Anonymous

Future Sugar Baby

[disgustinggf]

[filmnoirsbian]

From the bottom of my heart: im not sorry for anything i put on yalls dash, i am my own target audience and i find my taste immaculate but thank u for witnessing 💕

[brownsugar-dreams]

Hello! I am a 23 year aspiring medical student and I want to ask how you got start with benefactors paying for your schooling? I will admit that I am sexually inexperienced and shy, so that could be a hindrance if I decide to go forward. Looking at all of these expenses and knowing that I don’t want to struggle makes me want to look for ways that make this easier. I will highly appreciate any advice you can give. Thank you 💞

Hi! It’s not a hinderance being sexually inexperienced unless you aren’t privy to the manipulation tactics of men. They like to prey on sexually inexperienced/shy women. You were not meant to struggle, you can absolutely get a generous benefactor to help you along the way. It’s the best move for the type of career we’ve chosen. I would say take a listen to a few episodes of my podcast if you can. I give detailed tips and personal experiences about how I got to acquire financial support for school:

Spotting Male Manipulation Tactics

Misconceptions About Sugar Dating

Things I Wish I Knew Before Entering The Sugar Bowl

Sugar Dating Basics

Online Money Making Techniques

Common Sugar Dating Tactics

Managing Sugar Money

Living And Loving A Double Life

Creating a Wealthy Lifestyle

I’ll be recording new episodes soon that are more hypergamous focused/dating wealthy with a purpose. But these are the top episodes for sugar dating you should listen to if you wanna get started. I also have a free mentors program that I’ll be starting up soon!

[brownsugar-dreams]

what's the wisest thing to invest on as a student? i wanna treat myself but i want to be prudent and look out for my future self

Invest in your self care! That’s literally the most important investment you can have during your academic years. If you imagine your future self being happy, wealthy, and well taken care of then you need to start now. Being prudent is just a scam they tell us so that we can work hard and be unhappy. Part of being a successful student is being happy and in a good mental/physical space so that you can focus on studying and getting good grades and subsequently be able to create wealth in the future. I’m not saying blow all your money, but worry less about “saving” or being “frugal” because you have to believe that your loans and all financial worries will be taken care of so you don’t actually have to worry. I probably spend $3-4k a month on self care treatments and my classmates are always so shocked because we’re supposed to be “broke/struggling med school student.” That may be their story but it’s not mine and I don’t want to claim that. Treat yourself and don’t feel guilty about it! You need your pampering and rest now, school is stressful af so don’t buy into that false struggle narrative. Here are some really great, relaxing self care rituals I recommend.

Monthly professional massages. This helped so much with my chronic piriformis/low back pain. I add the cupping and lymphatic drainage and feel like I’m in my teenage body again 😂

Nail salon twice a month. Mani/pedi unless it’s winter then maybe I’ll just do manicures

Cryotherapy a few times a month. This is something new I started this year. It’s soooo good for circulation and post workout soreness

Professional facials once a month. Get a skin consult and they will help assess and tailor your skincare routine

Eyelash extensions every 2-3 weeks. Another new treatment I started this year. It’s soooo much better than having to glue on fakes and actually look so natural and pretty. Makes me feel super feminine and I get compliments all the time

Brow threading and tinting every 2-3 weeks, brow lamination once every 2 months. My brows feel so soft and look so sexy afterwards

Laser hair removal. My 🐱 is so cute afterwards and it’s much quicker than waxing, lasts longer, and hurts a lot less. Plus better for your sensitive skin down there and lessens the impact of hyperpigmentation. Most places allow you to pay in monthly installments

Laserlipo. I started doing laserlipo to tone my arms (always been self conscious about them) at the same place I get my laser hair removal. Not gunna lie it’s pretty pricey ($6k for the treatment package) but I’m already seeing results and I haven’t even finished the treatment package yet. I hear it’s better for your body than coolsculpting.

Monthly or bi-monthly solo dinners. This has been my favorite self care implementation so far. It’s so empowering and relaxing going to an upscale restaurant to take yourself out to dinner. It’s such a great way to freestyle. I normally pick a different restaurant each time and most times I end up not having to pay for my dinner because I met someone. Even if you don’t meet someone the goal is to have fun with yourself and enjoy your own company. Meeting someone is just a bonus

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[a-joyfuljourney]

[sapphiresxx]

SUGAR BABY RESOURCES

for my fellow broke SB who couldn’t find/buy/bother to buy “Ho Tactics” I have a gift for you. In this link you’ll find a pdf of the full book. Up your game sis.

[jussstahoe-deactivated20191230]

I find it wildly offensive that any wealthy married man would expect a real relationship with a much younger and less established woman without compensation.

If you want me to be your mistress, it’s very simple:

Support me in a lifestyle and level of comfort similar to your own. Provide an apartment and a generous allowance. Book me first class tickets and five star hotels when I travel. Gift items that are high in value. Shower me in flowers and lingerie.

[labias]

airport outfits are so important dont listen to anyone that says the opposite

[saltedcaramel-sugar]

HELLLOOOOO!!!!!! Duhhhhh!!!

[houstonsugarbaby]

Extremely important! Always have a cute outfit on and go to the terminal with the international flights or Look up the swankiest bar in the airport and go there.

[thehoephase]

Another Tip*: Control your Responses ~ A Psychological Game

*that nobody asked for

The reaction or response you give to receiving a gift should be directly correlated with the importance/worth of said gift. A mutually beneficial relation ship is based on mutual respect, mutual generosity, and mutual FULFILLMENT. I know TOO many girls at the beck and call of their SD simply because they’re their benefactor. He gets based on what he gives, so if he’s going to give you the bare minimum, your response should match that. NOPE - that’s how you start minimizing your importance in the relationship. 

Mutual fulfillment is a HUGE thing in all my relationships and i’d love to write/talk about it in depth but I’m about to be wine drunk in 10 minutes. The short: Let’s focus on how to keep a sugar relationship 2 sided, particularly looking at how you respond to 3 tiers of gifts/generosity. 

If a SD/SBF gives you a gift you could’ve bought on your own, give him a simple smile and thank you. NOTHING ELSE! Tier 1 gifts are things that you could purchase after setting a month’s paycheck aside. I’m talking fancy dinner, movie tickets, a small shopping spree, expensive perfume, etc. This is a controversial one amongst me and my friends but I put my allowance in this tier because it’s expected - it’s part of the relationship. Don’t excessively thank men who should be bending over backwards for doing the bare minimum, this is not the time or situation to inflate their ego. 

If a SD/SBF gives you a gift you would’ve had to save all year for it is a Tier 2 gift. These include designer heels, designer purses, vacations to a location YOU picked (business trips he already had planned don’t count), and payment of huge bills (cc debt, tuition, car note). You thank him a bit more because he’s actively done something to stop an inconvenience in your life. Buy him something small and cute that shows you had him and mind, give him a deep kiss and hug. Show you’re grateful, the same manner you’d show someone you appreciate them baking you a cake in your vanilla life. 

If a SD/SBF gives you a gift that you’d only be able to acquire after 10+ years of hard work, THEN YOU SHOW OUT. Time for the lingerie and special dinner, time for you to REALLY show your appreciation. Tier 3 gifts include Tuition in full, a new car, new apartment, any gift ranging 10k+, cosmetic surgery, etc. 

BE STINGY WITH YOUR APPRECIATION. This obviously doesn’t (completely) apply to girls looking to be Spoiled Girlfriends or Trophy Wives but just ladies hoping for long term sugar relationships. You can be sweet and loving but NEED to show you’re hard to please or else the spoiling will be on a low level + the relationship becomes one-sided. You bring as much to this relationship as he does. React accordingly to his actions and continue to show him that you’re worth every penny he’s dropping on you. 

The point of this is to show him he’s appreciated when he tries and that you’re your own person with OPTIONS. Nothing says “I don’t need you and you’re replaceable” like a dry ass “thanks” for some lame gift. He expects you to be on your a-game, you NEED TO expect the same from him. 

[vvvvccccssss]

Bullshit I Spew on Dates

[libraryofsugar]

● “Ugh, yes I totally understand what you mean. I hate feeling transactional. There are so many men who are willing to just toss cash at me in exchange for a specific something, but what’s really hard to find is a man who also respects my time and who I can connect with. I want allowance, but also someone who I enjoy as a companion…” ● “Oh I hated to trouble the man I was previously with, so we did cash allowances on a set date each month. It saved both him and I trouble in terms of tax purposes, and having to bother him constantly whenever I needed financial support for a thing here or there throughout the month was just not something I wanted to do all the time, hence the allowance on a set date.” ● “Cash allowances (instead of bank wire transfers) give me greater financial freedom. I find with a cash allowance I can divide up my finances to satisfy various needs for that month. Cash is so flexible.” ● “You’re so handsome/intelligent/witty/so much easier to talk to and have a good time with than some of the other men I’ve met from the site!” ● (In reply to the question “How are you finding the site/what are some messages you’ve gotten, etc.?”) “The site works so well! My inbox is just flooded with messages (it’s really not LOL) and it takes so much time to go through all of them, so honestly I have to screen them the best I can and reply to only some, and then from there I have to carefully pick out who to meet for safety reasons etc. Sometimes it’s overwhelming as there are so many nice and generous men, and just not enough time in the day to meet up with them all!” (At this point he thinks he’s some hot shit, but also hopefully realizes how lucky he is and better work for it to keep himself in your good graces. Don’t let him feel too much like he’s hot shit, because he’s not. He’s usually just plain shit, even if he ends up being an SD). ● (At the end of the date if you are heading home and parting ways/not sharing Uber or Taxi) “This was fun! Let’s do it again sometime/some bullshit variation. Could you help me (not “Do you mind helping me”) get a ride home?“ If he is too dumb to take this simple and overused hint for “Pay my taxi/uber home bitch”, then he is too stupid to do much else, much less spoil you properly. Dump his ass. Delete his number. Date just automatically should equal meal and dessert, and maybe even another meal to take home 😂 (going to try this one this week LOL “To fuel my late night studying, so hard /sobsob/”) and definitely also ride back home. Ride there is different story, choose the cheapest ride there unless you plan to have him compensate you, which most men won’t want to do.

[sbmisstaylor-deactivated2020031]

Me all day long

[theblackcourtesan]

What Makes Her Classy?

When it came to refining my image, I knew instantly what persona I wanted to portray: The Classy Lady. I wanted potential clients to take one look at my photos and know automatically that the purchase of my companionship would not be cheap. 

But I also didn’t want just any client either. Just because he has the money doesn’t mean we would be a great match. For example, I’m not great with young guys or partiers. So I wanted guys of that type to take a look at my pictures and know that we most likely wouldn’t be a good match as well. I’m most compatible with romantics and laidback, professional types. 

I knew my persona. I knew my ideal client. But there was a problem:

I wasn’t quite sure how to depict this in my photos.

I need my photos to do most of the “talking” for me (because we know men don’t always read your blog, site, ad, etc. but they always look at the pictures). 

So I begin browsing various providers’ sites that I felt emulated the persona that I wanted to portray. And were most likely getting the type of clientele that I’m aiming for.

Once I gathered enough pictures, I asked myself, what is it about her pictures/album/gallery that makes her fit this persona? 

Or to put it bluntly: how the hell do I look high-end in my pictures?!* 

Here’s what I noticed: 

She picks one asset at a time to show off (if she’s showing off her breasts, every other asset is covered up)

The lingerie always matches. And there’s usually stockings and/or a garter belt added as well.

Professional/Quality photos. Even the “candid” photos are clear with lots of lighting. 

Adding “feminine” touches to the pictures like flowers.

Having name brand/designer items in the photos. The red bottoms are shown off (literally). The Chanel bag is in her hand. The Agent Provocateur box is on display. I noticed that this is never “over done”. There’s usually only one noticeable luxury item in the picture and it’s never the focal point. 

Makeup is always kept neutral/natural. The boldest I’ve seen is a red lip.

Hair is styled simply and always looks “touchable”. It’s usually lightly curled.

The surroundings are neat and clean.

No explicit posing (no “spread leg” shots).

Nude pictures are done more “artistically”. Less Playboy. More Italian Vogue. 

Business attire. This is one that I hadn’t really noticed but it’s everywhere. Dresses are knee length or longer. The clothing is “work/office appropriate”.  

Plenty of clothed photos. In some cases, I’ve noticed some providers would almost have as many clothed pictures as lingerie or nudes photos. Almost. 

Few casual pictures. Obviously if you’re going for “girl next door”, this wouldn’t apply. However, I’ve noticed that there will be one, maybe two pictures of her dressed “casually”, i.e. jeans and a t-shirt. The majority of the clothed pictures will be taken in skirts, dresses, business attire, etc.

Robes. This was another one I hadn’t really noticed at first but almost every provider’s site that I visited there was at least one picture of her in a robe. And it was usually long, flowy and “feminine” (light colors, lace, etc).

Simple jewelry. Or no jewelry at all. 

If anyone else is using this persona (or plans to), feel free to add to the list!

*Yes, I’m aware that there’s more than one way to look “high-end” and that not every provider wants to portray this image. There are multiple personas that a provider may embody such as Playboy/bombshell, girl next door, bad girl, etc. However, because this is the persona I’ve chosen, this is the “look” that I’m focusing on.

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

How to use Ho Tactics on married men? Detailed guide for those who don’t have time to read the book. Tested. Approved.

Ok my beautiful hoes, line up. 

I used these tactics before that motherfucker wrote his book and I read that chapter my jaw dropped because it was everything I have done in the past while dealing with married men but I did them only because it felt.. natural to me?

Anyway. Since you wanna know how my ho tactics operation will go, I might as well walk you through the steps. 

I also feel this is relevant to most of us since majority of men we are dealing with are married. 

1. I like you but you have a situation.

-Act reluctant but don’t shame him. When he opens up to you about being married tell him that you understand him but also make sure he knows that you are not completely ok with it while you like him so much.

-If he wants to know the reason, tell him your reputation is at stake. Tell him you are not looking for anything serious but you also don’t want to be sneaking around. 

2. We can be friends..?

-Keep the conversation flowing, tell him you deserve a guy who would be proud of having you, tell him what a goddess you are. Turn him on. Be sexually open and direct. Don’t act coy.

-You don’t feel ok with that type of relationship but he’s so hot you just can’t stay away from him. Create this illusion.

-Allow him to get close to you, touch you a little then push his hand playfully. Touch him back for a little like you can’t keep your hands off of him. 

3. Wifey is your bestie

-Never ever ever ever diss the wifey. Say stuff like she’s a lucky lady, I’m sure she’s very beautiful as he has great taste in women etc.

-Allow him to open up to you about his wife. He’ll complain that he’s not getting any sex. Say, “Yes, some women are like that and it’s okay. For me, I love sex and some men would talk bad about me for this. We all prefer different things…” Drive him insane. 

-Gather as much information as possible on what he is missing at home. You will use it to manipulate him.

With all this, you gained his trust. You established that you ain’t no snitch and you are a trustworthy mistress, courtesan and confidante. Keep his interest awake, don’t give it up easy. 

Also by telling him that he has a situation you avoided from letting him fuck you so easy and bought yourself time to make him grow attached to you. Also most men would try and offer material things to earn your good graces to make you turn a blind eye to his ‘situation’. With enough patience and finesse he will be ready to give you whatever your little heart desires. Read ho tactics for further explanation and details. May sugar Gods make it rain down on you.

Happy hoeing, my babes! <3

[southernsugarxo-deactivated2018]

Wow great stuff guys

[herhighnessthequeen]

✨Pro Hoe Tips✨

1. Drink water with every meal, and between each meal. Hydration does wonders for your entire body. 2. Get yourself on a proper sleep schedule. Its easier to grind when you’re well rested. 3. Airspun translucent powder (Walgreens, $7) bakes ya makeup to the gods. Your shit won’t move for the entire day. Kiss ya fallout goodbye. 4. Brands like BH Cosmetics, Makeup Revolution, NYX, ELF, Essence, and Maybelline are all relatively cheap, good quality makeup brands for that last-all-night look 5. Dressing in neutrals like nudes, whites, blacks, and greys generally make your outfit choices easier to mix and match, without all the hustle of finding something to wear. Plus you’ll look like a fuckin baddie 6. Let your eyebrows grow, for the love of God. Castor oil and coconut make ya eyebrows and lashes grow thick and long, and ABH Brow Whiz is the shit for long lasting, natural looking brows. Seriously worth every penny. 7. Eat fresh fruit and stay away from processed sweets for a healthy, fresh smelling/tasting pussy 8. Roll non scented deodorant onto your pussy after you shave to avoid any razor bumps or ingrown hairs (DO NOT PUT NEAR YOUR ACTUAL VULVA, JUST THE OUTSIDE PORTION) 9. Make ya blowjobs wet, sloppy, and be sure to make eye contact as ya lick it. He’ll be putty in your hands 10. Coconut oil hoes👏👏👋 good for scars, stretch marks, cellulite, dry skin, you name it 11. Be sure to find your actual skin type, and look up ingredients in products that help according to your skin type. For example, skin products with salicylic acid help normal/oily skin, while glycolic acid helps dryer, aged skin. 12. Products and moisterizers with urea and ammonium lactate can help clear your keratosis pilaris (KP, the little bumps on your arms/legs/ass/cleavage) 13. Exercise regularly, and change up your workouts every couple of months to keep your body challenged 14. Never send your face in nudes. Make your nudes unidentifiable, in case you encounter a fuckboy who leaks them because hes an asshole. Protect yourself girl. 15. Always keep an extra change of clothes in your car, in case of an accident, dress code violation, or fashion emergency 16. Keep ya grades up, get a job, and make your own money so you don’t have to be financially dependent on some fuckboy. 17. Keep your cuticles moisturized for stronger, healthier nails (especially when wearing acrylics) 18. Take biotin pills to boost hair and nail growth, healthy skin, and kickstart metabolism. 19. Take selfies and nudes at all times to boost that body confidence. Snapchat has a password protected “My Eyes Only” option in Memories that you can hide these in if you’re shy. 20. Literally just worry about you babygirl stay unbothered

Thats all for now hoes✨✨

[diamondkiss530-deactivated20210]

Excellent advice.

Could not have said it better

[thepeacockangel]

Thinking that sex workers are trying to steal your man

Is like thinking day care workers are trying to steal your kid.

[islandsugar]

Hi! You said that you are a personal trainer do you have any tips for cellulite. I have so much cellulite in my legs and I hate it. PLEASE help also I love your page and welcome back!

Cellulite is based on nutrition and genetics. Here’s the though, 90% of women over 20 have cellulite. Me at 90 pounds and me at 120 pounds - BOTH had cellulite. The model in the Cosmopolitan magazine - she probably has it. The toned and lean weight lifter in the gym - she probably has it. The amount of cellulite you have is NOT an indication of your athleticism. I struggle to wear shorts in the gym BUT I can do more pull ups than many of the men in there. 

Reduce your fat intake. STAY HYDRATED OMG THIS IS SO IMPORTANT. DRINK YO WATER GIRL. Things I do that have really helped (combined with going to the gym and being cautious of what I eat) 

1. Drink a glass of 1 tbsp of Apple Cider Vinegar (UNFILTERED/ORGANIC/MOTHER) and 8 ounces of water. DO NOT SHOT IT - it’s worse than vodka and zero buzz. I hate the taste so while some can do two glasses a day - I’m working my way through one. You can add lemon and honey - I added freshly squeezed orange this morning. 

2. Add Apple Cider Vinegar to your lotion and rub that shit on your skin twice a day. The scent will eventually fade. You wanna target it internally and externally.

3. Massage the affected area to increase circulation 

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

Capsule Wardrobe

Another one, not so different though.

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

Capsule Wardrobe

I have been checking for capsule wardrobe posts on Pinterest for a while and I found stuff like below but they’re all scattered around I can only tell they are from same line because the fonts are same. I find this to be repetitive and not really for me but I think it lays out a good main principle.