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[fridayyy-13th]

this is a dan and phil hate blog now

[cryptotheism]

Me, two glasses of wine in: "yeah so here's an in depth conversation about my identity as a nonbinary person, and my struggles with transphobia in 2023"

Median Center-Right American Dude at the party, also two drinks in: "Damn that's crazy, I never thought of it like that. Man, I'm sorry you gotta deal with this shit."

Me: "Ahh it's alright. I deal."

Random Guy: "People should just chill tf out."

Me: "Damn right"

[cryptotheism]

Random Guy: "So if you're non binary, and, sorry if this is offensive but I don't know the right words here. Like, is it cross dressing for you if you wear a skirt?"

Me: "Its- hm. Huh. I have no idea."

[cryptotheism]

Guy: "It must have been nice to go to school with other trans people. Like, you must've felt safe."

Me: "No actually it was the opposite. It just made me even more upset and confused. I didn't know what being non-binary was. I saw people that transitioned from one gender to the other and knew I wasn't that. It took me a long time to figure this shit out."

Guy: "man that sounds rough. No wonder you guys are upset all this time this sounds painful."

Me: "Well, it sucks until it suddenly doesn't. It sucks and then it rules hard."

Guy: "so It's like working out."

Me: [both of us are now nodding wisely] "it's like working out."

[cryptotheism]

Guy who has only ever played undertale seeing a skeleton for the first time: "holy shit"

[userlesbian]

❤︎ HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAN ❤︎

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

[deusben]

babe wake up...i need to tell you multiple thoughts that don't corelate at all that i had in the span of five minutes..

[vintage-tigre]

The lifecycle of a cherry

[afurioushawk]

Watching pro-choice principles leave people's bodies when a couple aborts a fetus with Down syndrome.

[kizunatallis]

Everyone who virtue signals about how people with Downs are the sweetest angels and whatnot have not actually dealt with people with Downs for a significant length of time, not seen the less glamorous inspiration porn parts of the disorder, and have only seen the "high functioning" cases at best.

[afurioushawk]

And you can't even make autism comparisons, Downs comes with a lot of other health concerns, including heart surgeries that are required during childhood. And even then, a lot of them don't make it to adulthood.

And even if they didn't have all those other complications, a couple - especially the woman - is well within their rights to say, "I can't commit to raising a child like that and don't want to put them through that" and abort it.

But I'm learning that a lot of Republicans and leftists alike would totally adopt a Down syndrome baby, but just don't for some reason.

[amaditalks]

This is one of those situations where people need to hold multiple ideas in tension with one another, which is difficult for most people to do. But you can be 1000% supportive of the right of any person to terminate a pregnancy at any time for any reason and still be deeply concerned about and even disgusted by the ableist and eugenicist messaging that the particular YouTube couple in question put out to their very wide audience when discussing their decision.

Of course there are people who do not support abortion rights generally and others who don't support terminations for medical reasons that are not fatal. But there are many many others whose issue in this particular situation is that by referring to their fetus or the situation as "a glitch" and saying that they were going to try again for "a better child"the Youtubers blasted their audience with a metric ton of eliminationist rhetoric that will have a knock on impact on the disabled people, especially people with DS or profound intellectual disabilities who are met by audience members who do not have any knowledge of the wide range of what DS can mean, or any familiarity with disability justice. That matters, especially when the Youtubers were completely free to simply say that they terminated the pregnancy for medical reasons without any further comment.

[pebbltree]

pspsps hey guys my friend violet is doing a charity nuzlocke to raise money for Rainbow Railroad, so if anyone likes pokemon or has a dollar or two they wanna throw to a cool streamer for a cool cause, she's streaming here and her tiltify campaign is here! <3

[courtmartialme]

i know everyone is tired of hearing it from me but i'll never be free from how people think you can only ship a het ship WOKELY if the man is a pathetic useless idiot and the girl babysits and pegs him and has the personality of a door. i promise you won't get your woke card revoked if you spend five minutes of your time to consider the girl has a personality and the guy might be a competent person. and maybe she likes getting dicked down and is a little pathetic too. have you considered also liking the girl and maybe wanting her to be a spoiled baby too? also I'll Kill You

[amazinglestowell]

DAN BDAY ART!! HAPPY BDAY DAN!!!

[brideofdilbert]

Girl idek what you meant by that but go off

[donutdrawsthings]

Ok now that Doctor Who is on hiatus (welcome wilderness 2) I'm just going to pretend my Doctor Who girlies are canon

[scootarooni]

Two years ago for Pride I drew a few vocaloids with matching flags. Here's a little continuation of that! Macne Nana and the Agender flag!

Happy Pride!

[mothmanmagicalboy]

no sorry i dont really use instagram, i can contact you via ouija board, spirit box, fluctuations in temperature, flickering lights, and certain rituals. i am also on tumblr.

[anthropologist-on-the-loose]

It is not nearly common enough knowledge that most Native tribes in the U.S. don't actually own all of the land within their reservation. There are millions of acres of reservation land that tribes don't legally own and they have no control over how that land is used. Like, there are a lot of different concepts tied in with the land back movement, but a major one is literally just getting reservation land back into tribal ownership.

[anonpolls]

A strange genie appears and has an offer for you. You’ll be cured of all, you’ll have a stable job you’re happy with, and you’ll basically just live the best life you can imagine. However, there’s a catch—you’ll have to relive one specific grade level from middle or high school (the genie is American).

Which would you pick?

6th grade

7th grade

8th grade

9th/freshman year

10th/sophomore year

11th/junior year

12th/senior year

decline the magician’s offer

none, i am the magician

answers to the magician

Remaining time: 5 days 20 hours

Thanks, Anon!

-submit your poll!-

[chongoblog]

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