Fifty Piles Of Shite

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It's my 5 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

Thank you everyone for your support

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Its actions that show someone cares about you, words alone are shallow. Always remember that threats, insults, put downs and humiliating comments are NOT on the image above They are not signs of affection or caring. When someone talks to you using negative and derogatory comments these are not signs that they are a person who cares about you.

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Look for the green flags, if you don't see any, run , Forest run

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You got this, its your day so don't let stuff from the past or anxiety about the future ruin today

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Lots of words to describe your feelings or how the person made you feel

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Always look behind the words at a person actions. It’s how they treat you and others that’s important. Words are meaningless when they just trip off someone’s tongue. Look behind the lies of I love you, you are so beautiful, we are meant to be together. Do their actions show this. What are their words hiding.

I love you, so stay in with me tonight instead of seeing your friends. Is that love or control?

You are so beautiful, you don’t need all that make up, wipe it off, you look better without it. Is that love or undermining your confidence and knocking your self esteem.

We are meant to be together , so what do you want to spend time with them for. Are they looking after your best interest or trying to isolate you from your friends.

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Broxtowe Women's Project Ltd on Facebook Watch

A woman we have had the privilege of helping has written a poem, taking us through her experience of domestic abuse. The poem was recorded

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'Drag saved my life'

Road worker Mark Preston swaps his pneumatic drill and hi-vis for a microphone and wig.

This is my close friend eho helped me through my healing journey. There is always help for you , don’t ever feel that you are alone

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Don’t forget to thank those people who made you feel good

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The narcissist will never fully apologise. They will start off saying “I am sorry “ and then it comes “but......” quickly followed by you provoked me, you upset me, you made me angry, so don’t do it again. This is not a real apology, just them twisting their words to hurt and blame you.

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This was my daily reality for many years. Being told that I wasn’t good enough and that everything was my fault.

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The 8 stages of abuse. Be warned as many of these traits are hidden at first by the smiles, treats and flattery. Beware the wolf in sheep’s clothing.

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You certainly are and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

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The facade of sweetness, smiles and goodness lies a web a deceit and lies. Don’t let yourself be drawn in to the tentacles of pain and hurt that awaits you.