Foxos&Boxos

|🔞| Babs here to gift you(&) boxes of sweet vibes and positivity! This blog is ran by foxes with coffee-fueled passion. Feel free to stop on by and vibe with us

[foxoswithboxos]

Weclome to Foxos & Boxos!

Minors do not interact!

Even if this blog is/will be safe for work BaB would prefer if minors DID NOT INTERACT as BaBs is an adult who wishes to cater to an Adult Audience.

BaBs wants this blog to be purely for fun! so to keep things fun:

BaBs will be going at BaBs own pace, Do Not bother bringing any sort of Discourse to this blog! You will be ignored and blocked on spot.

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[recomvery]

Stop thinking: "How can I stop feeling like that?" And start thinking: "How can I cope with this feeling? What could I do to support myself in this situation?" Find coping skills that you like and that work well for you. Try cozy gaming, drawing, tea, working out, a hot and cold shower, journaling, sour candy.

[foxoswithboxos]

I hope you're having a great day!!!

right back at you Nom!!

[foxoswithboxos]

Is it bad that I feel better sense of understanding when I explain or talk about my system/members to other people?

sorry for the late response 'Nom! Don't feel bad about what helps with you making sense of all the uncertainty or unsureity you may have, sometimes having a secondary outside point of view can help open up perspectives you've might of not considered! or even if not that sometimes vocally speaking on something can help you make sense of things on your own!!

[positively-plural]

Its okay if you're always blurry or have no idea who's fronting ever.

[lasthopecrew-deactivated2023073]

hey !

systems who want their member count to go down, I love you!

systems who want their member count to go up, I love you!

systems who wish they knew more about their trauma(if they have any), I love you!

systems who wish they knew less about their trauma(if they have any), I love you!

systems who have doubts about their systemhood/feel like they're faking sometimes, I love you!

non-traumagenic systems, I love you!

traumagenic systems, I love you!

I love systems !! MWAH !! have a good day and take care of yourselves

[foxoswithboxos]

It's going to be okay

[the-indigo-symphony]

Fuck it. Positivity time.

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems that co-front all or most of the time!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems that often have busy fronting rooms!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who don't know where they end and another system member begins!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who have a hard time keeping track of all their system members!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who can't tell which or how many of their members are fragments!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who have lots of members with highly specific jobs or roles!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems with lots of introjects from the same source(s)!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who often have a blurry/blended identity!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who have a hard time figuring out if/what problems they may have with dissociation and/or amnesia!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who have lots of subsystems and sidesystems!!

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who don't have lots of subsystems and sidesystems!!

And, most of all since I saw this misconception recently,

Shout-out to polyfragmented systems who are partly or wholly endogenic!! Having lots of system members who are less defined doesn't decide your origin!!

Shout-out to you, polyfragmented systems!!

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

practice forgiving yourself as often as possible. it does wonders once you really learn to move past things you dislike about your past actions that cannot be redone.

[thepeacefulgarden]

Remember: Beating yourself up doesn't help whoever you wronged, and it doesn't help *you*.

[thegalaxykingdom-deactivated202]

thank you c:

just small post for endogenics systems (and the endos supporters) thank you for helping us feel more accepted we love you/p

-from a TruamaEndo<3

[thevillaincodex-deactivated2023]

Reminder to all protectors that you're a person too and you're allowed to just exist. You're allowed to front for fun, just because, not just for stressful situations. You're allowed to have hobbies or interests outside of your role. You're allowed to chill and relax, you're not stealing time from anyone. You're allowed to cry, be sad, or upset, you're not weak or a "bad protector" for doing so. You're a person too. It's great that you protect them! But please remember you are not a shield, you're a person. You matter as much as the rest. The rest of your system loves you. The world won't end if you let yourself relax and just be, at peace. You don't have to be strong all the time. Just let yourself live and be a person. You've done so much for them. You deserve some breaks and affection too and I promise they'll be more than willing to give it to you. You're system loves you, let them love you! Let them help you the way you help them! Relax! Let them take care of you this go around, yeah?

THIS POST IS ENDO SAFE

[only-knives]

systems, multiples, plurals, etc. - you're allowed to just experience yourselves. you don't need other people to agree whatever you're experiencing is real - it's real just by you experiencing it. you can trust yourself. it's okay, i promise <3

[strawberry-graveyard]

shout out to systems who use super common roles and terms!!

shout out to systems who use super niche roles and terms!!

shout out to systems who use “outdated” roles and terms!!

shout out to systems who coin their own roles and terms even if similar ones already exist!!

shout out to systems who don’t use roles and terms to describe themselves!!

shout out to systems who use a ton of roles and terms to describe themselves!!

and shout out to to everyone in between!! you should always use whatever terms you feel comfortable with. as long as it’s not inherently harmful then go nuts!!

plurality and it’s descriptors are not a monolith, and what works for someone else might not work for you!! use what makes you comfortable, and don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it.

[foxoswithboxos]

Bab loves you system that are often left out of the conversation! bab sees you bab hears you, it can get lonely but bab wants to remind you all there are systems out there that do care about you all! bab is giving you all little friends to hug and candles 

[stars-in-our-skies]

Hey btw shout out to systems in which loneliness is a huge part of their trauma. Shout out to systems who split alot of alters because they were fucking lonely and isolated as a child and didnt have any other way to cope. Shout out to systems whose loneliness affect(ed) their entire lives, whether that loneliness be caused by parental neglect, or neurodivergency, or whatever. And while im at it shout out to systems who are proud of their brain and headmates for being strong enough to figure a fucking way out of it.

[parablesystem]

A message for protectors/caretakers/gatekeepers/similar roles in systems:

Remember to do something for yourself once in a while, if you can! Front for something fun, or buy something just for yourself, or something like that. You deserve to enjoy yourself, even if your role is mostly helping others in the system be safe and happy.

Also, you're great, and you're doing an amazing job. Shoutout to protector/caretaker/gatekeeper type roles, and similar things. You're so important for your system, and you do so much, make sure to at least give yourself a pat on the back once in a while!

[some-nocturnal-sojourns]

To everybody needing it:

I’m really sorry to hear your day sucked

I’m not sure if tomorrow will be better for you, but it’ll be a reset

You’ll find the courage you need to do That Thing

You are perfectly okay. You’re doing just fine…more than just fine, even. There’s nothing wrong with you. 

Take care of yourself tonight. It’ll be okay.