This is a list of 25 ideas that I found here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=823061
This slave has “mastered” the bathroom control in D/s relationship. I sure love it and just by reading it, I am turned on. :)
1. Require her to report for permission every time she uses the toilet. This is an oldie but a goodie. Great for age play and pet play, it has extra effect when you determine how the request should be phrased — for many a sub, the only thing more clit-awakening than asking “May I go to the bathroom, sir?” is leaning over in front of family to whisper in her dom’s ear, “Master, I need to go potty.”
2. Set a minimum and maximum number of bathroom visits per day. This ensures she’s drinking enough water, but can be very uncomfortable if she misjudges. If she needs to drink enough water to be pissing at least 12 times, but can’t go more than 14, she’ll be constantly thinking about controlling her body for you.
3. Allow literal toilet use only two or three times a day, or only for shitting — the rest of the time, let her go as often as she likes, but it has to be down the bath drain, in the backyard, in a litter box, in the kitchen sink, in a chamber pot or clear bowl …
4. Print out a log sheet and post it on the bathroom wall with a pen, then make her record every bathroom visit. A wonderful low-effort micromanagement technique, this can be varied according to your play style as you make her record time in and time out for strict management play, note consistency and rate difficulty or need to go for medical roles, and earn gold stars for going on the potty for ageplay. This also works well combined with …
5. Make her keep track of the volume of her pee. Keep a measuring cup in the bathroom and require her to use it to catch her piss. This lets you test how well she’s holding it and how badly she needed to go if you’re limiting her, or make sure she’s drinking enough if you’re managing her intake.
6. Set a toileting schedule for her. This can be fairly simple — you must go and pee at 12 noon, 2 o’clock, 4 o’clock, and 6 o’clock every afternoon, and woe betide you if you can’t go. Or it can be quite elaborate: at 2:30, you will make a 30-second bathroom visit for pissing only; at 3:20, you may visit again and must piss, and shitting is permitted.
7. Legislate a minimum and maximum period for bathroom visits. Depending on your number, this will result in her either rushing to empty herself in just too few seconds, or sitting on the toilet for five boring minutes able to think about nothing but doing exactly as you tell her. Setting a kitchen timer is a nice touch with this rule as she waits for the bell to free her or to stop her up again.
8. Place clamps on her body every time she visits the bathroom. When I did this for a previous dom, it was two clothespins which were clearly labeled “piss pins”; I could place them on my nipples, my pussy lips, my tongue, my ass cheeks, wherever I chose, but I had to be clamped to pee. Whether she places them herself or has to bring them to you to be fixed on her body is up to you!
9. Make her eat a meal while sitting on the toilet. Even if she’s not required to pee during her dinner, this is an unnerving experience. Increase the emotional impact by telling her she can’t be trusted to control herself for the length of a mealtime, so she’ll just have to stay there. This is a great punishment for an accident, or a fun thing to spring on her unexpectedly.
10. Require her to spread herself with her hands before she can eliminate — opening her ass wide to shit, holding her cunt lips apart while she pisses. If she forgets, give her some nice abrasions on her lips so that pee will sting and remind her.
11. Establish a rule that she must clean the toilet thoroughly every time she uses it. If she’s into humiliation, this is excellent — you’re so filthy that the toilet has to be cleaned whenever you touch it — but it’s also a subtle way to get her to control herself for you. For a severe punishment, increase this to cleaning the toilet both before and after she goes, or cleaning the whole bathroom every time she pees.
12. Make her clean herself in a humiliatingly thorough way each time she uses the toilet. I had a dom who required this and called it my bitch-bath. I used soap and ice water followed by toothpaste on my asshole for a nice burn, but try filling a squirt bottle with cold water for painful direct jets, having her scrub herself with a toothbrush, or making her use a little diluted alcohol (NOT strong acetone) to wipe between her lips.
13. As a humiliating addition to 12, mix her pussy-bath blend ahead of time (try some of the old-fashioned alcohol mouthwash for a good tingle), label it clearly as pussy and ass wash, and keep it visible. Eau de Cunt?
14. Tell her she is allowed to use the toilet whenever she wants, but she is not permitted to pull her panties down. This keeps her from needing to wake you for permission to pee in the morning if you don’t have her sleep in panties, but makes her beg you the rest of the time. Sometimes, refuse to pull them down and watch her panties get slowly wet while she sits on the toilet and pleads with you. This also works nicely with split-crotch panties which she is forbidden to remove under any circumstance.
15. Require her to strip completely every time she uses the toilet — a nice way of sexualizing the use of her privates, and an especially difficult and possibly humiliating proposition in public restroom stalls.
16. Forbid her to wipe herself. This means she has a choice of calling you for help, waiting on the toilet until she drips dry, or dealing with a slightly damp crotch every time she pisses. This is great for Daddies and girls as, if she’s been shitting, you can make her do as some parents require their little girls to do and bend over to touch her toes (sitting or standing) while you wipe her up.
17. Invest in a child’s potty, an old chamber pot, or a bedpan and place it in the bathroom; make her use it, empty it into the toilet, and wash it each time. Squatting on the floor to go while at eye level with the toilet is a great degradation and extra task.
18. Put the toilet seat up and keep it up, so she has to be very careful how she sits on the uncomfortable rim. For an especially cruel look and a constant reminder, duct-tape the seat to the toilet tank so she can’t sneak it down while she shits.
19. Supervise her on the toilet. Depending on your roles, tell her that you’re watching to make sure she doesn’t touch herself, that you’re making sure she behaves herself on the potty for Daddy, or simply that there’s no part of herself she gets to hide from you.
20. Establish foot marks with painter’s tape on the floor to remind her that a lady’s legs should be held wide apart at all times, including while pissing. Make her keep her feet on the marks while she goes. To stop her from trying to make extended bathroom visits easier on herself, put her on the toilet and have her spread as wide as she can when you establish the marks without telling her what you’re doing, or measure how far apart her toes are while she’s displaying herself in a regular chair.
21. Make her wipe with her bare hands, then wash them after she’s cleaned her private parts thoroughly. Inspect her afterward to make sure she’s being thorough in her wiping, including just inside her holes.
22. If she really hates being dirty, well, that’s made to be taken advantage of. Bring in some garden dirt and rub it between her legs after she’s both pissed and shit. Even if you allow her to use toilet paper, she’ll still be able to feel how grimy she is — just right for punishing a slave who’s too prissy.
23. Sit in the next room and call out when she is to stop and start the flow of pee or the slide of shit. This is extremely difficult with a full bladder and is also a great way to make a reluctant Kegel-er do her exercises.
24. After she goes, put a blanket on the floor, make her lie on it with her knees up and spread or hold her legs back in the air, and use baby wipes to clean her ass and pussy thoroughly. This is a great substitute for a punishment diapering when travelling or if you don’t want to deal with changing her — less mess and nuisance, but it captures the feeling of helplessness, degradation, and loss of control over one’s own bodily functions.
25. Don’t allow her to sit on the toilet. Make her put her feet on the seat and squat like a bitch puppy instead. This is a great position for holding herself open as in 10. For a more severe variation, place a low chair or footstool on either side of the toilet; make her stand with her legs on these and let her piss fall from the height. Lift the seat for less mess. It might be easier for her to balance if she faces the tank and the wall. She won’t be able to shit standing, but pissing should be possible, and she’ll worry the whole time.
Worth it to read, right? :)
