#black hypergamy

[mziceebaby]

@Yanjusofine_ on Twitter 🤎

[baddiesofluxury]

[kenyaraae]

Bob era iktr!

[boredgirlsclub]

pink pilates princess

[pposhspice]

My self-mastery, level up plan; the journey of being my desired self always continues. ☆

( to be still updated )

Physical / appearance

Surgery this year (2026)

Composite bonding (2026)

Health:

Health being my lifestyle and priority.

Wholefoods have to be mainly my diet.

Be disciplined and stick to workout routine regardless of season.

Social

Start a new hobby, horse riding / tennis.

Join a wellness club (goal is an expensive membership club)

Join a social club

Be confident and have more solo dates.

Network with likeminded individuals.

[refiningdesire]

You don’t have to be nice.

[unfriendlyblackthottyy]

I'm getting a hefty refund from my school and I want to use some of it to put into my SW brand. I already know that I'm going to pay for my website domain and the highest tier on tryst and get some more laser hair removal sessions. I was thinking of doing another photoshoot but my selfies and iPhone pics get the most engagement, so I'll just take a few cute photos in a nicer hotel room. Otherwise I don't really know what to do! Maybe pay for ads on other sites? Business cards? New working wardrobe?

What would you do to invest into your brand?

[latestinlove]

Keep people out of your business: (public love, private relationships)

One thing that will always remain true and through when dating is: your love life is your business.

Your girlfriends may love you and want the best for you, but they're not men and they're not your man.

Ladies, let's try harder not to get so caught up wanting to vent and express our true feelings about - the ex who keeps texting and calling, the men you go on dates with or your MAN ... and end up spilling alllll the tea.

This gives people on the outside looking in way too much permission to give you unwarranted advice about YOUR BUSINESS. And bad advice.

It's even worst that we often lead with and highlight the negative and now they end up not liking the man altogether.

Realistically, they're not the ones having s. with you, they're not on dates with you and they're not getting to know him like you are, so their opinions are just ... that.

It doesn't help that women who envy you LOVE to hear about anything negative you're dealing with. This goes for the secret haters too - ya mama, your sisters, your aunties ...

Now all of a sudden they have something to gossip about and their trash ass love life doesn't seem so bad.

This is why it's best to keep every thing real private.

More than likely your man isn't focused on grouping every aspect of your relationship with his family and friends. None of them could talk him into or out of being with you if he's truly where he wants to be. Plus, you wouldn't wanna be with him if other people's opinions (who barely know you) could easily sway him either.

Get a journal. Seriously.

Learn to walk yourself through the complications of your relationships and show gratitude for it when it's going good. NOTHING will feel better than appearing to have everything in your love life in order and taking care of every problem at home.

Think how interested you're in in every private relationship you know.

Your business stays your business and nobody will have ammo to use when and if you actually decide to share about your relationship.