i am...

somewhere in between lost and found 

[lazyyogi]

Compassion is non-self-centered magic. This cartoon made me really happy 🥺😇 #compassion #spirituality #kindness #buddhism #yoga #mindfulness #meditation https://www.instagram.com/p/B054hEVn-PN/?igshid=3kwvl0q71kp2

[the-secret-law]

The most powerful thing you can do right now is to be patient while things are unfolding for you.

[thepersonalquotes]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[thyrell]

why are there 5,000 people on this site holding back from doing something with literally zero repercussions for anyone in a world that will never remember the chances you didn’t take? don’t waste your time on this earth live your life slap some rice

[june-egbert-official]

Hi my job is literally to reset the shelves and honestly?? Slap that rice. Slap it good. patting down the bags makes it easier to stack more, which means when I have to do it it’ll be flatter and more settled and more likely that I can just slide it along without it slidin’ around. You are doing me a FAVOR by slapping that rice.

[thyrell]

rice man approves

[celebrity-pharmacist]

Slap that rice.  Slap it good.  Slap that ricebag just like you should.

[cwote]

You are human. You’re allowed to have off days, okay?

[clem-style-deactivated20191229]

[daddyfuckedme]

[lebritanyamor-deactivated202601]

YES .

[prayforjuno]

Lol who is responsible for the mash up pic

[browsedankmemes]

[fan-of-many-expert-of-none]

Am I the only one who thinks that hitting a kid and abuse are different things? Like, if I ever had a kid, I wouldn’t spank their ass raw or something like that. But a bop on the mouth or the ear pull or a smack upside the head? Yea. Those are behavior modifiers.

[thebaconsandwichofregret]

Except they’re not.

The studies done by the trained psychologists in this joke show that little kids don’t associate being hit with the thing they’ve done wrong. Very small children only understand consequences that are directly caused by the thing they did. Steal a biscuit, biscuit tastes good. Then for no reason mummy hit me. Very different to stole a biscuit, now no biscuit after dinner because I stole a biscuit.

And they also show that when a child is old enough to understand why they are being hit that non-physical punishment is equally as effective and less mentally harmful in the long run.

Do you know who benefits the most from hitting as a punishment? The parent. It gives a satisfaction rush. Parents do it because it makes them feel good.

Basically kids have two stages: too young to understand why they are being hit so physical punishment is useless for anything other than teaching a child that bigger stronger people can hit you whenever they like (Which sounds like the same lesson you would learn from abuse)

And the second stage is old enough to be reasoned with so many punishment options are available and you chose physical violence because it makes *you* feel better, which is an abusive action.

The only time a person should ever use violence against another human being, of any age, is to stop that person from being violent themselves.

[bandydear]

Hitting a stranger is a crime. Hitting someone small who relies on you for food, love, and shelter should be as well. Don’t hit your fucking kid.

[lsleofskye]

{ Time ⏱ } | art_siroj

[farmer-v]

[favoritejournal]

[aroundtheworldinaateadazed]

Oo

[plaid-flannel]

Seen in the window at Gulf of Maine Books in Brunswick, Maine. Photo: Bill Roorbach

[oldlunchmeat]

im gunna go back in time and kick my own ass

[introvertunites]

[hyokoh-archive-blog]

idc if u like winter or autumn or whatever nothing tops summer evenings when the sun hasnt fully set and the air is still warm but theres a light breeze and everything is getting more quiet except for the birds and crickets and its a perfect time to go on a walk and just breathe

[south-by-midwest-deactivated202]

Op has never been to the South

[voiceofnature]

Apartma Zemljanka - Earth House

[timotaychalamet]

Wild Strawberries (1957) dir. Ingmar Bergman