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wips, fandom obsessions, and other miscellaneous screaming! if you want art-only, my main blog is @fromzeepewithlove :)

[drangel76]

love or hate flowery you cannot deny his impact on the vocal stimming community. his jarona

[ballgame]

I don't think I've seen this shared here yet (newsletter excerpt for context ↓)

[greenbloods]

we are never going to be free until it literally doesnt matter whether a person is ugly or not

[toastyglow]

I have this pet theory about the "if I'm not good at a new skill right away I just wanna quit" thing. I think maybe it has less to do with like...perfectionism or lack of discomfort tolerance and patience around being bad at something, and more to do with trying to find a reflection of a warped idea of Intrinsic Self-Worth in yourself.

like, perhaps you are seeking out new skills to try not because you're necessarily interested in just being good at them, but specifically to see if you will be exceptionally good at them without trying. ykwim? testing to see if you "have talent" because it would prove to the part of you that doesn't comprehend your inherent preciousness as a living human being that there is "something of value" in you. which, again, the thing of value in you is you. you had inherent immutable value as a baby and babies can't do shit*. do u get me. everything else is just gravy.

it's very easy to learn fast without trying and exceed expectations as a child, for obvious reasons I think. and if that's the only thing you felt valued for, you are gonna miss that feeling like hell as an adult and part of you might even get Big Mad at the insinuation that you have value even if you are truly doing nothing and producing nothing and excelling at nothing. at which point it's time to sit with that feeling and affirm it but also ask it some questions.

so anyway my end point here is that although "you need to get comfortable with being bad at things so that you can get good at them" is not bad advice, I think it might not be addressing the actual source of the issue for a lot of people

*or rather, shit is one of the only things babies CAN do, but either way

[redstonedust]

advertisement is so constant and everywhere i have to wonder if it even works anymore. im aware my bus stop probably has ads on it but i couldnt tell you what for. i hear 'this video is sponsored by' and i start skipping ahead until its over. u can probably argue theyre still getting in your brain by becoming part of the white noise but like idk man. im feelin really "when everything is ads, nothing is." right now.

[queer-here-and-in-fear]

shorthands for dumbassery that i have grown to love deeply

"how dare you say we piss on the poor" in response to someone misinterpreting your post

"_ isnt gonna fuck you" for suck up behavior

"woah. should we tell everyone? should we throw a party?" for who the fuck cares

"and what if the world was made of pudding" for when would this ever matter.

"and sharks are smooth both ways" for a group of people heatedly arguing with 1 guy who is fucking with them all

".. but its about a witch in the alps finding her lost cat" for someone trying to sanitize something to the point of absurdity

[queer-here-and-in-fear]

this is prime proof that this ENTIRE WEBSITE is autistic because nowhere else would a no tags post that's just an informative list about slang get this much traction.

[queer-here-and-in-fear]

anyway more addittions

“30-50 wild hogs” for someone making ABSURD excuses for violence.

“what were YOU doing at the devils sacrament” for how do you know that without being a part of it.

“anyone in this thread smoke weed” for the shit you people are saying is so off topic this might as well be a general discussion forum

“dogs are boys and cats are girls” for ooh ur mindset did not grow past 4th grade, huh

“color theory in a childrens hospital” for bending over backwards to not agree that YEA, that thing Came Off Weird

“you are a tar pit” for someone finding any reason to respond with outrage.

“is the __ in the room with us right now?” for I Don’t Think That’s Real.

“bean soup? im allergic to beans!” for ik this doesn’t work for you, but that’s not a flaw. not everything can be for you.

“people irl: hey man hows it going” for this will Never Matter irl

[teslafactory]

this is the most tumblrified man to have ever existed

[bedupolker]

incredibly minor but still dumb side effect of late stage capitalism: ever notice how so many concert venues and stadiums just have the lamest names imaginable. Like ooooh Lady Gaga is playing at the..... Mortgage Stadium? Oh boy the finals are at the.... Chase Bank arena. Can't wait to catch a game at the Garunteed Rate field.

[bedupolker]

yes this exactly

[cannibalchicken]

[dehydratedbunny]

reblog to do this to the person you reblogged this from

[that-house]

[gabwynart]

Guys I did it yay, Toby Fox if you are reading this PLEASE STOP MAKING BOSSES KILLING YOU IN 4 HITS, some of US really SUCK at dodging but we love deltarune </3

[unichrome]

I’m slowly beginning to accept the reality that 2007 was not last year but in fact almost four years ago

[thatscottster24]

"Ok I KNOW I said I wasn't gonna see any chapter 5 content until I finished Chapter 4 but my sister wanted the Switch and I'm curious about the weird route since my friend said it gets into Fucked Up territory and I like angsty stuff like that so let's just watch a video on the weird route and see what happens!!! Hahahaha wait why is it only 30 minutes. I know there's the festival stuff but why is it only-"

I was then greeted by levels of Fucked Up territory too high for me to handle.

[deathchic]

“average flower attempts suicide 3 times per chapter” statistic untrue. Suicide “Yellow” Georg, who lives in a castle and does nothing but try to kill himself all day, is an outlier and should not have been counted

[entryn17]

compilation

[inkyaltbitts]

IM SORRY????? WHAT???

[winged-wolf-s-collection-of-arts]

FLOWERY HATE COMPILATION. Roughly 140 separate posts, collected over five and a half hours

@ifuckinghateflowery