Soft and Gentle

*:･*:･ﾟ✧ She/Her ★ College Student ★ Werewolf Inside ★ *:･ﾟ✧*:･

[vixscribs]

Congratulations to Clannad, the only show that can turn the most domestic of occurrences into hype moments. I love you forever

[faeryeee]

get yourself a fat fuck

[lassywendy8]

(⸝⸝⸝>﹏<⸝⸝⸝)

[balloonboyismyson]

IDEA BY @rockint765 I CANNOT STOP LAUGHING

[forturmm]

[mysillycomics]

BIRTH DAY AAAAA

[alexandriaocasiocortez]

Being a flop changed my life. The world is not my oyster, I am glowing. I walked into a pole this morning. There's very little I wouldn't do for $1,000

[cloud-ya]

outcast of the village

[divorce-enjoyer]

put those big brown eyes away dude now is NOT the time

[eyelessfaces]

amazing news for the bisexual community

"oscar isaac" "kristen stewart" "vampire" "thriller" "80s" ???? please

[silvandar]

Isn't that AHS Hotel, but without the complex plots and gore?

[rockpapertheodore]

Sometimes self-care is, actually, NOT getting onto the computer and little treats and watching youtube videos. Sometimes those things are self-care, but sometimes they're also avoidant behaviors.

Sometimes self care is waking up and just. Fucking getting in the car. And driving to the bank. And the store. And buying the cat litter. And changing the cat boxes you've been avoiding because your brains been stuck in a hole. And picking up the trash you've been piling up. And getting a load into the wash. And mowing the lawn before the village council sends you a formal complaint and potential-fines warning.

Like its hard and annoying to do because it sucks. It sucks so much. But if I don't start working on this pile of bullshit I've let build up because it stinks and i was stuck in deer-in-headlights mode, I risk letting it turn into fuckery. I do not have the patience for fuckery that I once - foolishly! - thought I had.

[butch-obliterated]

This mentality helped me so much. Framing my "chores" and mundane tasks as self care and something I can do for myself, really helped me. On a good day I feel like I can genuinely enjoy basic to-dos because I get something nice for myself afterwards, even if that nice thing is just a better living environment. And sometimes it's still too hard, and that's okay too.

[wordfather]

i am aware of the problems. however. i would rather be comfy in my bed. good night.

[lmaonade]

quarters are insane. 4 of them is one real money? what the hell

[albertnatural]

[foxes-in-love]

[lookcaitlin]

[odyssey-of-babbitt]

[romcommunist]

oh your most controversial opinion is that pineapple goes on pizza? should we tell michael scott from the office? maybe joey from friends?

[romcommunist]

ohhhh my god you're fluent in sarcasm?

[romcommunist]

i got inspired

[guerrillatech]

[dancinbutterfly]

THIS. I spent so much of my career working with both of this groups and you need to know? The line between them and you? RAZOR thin. A few thoughtless choices and random chances. Thats it. And for addicts? Babygirl(gender neutral), you have them in your life. Your uncle who has six beers a day, your friend who has three glasses of wine every night, your sibling who can't get through the day without getting high, the fact that maybe you can't get through the day without coffee or a vape? Whoo boy. The recommended (by medical doctors) intake levels for alcohol is fucking low you have no idea. Substance use disorder and addiction is insidious and one day, you make look around and realize that there is a stimulant, a psychadelic, or a depressant that you need to function. And babes, you are treating people like shit because you think you have superiority. But you dont. What you have is luck and better coping skills. Try kindness. Or try being quiet.