and recovered.

Plus, I'm kinda tired of watching people mock mental illnesses that actually cause people real problems just for the chance of tiktok fame or because it's trendy. I'm tired of people running obvious roleplay accounts attacking me for saying "that's factually not how mental illnesses work" when they say their alters make them change eye color or their alters have physical disabilities that the actual physical person doesn't.

"my alter makes my eyes purple" they're still brown babe

"my alter gives me demonic abilities" that's a classic delusion babe

"I have an alter that's always happy and excited and one that's always depressed" that just sounds like a mood disorder babe

Like I'm sorry but I actually put the years of work in to get rid of my own mental health symptoms including psychosis and delusions, and as someone who's been living in the real world, stable and medicated, for almost a decade, I want nothing to do with people who are too focused on using their mental health issues as a marketing tactic to get help. Y'all drag me down and I don't have time to indulge you.

And anyone who wants to argue is gonna be blocked. I don't have the time to argue with people who are delusional and anti recovery.

[foxglove-garden]

Reason why I, an intersex trans man, got called a TERF #958465:

I don't support people who say that they're FTF or MTM "trans" or dfab trans women/DMAB trans men.

I don't really care if you're intersex or not, you can't transition to the gender you were raised as. That's just not a thing. It devalues actual trans experiences imo.

I can speak personally about the experience of being raised as a girl and actually being transmasculine and having that affect my experiences. A person who was raised has a girl and identifies as a woman does not have those experiences. A person who is raised as a boy and identifies as a man does not have those experiences.

I can fully respect people who identify as cisgender intersex, or consider intersex to be their gender, or identify as intergender, or even identify as intersex to female or intersex to male because those make sense. If your experience being intersex affected how you were raised and you identify as a different gender than your parents raised you to be, I totally understand that. But "I'm intersex and identify as the gender I was assigned/raised as" doesn't equal being trans.

But no amount of logic in my brain can ever understand how someone can transition to the same gender that they were raised as. It just seems like cis with extra steps to me, it seems like intersex erasure, and it seems transphobic.

I know that it's controversial to critique certain identities, but as someone who is intersex and trans, I feel like my opinion is valid. I don't see "MTM", "FTF", "dfab trans women" and "dmab trans men" as good faith identities.

People are still welcome to use those terms for themselves, but I don't feel comfortable interacting with them.

Usually when I have in the past, they've treated me weird (I've had people from that community insist that I can't be FTM because I'm intersex, I've experienced a lot of casual transphobia from that community, and I've had a lot of them basically pull the whole "transandrophobia is fake because trans men have male privilege blah blah blah") and I just don't want to deal with that.

So yeah, IDC if people criticize this tbh. Unless you're also intersex and trans, it's not really something you can invalidate because I'm talking about my own community.

I'm going to block anyone who leaves comments bothering to say that they don't agree with me because I really don't give a shit if you agree with me. You aren't changing my mind and talking over me is transphobic and intersexist.