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[temptingdominance]

Stop Right There Boy

Yes boy, I am talking to you.

I know you are scrolling through your dashboard or perhaps even browsing around my blog. I know you are a little turned on right now. But you could be so much more, you ache to be so much more. You sit there rubbing your boy dick. You want to be a good submissive boy.

You’ve been looking at pictures and reading words. You have been letting your mind wonder. Perhaps you want a cock in your mouth. Perhaps you want to be tied up. Or perhaps you just want a man to give you the structure and desire you need in life.

What underwear do you have on tonight?

Unless it is a pair of briefs or a jock… get up right now and change. You are not be reading my words, feeling that tingle inside your ear unless you dressed in a manner that expect out of my boy.

Good boy.

That is what you want isn’t it boy? You want to be a good boy. It isn’t just to be any boy. You want to be my boy. You went through that checklist of submission yesterday. You need more. You are ready to give in. You are ready to give yourself to me. It doesn’t even matter what “it” is, you want it. You find yourself needing it. You crave it.

You are a submissive boy. You are a little bitch boy. You are a cockslut. You are a fuck toy. You are a play toy. It doesn’t matter… you want to be all of that for me.

Come sit in my lap, boy.

Come show me what you are. Show me that I can touch you. Show me that I can graze my lips along your neck. Show me that you are mine. Show me that no one else matters. Allow me to touch your soft sweet skin. Allow me to slide my hand in your underwear and hold that which is mine.

I will never force you. I will never take it in a bout of rage. You will give it all to me. You offer it to me. You will want me to take it. I will make your very soul ache by my words. I want you to accept me. I want you to give yourself to me.

Look down at your underwear boy. Are you hard? Do I have an effect on you? This crude test is simple enough to know that you want me.

My dominance is different. You know that. If you respect me, I will respect you. I will teach you. I will hold you. I will treasure you. You will be your own person, but always come home to me.

You may not be near me right now boy. But perhaps in the future, you will be. Perhaps you will be mine soon enough. I am but a simple Man. A Man who needs a boy to grow and develop as a person. I will push you, but I want you to push me even more.

So I ask you… what you have you done to show me your submission?

Have you sent me the tender gift of adoration that so lovingly adorns my lips? Have you send me a message that fills my soul? Have you read my words and know my desires?

You can keep scrolling if you like, boy. But I ask you to take a moment and accept who and what you are.

I am waiting. 

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[kp-tyson]

The Art of Submission

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what it is to be a sub, a fag, a boy, a slave, in relation to a Dom, Alpha, Sir, Master. What is Dominance/submission? How is it defined? I recently started mentoring a young sub, and this is something I need to help him understand.

The Axioms of Dominance/submission

There are some essential truisms at the heart of Dominance/submission, lets call them Axioms of Dominance/submission:

1. The pleasure of the Dom is paramount

The Doms pleasure is the subs purpose. The sub selflessly, and without judgement, serves the Doms pleasure in every aspect of the Doms life, sex, and well-being.

Related Posts: Features of Dominant Pleasure, Forms of Dominant Pleasure

2. The Dom is in control of his pleasure

Who will serve Him

When he gets served

Where he gets served

How he gets served

What equipment he uses to control the sub (i.e. bondage)

3. The subs purpose is the pleasure of the Dom

The subs focus is always on the Doms pleasure, never his own

The sub only feels pleasure through the pleasure of the Dom

The sub may endure physical and mental pain and discomfort giving pleasure to the Dom

The Equivelance Principle of Dominance/submission

Dominance/submission work as a single indivisible whole. Dominance can only exist with submission, and submission can only exist with Dominance. 

The Dom is Superior, the sub inferior

The Dom is controlling, the sub is controlled

The Dom is penetrating, the sub is penetrated

The Dom gives, the sub receives

The Dom whips, the sub takes the pain

Etc

In hierarchical terms the Dom is above the sub, but there is a fundamental Equivalence Principle of Dominance/submission. One that states that Dominance and submission are regarded equally in the indivisible whole. Both Dominance and submission are equally valued, respected, and commended.

There must be balance between the Dominance and submission. The level of Dominance must be balanced by the level of submission otherwise the D/s relationship will not work. And the sub should never feel shame in submission, even when humiliated and degraded by the Dom. The Dom respects, values, and commends the sub for what he is, as much as the sub respects, values, and commends the Dom.

Limits of Submission

Although the Dom is limitless in his pursuit of pleasure and his control of how he gets it (subject to the law and his personal situation). The sub often has limits to how he serves his Dom. These limits can be social and/or service based.

The sub is only human, he must prioritise his submission to the Dom alongside earning money, relationships outside D/s, spousal relationships, hobbies/sports, parents, etc. These are social limits. Many of these will take priority over service to the Dom at some time or another. The sub must work to be creative in freeing up time for serving his Dom.

The sub also has service limits. Things the sub will not do in the service of his Dom. A subs limits are based on fear, disgust, or self-preservation. The Dom has a right to push those limits in the pursuit of his pleasure, and the sub must accept that to be good. A good Dom will respect these limits, and gently and carefully push them, but never disregard them. And always seek feedback from his sub.

The Doms demands for pleasure must be balanced with the subs ability to service them. It is a balance that both Dom and sub must work to achieve.

Trust

Trust between the Dom and sub is possibly the most important component of Dominance/submission. The trust flows both ways and must always be balanced.

Both Dom and sub must be open and honest with each other in order to grow and improve, thus maximising the pleasure and satisfaction achieved. The Dom must give honest feedback to the sub regarding the subs service. The sub must be honest about how he is feeling with respect to his service of the Dom.

The sub must trust the Dom to respect his limits, and to push those limits appropriately, in order to help the sub develop in his submission.

The Dom must trust the sub to work for his pleasure, well-being, and happiness, and never harm the Dom in any way.

Both Dom and sub should agree to NEVER lie to tell half-truths to the other! The loss of trust inevitably will end a D/s relationship.

The Art of Submission: Tenets and Virtues

Submission is an art. One that a sub works throughout his life to master. The Dom helps train the sub by controlling the sub to gain maximum pleasure from himself. It is the duty of the sub to learn from the Dom, his sub mentors, and life in general in order to master the art of submission. As much as it is the duty of the Dom to master the art of Dominance. The sub must work to improve his skills and abilities, experiment and improve his techniques, allow his limits to be slowly pushed, learn to serve in new and creative ways, and become the eye candy that maximizes the Doms desire. The sub must judge the responses of the Dom and correct himself accordingly to constantly improve.

The art of submission has 3 tenets, each with virtues. These are the dimensions that the sub strives to perfect.

1. Submitting to Dominance

Submitting to Service - Obedience to the Dom, sexual service, domestic service, and all service in its various forms

Submitting to Pain - Submitting to the pain of the Dom in all its various forms.

Submitting to Humiliation - Submitting to humiliation and degradation inflicted by the Dom in all its various forms.

Submitting to Bondage - Submitting to physical restraint and controls, bondage in all its various forms.

2. Conditioning for Submission

Fitness - Keeping the body fit, keeping the body supple, and maintaining good mental health enables the sub to better serve the Dom, and look good doing it.

Grooming - Personal grooming, sexually attractive attire, and general style help the sub look his best for the Dom, maximizing the Doms pleasure.

Cleanliness - Personal hygiene and high cleanliness standards, both for play and in general, enable the sub to please the Dom without distraction or mishap.

3. Growth of Submission

Skill Development - Improving the skills, techniques, and abilities the sub needs to better serve the Dom (e.g. cock sucking, nipple play, etc).

Limit Extension - Extend and push limits of submission ever further to enable a more diverse service for the Dom.

Sub Spirit - By learning and understanding the philosophy of submission the sub grows his sub spirit such that he may better serve his Dom. (Posts relating the the Spirituality of Submission can be found here).

Each sub has my natural strengths and weaknesses in each of these 3 tenets and 10 virtues. A Dom has his own preferences and requirements for his sub. To achieve perfection The sub must master each virtue and hence master the art of submission.

[kp-tyson]

Features of Dominant Pleasure

This post is further to The Art of Submission, and provides some additional thoughts on the first Axiom of Submission: 

The Pleasure of the Dom is Paramount - The Doms pleasure is the subs purpose. The sub selflessly, and without judgement, serves the Doms pleasure in every aspect of the Doms life, sex, and well-being. 

There are 3 posts on this topic, each with my thoughts on submission, and what is required of the sub:

Features of Dominant Pleasure

Forms of Dominant Pleasure

Types of Dominant Pleasure (future post)

This post relates to the features, or characteristics, of the Doms pleasure and the subs role in serving that pleasure.

Features of Dominant Pleasure

There are 3 key features to Dominant Pleasure:

1. It is Ubiquitous

The Doms pursuit of pleasure extends across his entire existence; his life and overall happiness, his sexual pleasure, and his health and well being. The sub is required to understand his role in this:

The sub enhances the Doms life - The subs purpose is to make the Doms life better. This may include domestic service, financial service, work related service, etc. As the sub enhances the life of his Dom, so his own life is enhanced by the Dom.

The sub serves the Doms sexual pleasure - The sub serves the Doms sexual pleasure. The sub works to service the Doms sexual needs, conditions himself for sexual service, improves his skills and techniques, expands his limits, and grows in his submission.

The sub protects the Doms well-being - The sub works to protect the Doms physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. This includes the Doms health, lifestyle, work, social relationships, family, etc. The sub must never harm the Dom in any way. The sub exercises appropriate discretion with respect to his service to the Dom. The sub is under protection of his Dom in a similar fashion.

In all of the above roles, any specific needs the Dom may have and limits the sub may have should be balanced. 

2. It is Selfish

The Doms own pleasure is his singular concern and focus. The Dom is greedy in pursuit of his pleasure, it is often inconsiderate and uncharitable. The sub is required to understand his role in this:

The sub is Selfless - The Doms pleasure is the priority of the sub. The subs pleasure is not important. The sub must be as selfless as the Dom is selfish.

The sub expects no thanks, pity, or reward - The sub must fulfil his role in service of the Dom without expectation of thanks, pity, or reward. Submission is it’s own reward. In fact, it is possible for a Dom to disrespect the submission by thanking a sub, and Doms should be cognisant of this fact.

The sub graciously accepts thanks, pity, and reward - If the Dom chooses to thank, reward, or pity the sub, then the sub must accept this graciously and in turn thank the Dom for his generosity.

The subs permission is accepted - Once the sub agrees to serve the Dom, the sub has given permission for the Dom to use him in any way he requires within his limits. No further permission from the sub is required. In fact, the Dom may disrespect the submission by asking further permission to use the subs and Doms should be cognisant of this fact.

There are situations where the sub may feel pleasure during his service to the Dom, each of them in selfish service of the Doms pleasure:

The sub may receive pleasure as a by-product - The sub may receive pleasure as a by-product of the Doms pleasure. For example, the subs g-spot being hit as he is fucked by the Dom. 

The sub may receive pleasure to recondition - The Dom may train the sub such that the Dom can gain greater pleasure for himself. This training often involves pleasure to mentally recondition the sub. For example, training the sub to take greater levels of pain often involves giving the sub pleasure right after or before giving him pain. 

The sub may receive pleasure as a Reward - The Dom may give the sub pleasure to reward the sub for good service. This encourages the sub to continue and get better in his service to the Dom.

The sub may receive pleasure as a pleasure to the Dom - The Dom may gain pleasure by inducing, watching, hearing, and feeling pleasure in the sub.

When experiencing pleasure the sub must make it obvious to the Dom by moaning, grunting, stating it, etc. The more pleasure experienced by the sub, the more obvious to the Dom it should be e.g. increasing loud moaning as more pleasure is felt by the sub.

The sub should not confuse his gaining pleasure for selflessness on the part of the Dom, as this may lead to selfishness in the sub. Doms should be careful in giving pleasure to the sub since, if done to excess, could lead to a loss of submission on the part of the sub. If the sub is given excessive pleasure the Dom should balance it with pain in order to maintain the submission.

3. It is Shameless, Guiltless, and Without Regret

The Doms pleasure may be gained in inconventional ways due to the Doms personal fetishes and circumstances. The Dom may have fetishes that the sub does not share nor understand. The Dom may use and abuse the sub, and feel no guilt nor regret in doing this, as long as the Doms pleasure is legal, safe, between consenting adults, and respectful of the subs limits. The sub is required to understand his role in this:

The sub has no judgement - The Dom has the right to any pleasure without shame. The sub must make no judgement on the Doms fetishes, or any of his demands.

The sub causes no guilt nor regret - The Dom may excessively push beyond the subs limits. The Dom may, without malice, make mistakes and misjudgements. If this is so, the sub objectively provides feedback to the Dom without engendering guilt or regret on the part of the Dom. The sub forgives the Dom without need for apology.

The sub is obedient without question - The sub obediently serves the Doms pleasure, whatever it may entail, without question. The sub does not need to understand the Doms pleasure in order to fulfil it, although this is preferable. The sub should work to understand the Doms fetishes and circumstances in order to serve him better.

The sub considers his limits - If the sub has limits with respect to a Doms fetishes then this should be established early. If the sub chooses to serve the Dom whose fetishes align with the subs limits then the sub should expect the Dom to push the subs limits in that regard. Subs should consider this prior to serving a Dom whose fetishes align to the subs hard limits.

The sub does not evaluate the Dom - Each Dom is unique, with distinct experience level, attitudes, opinions, fetishes, and demands. The sub does not criticise the Dom, compare/contrast the Dom with others, nor evaluate the Dom in any way.

Since the sub must protect the Doms well-being, he must exercise appropriate discretion in relation to his service to the Dom, especially in regard to a Doms unusual fetishes and demands.

[dominantacademy]

Responsibilities of the Dominant

Being a Dominant may start out as just fun, kinky play - but when becoming involved and entangled in most D/s dynamics, you take on certain responsibilities along with that role.  Based on experience, reflections, and answers to a survey, these are the seven responsibilities of a Dominant.

A Dominant must:

1.  Respect.  There must be respect for the submissive - respect for their desires and wishes; respect for their nurturing and growth; respect for their consent, body, and safety.  Dominance without respect becomes dangerous.

2.  Protect.  Taking on a submissive is a serious undertaking, and the Dominant becomes responsible for their protection and safekeeping.  They must be kept protected from others and even from certain parts of themselves.  Dominance without protection is powerless.

3.  Direct.  The Dominant must command, instruct, and guide on no uncertain terms.  Directions must be clear, concise, realistic, and specific. This is the primary active role of the Dominant, to provide direction and guidance to the submissive.  Dominance without direction is inadequate.

4.  Inspire.  It is not enough for a Dominant to simply give direction; they must inspire the submissive to obey the direction.  In different dynamics, this will take different forms - submissives may be inspired by fear, pain, command presence, love, experience, or a number of other factors and qualities.  Dominance without inspiration is contrived.

5.  Correct.  Once direction is given, the Dominant must follow through and correct any faults and shortcomings observed in the submissive’s obedience - with any discipline required to enforce the corrections.  Dominance without correction is unproductive, or worse, counter-productive.

6.  Nurture.  Direction and correction should be given to grow and better a submissive, not just for the sake of it.  A Dominant should challenge a submissive, expand their limits, and encourage their potential.  Dominance without nurturing is tautological.

7.  Learn.  The Dominant must learn from experience, successes and mistakes, feedback from the submissive, and research.  They should always be actively learning and seeking to expand their knowledge in order to better dominate and direct.  Dominance without learning is irresponsible.

[hornycumdump]

TIPS for training a pussyboy

Are you a Total Top? Do you want your boy to become fully passive pussyboy and completely dependent on his hole for all orgasms and sexual pleasure? Then you need to train him to think of his ass as a fully functional pussy. The advice below does not apply to versatile couples, only to those interested in a Total Top/pussyboy type arrangement.

Tips for training a pussyboy:

1. Discourage use of his cock. Every time he uses his cock he is experiencing pleasure as a Top, is neglecting his pussy and learning to get off with his cock instead of his hole. If you aren’t into the whole BDSM and chastity scene, encourage him to hold back from masturbating with his dick, and encourage him to finger himself instead. If you are in bed together and he is trying to wank, push his hands away from his cock so he gets used to sexual pleasure without associating it with cock pleasure. When you fuck him make sure he is focused on the sensations his pussy is giving him by not allowing him to wank during sex - fuck him in a position that is difficult for him to do so such as face down on the bed.  Buy him jocks so that his cock is hidden away and minimised but his pussy and ass is on display and have sex while he wears these so he learns that his cock is not necessary for good sex. Very controversially, and only if this fits with the type of relationship you have, encourage the boy to feel naughty if he touches his dick, but reward him for playing with his pussy. If he has a small dick, or if it is smaller than yours, remind him how small it is compared to your cock, and encourage him to think that his cock is small because it is only meant to pee and not to fuck. Fucking is reserved for Men/Daddies/Tops with Real Cocks, not for a boy and his little nubbin. If he is caught touching his dick, act disappointed, so he feels shame when he touches himself there. Of course if you are in a BDSM relationship then there are many options available to you to reinforce this notion that boy touching his nubbin is bad - whether through chastity or punishment. The idea is to encourage negative feelings towards his cock and achieving orgasm in a conventionally ‘male’ way.

2. Make him feel good about his pussy. All boys are naturally self conscious and worried about what their Daddy/Top thinks about them. By telling him how beautiful and delicious his pussy is, and letting him know how much you love it as often as you can, he will gain confidence in his pussy and be much more comfortable in showing it off and using it. Reinforce behaviour which glorifies his pussy and puts it at the forefront of his sexual pleasure and identity. Much like you are trying to promote a feeling of the forbidden and negative towards his cock in tip 1, here you are trying to promote feelings of desirability and positivity surrounding his pussy and being a pussyboy.

3. Give him pleasure through his pussy. If you want him to be a true bottom and love it, you need to make sure he is feeling satisfied enough anally to forget about his dick. Casually grab his ass cheeks, rub his hole when kissing, play with it during foreplay and ignore his cock completely. As covered in previous posts, REAL MEN EAT PUSSY. If you truly love boy pussy then you will lick, suck and eat it out and make him moan like a bitch on heat and beg for your cock. Rub it. Play with it. Give him pleasure through it, and when you do come round to fucking it, make sure you drive him wild through the fuck and aim to give him an anal orgasm if possible. When he does have an anal orgasm, kiss him, congratulate him, make him feel proud for being a good bottom. Remember that especially for a young boy to ignore his cock and try to experience pleasure through his pussy alone is a VERY difficult task. That means that as a Top you need to be up to the task of giving him the satisfaction necessary for him to feel that it is worth all the trouble and denial he is going through.

4. Combat his shame. A lot of pussyboys may feel shame for many reasons. They may feel shame for being gay, or that they are not very masculine compared to other boys/Men. They may worry about what people think about them. Even if they come to terms with being gay and being less masculine, they may still feel bad about being exclusively passive pussyboys because let’s face it, Tops get a lot more respect than bottoms both from gays and straights. In order for your boy to truly feel comfortable in his own skin and identity as a fully 100% passive pussyboy and completely give himself to you, and by extension accept you as his 100% active long-term partner, you need to not only encourage that behaviour, but let him know that being a pussyboy is OK and anyone who disagrees can go fuck themselves. An important way to do this is to reinforce the message that you are his Man/Daddy and you will keep him safe and protect him from what any haters may say or think. Show him your love and affection as well as your dominance.

If you follow the above with a boy who is willing and wants to be trained then you may well end up in the Yin and Yang type relationship so many people idolise. Man and pussyboy the same as Man and wife. Opposites which fit together perfectly to make a whole.

[cutepussyboy]

Can I get an amen? 🙏

[myseriouslykinkymind]

I was reminded yesterday how ruined orgasms work.

We’re on vacation. Intense hotel sex, yelling our heads off. The next room pounds on the wall, which sends him into overdrive. The world hears him cum.

He flips me over and starts stroking me like he means it. It’s feels odd being unrestrained. I ask permission to play with my nipples. Granted! I warn him I’m close. He says stop talking.

Still sweaty from the fuck, he grins as I get closer and closer. It’s been weeks. I’m so fucking excited to cum! It’s gonna be massive.

He reads me like a book. At the worst possible moment, he stops. Jerks my hands away from my nipples. Pins my wrists to the bed. Sits on my thighs so I can’t thrust. He’s so much stronger.

A single pathetic ribbon of cum dribbles out. As I writhe and shriek, I feel a blindingly powerful orgasm well up, then slowly slip away. It’s agonizing. Profoundly unfair. For a second, I hate his guts.

When it’s over, he releases me. I’m almost in tears. Never been hornier. Never more humiliated. He leans over, cups my face in his hands, and smiles like a sadist.

“You’re welcome.”

[servanttrainer-deactivated20201]

After a year and a half of using him, I have acquired a slave who is now living with me and serving 24/7/365. I have been following your blog with interest for some time and have learned a lot and continue to learn. One thing I have learned is to be patient and take my time training him since I have many years to customize him, to use your term, which I love!Is there one thing you have trained your slave which you think is the most important? Anything you would recommend I focus on?

Congratulations in acquiring a male!  It is not always easy to hunt down, much lesstrap prey.   

And thank you for your kind words.  I am honored. Please do not take what I say as Gospel. Take my thoughts and ideas, use them if they advance your goals, rejectthose that do not and modify them if they are not pertinent to your purpose. 

Over the years, I have found two most basic things to traininto my property. 

First, train him that he is a submissive more than anythingelse; that submission is his defining quality and identity.  That he can never find full satisfaction orfull fulfillment doing anything other than submitting.  That all other aspects of his personality,all other values and characteristics he may have pale in comparison to hisbeing submissive.  If he defines himselfas a submissive above all else, you will be able to train him to do anything;customize him in any way you wish.  Hewill not only accept your training, but will find each step as a step to beingmore complete, more whole. 

Second, train him that you are the only one who knows him,who truly understands him, who can lead him to his truth as a submissive.  Others may be able to use him and providefleeting satisfaction, bt none really know him. None can reach deeply inside of him and draw out and satisfy his mostbasic, most raw needs.  This will bindhim to you and he will never want to leave you for someone else.  He will be bound in gratitude to you and verylikely in love.  He will nt go anywhereelse and will feel obligated to obey anything and everything you require ofhim. 

Good luck with your property.  Enjoy customizing him.

[fuckyeahcagednpegged]

source: https://www.reddit.com/user/gynephilos

[gayethicalslut]

Day 6 and thinking about how I can milk myself while being locked. Would be amazing to learn and eventually master prostate orgasms.

[m4mdiscipline]

How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

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[fundaylooking]

Good info!

[fuckyeahcagednpegged]

[bredbeta]

A worthy goal towards which to strive.

[smoothguy2-deactivated20140403]

A good cocksucker does so much more than get a guy off.

[grover3]

smoothguy2Deactivated

A good cocksucker does so much more than get a guy off.

A cocksucker does much more than just suck your dick and bring you to orgasm.

1. He also worships your manhood. A cocksucker understands the enormous privilege he has when you allow him to suck your cock.The more you give it to him the hungrier he gets and the better he will perform, devoting himself exclusively to your total pleasure.

2, A good cocksucker makes your dick the center of the world while he’s on his knees. That’s a big turn-on for most men.

3. You don’t have to feel guilty about using a cocksucker instead of having mutual sex with him. A cocksucker wants to be used, wants to make it all about you and your pleasure, your cock, your masculinity. He’s on his knees to serve you, his feeder. A cocksucker doesn’t expect or want reciprocation. He is happy to go after he has served you.

4. A cocksucker allows you to express your dominance, as the cocksucker necessarily submits to you and allows himself to be used. Most men love to be dominant, and you can’t get much more dominant over another man than by using him for sexual pleasure and sticking your dick in his mouth. Having your cock worshipped by another man, on his knees, and seeing the hunger and need in his eyes, amplifies your power and reinforces your dominance. Over time you become more superior.

5. A  cocksucker will allow your superiority to inform and guide his worship.In turn this will enable you to realise, if you didn’t already, that you can get a cocksucker to serve you any way you want and you don’t need to hold back.

6. Cocksuckers expect to be used this way. Its how they are and what they need to be fulfilled.

This is why men use cocksuckers. Or could if they wanted to.

If you’re a feeder reading this, I’d love to hear what your cocksucker does for you and how it makes you fee

[cigaraussie-deactivated20181225]

Nails it.  This is exactly what @miasubboy does for Me.  Selfless service in worship of My Cock.

[dcit-slave]

Very well written.

[hungsubdad]

So well expressed, deserves a reblog.

[temptingdominance]

Just a friendly reminder

I know there’s a lot of really heavy and intense things on Tumblr that reflect a fantasy world of BDSM. There’s a lot of people out there that will tell you that you have to obey without question. That you have to endure somebody treating you like shit because you’re a submissive. That you have to be an object.

I want to remind you that isn’t true. Most of the captions written on Tumblr would never be said in real life. I guarantee you that these people don’t have the balls to walk up to somebody and say that to them out of the blue. They thrive off of anonymity. It allows them to forget their Humanity.

Trust me, I understand there’s a time and a place for humiliation and degradation. But no human being deserves to be treated like that 24/7. We are social creatures. Our emotional and mental health needs affirmation at times.

Basically I’m trying to remind you that submission is a gift. To those of you that are new, you don’t have to put up with being treated poorly simply because somebody tells you that’s the way it is. It isn’t that way.

People can dismiss me. They can call me overly romantic. But here’s the thing about being a dominant, you have to in some form care about the other person. Otherwise you’re just a fraud.

[temptingdominance]

What do I want from a boy?

So I have four asks in my inbox on this same question, “what are you looking for in a boy?” I thought I’d just take a moment to respond.

To be my boy, I need you to be in Arizona. I’m looking for something more meaningful that could grow towards something more. I’m not opposed to hook ups but I am just craving more in life.

I need you to want cuddles. This is not some joke. Within the dominant design, there is some myth of always being hardcore. There is little affection. I want to cuddle. I want you to want to cuddle a lot.

Please like underwear. Please wear briefs for me. Please put a jock or thong on when I ask. Please let me spoil you with random pairs to wear for me because it makes me happy.

Enjoy spanking. This is perhaps a wishlist item. I know it isn’t for everyone. I really love to spank a beautiful bottom. I don’t want to bruise or hurt you. But I want it rosy red. I want to warm it up and kiss it.

Let me tie you up and tease you for as long as I want. I love to edge and milk. My dominance is centered on pleasurable torment. I love to make you moan and groan for me. I want you to love it.

Never make me want for pleasure. I like having my cock sucked. I like to get off. I like to enjoy your body. It isn’t my constant focus but what makes excited is seeing you eager to please.

Let me kiss you whenever I want.

Let me hold your hand whenever I crave it.

I like to think I’m a hopeful romantic, but this is what I want.

[masterducato-deactivated2018121]

Slave Contract

This is a sample slave contract I wrote up to better define what I want out of a slave. Some provisions would need to be specifically negotiated between the parties.

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This contract sets forth parameters regarding the relationship between Party A, “<name>”, and Party B, “<name>”. Party A shall herein be referred to as “Master” or “the Master”; Party B shall herein be referred to as “slave” or “the slave”. Each Party shall abide by the terms of this contract to the best of their ability. Where one or more parties has a dispute concerning a matter governed by this contract, they shall first resolve such dispute(s) according to the terms of this contract.

1.0 Declaration of Consent

By signing this contract and acting in accordance with its terms, each Party provides affirmative consent to all other actions, including actions taken against them, that are:

a. in accordance with the terms of this contract; and

b. conducted with the intent to fulfill the terms of this contract.

By signing this contract and acting in accordance with its terms, the slave provides affirmative consent to physical contacts by other parties that would objectively be considered non-consensual.

1.1 Communication

The slave must, at all times, refer to the Master as “Sir” or “Master.”

The slave must, at all times, act toward the Master with respect and humility.

The slave must not speak unless he is spoken to.

The slave may only speak sua sponte to ask the Master for his permission to carry out a specified act.

If provisions of this contract come into conflict with one another, the Master shall decide which provision supersedes the other.

1.2 Obedience

To the best of his ability, the slave must carry out any command that the Master gives him.

When given a command, the slave must promptly reply with “yes Sir” or “no Sir.”

The slave shall defer at all times to the judgment of the Master.

1.3 Bailments

Upon providing notice, the Master may, at any time, place the slave in the possession of a bailee. In such situations, the slave shall execute the terms of Secs. 1.2, 6.0, and 6.1 as if such bailee were the Master. The duration of such an arrangement may be indefinite.

1.4 Severability

If any part of this contract is declared unenforceable or invalid, the remainder will continue to be valid and enforceable.

2.0 Forfeiture of Human Rights

The slave forfeits the human rights contained in this section. The Master may, at any time, permit the slave to exercise any of these, or other, rights for a limited duration.

2.1 Waiver of Right to Self-Determination and Liberty

The slave forfeits his right to self-determination. This includes the ability to make his own decisions.

The slave forfeits his right to liberty. At all times, the slave shall be governed by the Master as the Master’s personal property.

2.2 Waiver of Right to Privacy

The slave forfeits his right to privacy. The slave may not intentionally conceal or withhold information from the Master.

The slave will not be permitted his own quarters.

2.3 Waiver of Right to Property

The slave forfeits his right to property. The slave may only assert temporary possession over physical objects pursuant to the Master’s command and/or consent. Under no circumstances may the slave be the true owner of a physical object.

2.4 Waiver of Freedom of Movement

The slave forfeits his freedom of movement. At all times, the slave must conduct himself pursuant to the Master’s command(s). The Master may designate a specific area where the slave must rest when awaiting instructions.

2.5 Waiver of Legal Rights

The slave forfeits his right to seek any and all legal remedies against the Master for any actions taken pursuant to this contract.

2.6 Express Right to Safety and Security

The Master shall, at all times, ensure that the slave is both safe and secure. This includes providing a safe and secure living arrangement for the slave.

At no time may the Master knowingly expose the slave to acts or situations that have a reasonable likelihood of placing his health at serious risk.

The slave retains the right to object to participating in acts or situations that have a reasonable likelihood of placing his health at serious risk. The Master may not overrule such an objection.

3.0 Restrictions

This section sets forth specific restrictions that shall apply to the slave at all times.

3.1 Financials and Domicile

The Master may require the slave to surrender his income into a separate account that the slave will have restricted access to. At such time, the terms of that arrangement shall be decided by the Master.

The slave may only spend money with the express consent of the Master.

The slave must, at all times, maintain domicile with the Master.

The Master may require the slave to obtain the Master’s permission before leaving the premises.

3.2 Uniform

The Master may require the slave to wear and maintain a uniform on a daily basis. The slave must treat this uniform with extreme care.

At all other times, the slave must be fully nude.

3.3 Chastity

The Master may require the slave to maintain chastity. This may or may not include a physical chastity device. Under such circumstances, the slave may not pursue sexual gratification in any form.

The slave may only ejaculate once he obtains the express permission of the Master. Such permission may only be obtained by the slave asking “May I cum Sir?”

3.4 Inspections

The Master may at any time inspect any premises occupied by the slave.

The Master may at any time inspect any digital accounts administered by the slave.

The Master may at any time inspect any part of the slave’s body.

The Master may at any time inspect any objects in the slave’s possession.

3.5 Sanctioned Contacts

The Master may forbid the slave from contacting specific individuals for an indefinite duration.

The Master may forbid the slave from physically interacting with specific individuals for an indefinite duration.

3.6 Consumption

At all times, the slave’s consumption shall be governed by the Master. The slave may not consume any substance without the express consent of the Master.

4.0 Duties

This section outlines specific requirements that the slave must fulfill at all times.

4.1 Posture

The slave must always maintain an open posture when in the presence of the Master.

The slave must offer his body freely to the Master, in all ways.

4.2 Fitness

The slave shall maintain a daily fitness regime, to the satisfaction of the Master.

4.3 Grooming

The slave shall clean his body regularly and groom himself to the satisfaction of the Master.

The slave shall maintain his appearance to the satisfaction of the Master.

4.4 Daily Tasks

The Master may, at any time, require the slave to fulfill tasks repeatedly on a daily basis. Fulfilling these tasks must be the slave’s highest priority, unless otherwise specified.

4.5 Employment

The Master may require the slave to maintain employment.

4.6 Insurance Coverage

The Master may require the slave to maintain health insurance and life insurance coverage.

5.0 Limits

This section contains restrictions on the Master’s actions toward the slave. Unless expressly agreed to by the slave, a violation of this section may constitute an immediate rescission of this contract upon notice by either party.

5.1 Permanent Markings

The Master may not cause any type of permanent mark on the slave’s body.

The Master may not require the slave to suffer a permanent mark on his body.

5.2 Modifications

The Master may not require the slave to suffer a permanent modification to his body.

5.3 Prohibited Actions

The following actions shall be prohibited:

X;

Y; and

Z.

6.0 Breach

Violation of any section of this contract shall be considered a breach. This section contains mandatory remedies for a breach of this contract as well as additional provisions regarding the duration, renewability, and termination of this contract.

6.1 Discipline

If the slave breaches this contract, the Master may discipline him, to the Master’s satisfaction. The Master may employ any method of discipline not expressly prohibited in Sec. 5. Alternatively, the Master may give notice to terminate the contract.

If the Master breaches this contract, the slave may give notice to terminate the contract.

6.2 Notice

In specified circumstances, either party may give notice to the other to terminate this contract. Upon giving notice, the parties have 7 days to agree to maintain the contract. The parties may modify this contract at that time, to the satisfaction of both parties. Failure of both parties to reach an agreement within that time will result in the immediate termination of the contract.

6.3 Duration

This contract shall be valid and effective in force for three hundred and sixty five (365) days.

6.4 Renewability

Upon the expiration of this contract, the parties have 14 days to agree to renew the contract. The parties may modify this contract at that time, to the satisfaction of both parties. Failure of both parties to reach an agreement within that time will result in the immediate expiration of this contract.

7.0 Signatures

In witness whereof, the parties hereby execute their mutual agreement in the terms of this contract. This agreement shall be executed and shall be a binding contract between Party A and Party B.

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Party A, “the Master”

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Date

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Party B, “the slave”

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Date