gandalf the bean

he/him! queer and demisexual, happily with the love of my life. violist and jazz electric bassist. studying biology, ancient studies, and art history. bug enthusiast and father of plants. supporter of aros. support my sibling on tiktok! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRo1xL8p/

[gandalf-the-bean]

help out a small business!!

website below

hi there everyone! my sibling sells beautiful crystals and carvings, as well as original paintings on and using crystals!

tiktok has been shadow banning a lot of small businesses lately, and they are unfortunately one of the ones affected. it is unfairly hurting their business, as they follow the platform’s rules. please reblog to help promote them

they’re very passionate about what they do, and their website just went live! go check them out, and if you can, please support them!

and go follow them on tiktok as well and turn on notifications for it so that you can see when they’re live

Home | The Fluorite Fish

monday evenings at 8pm est. they ship to the us and canada. they’re considering expanding to other platforms, and i will add them in the notes when they do

TikTok - Make Your Day

[frozen-autumns]

you tell your average "trans ally" cis feminist that you're a trans man, and there's a nonzero chance she might hit you with the "oh, you look so convincing that I'd cover my drink around you!"

...sorry, you don't like being told you look like a rapist? but I'm being gender affirming! telling you that you look just like a real man! don't tell me you're "not all men"ing me. you're just like the rest of them. maybe you actually ARE a future rapist if my suspicion upsets you so much. you're so lucky I'm even entertaining you. man up and take it on the chin, or go back to being a girl if you're too much of a bitch for that.

(thus you leave the conversation feeling, well, it's better than being misgendered, I guess.)

[dogpuppy]

[gandalf-the-bean]

i love you circle guy

[han-the-human]

If your "Feminism" is just treating marginalized men horribly then your not progressive, your just a bigot

[your-moots-oddly-normal-blog]

Also, if your "Feminism" is just treating men in general horribly then you're not progressive. You're a bigot.

[psychotic-gerard]

give it up for girls with vaginas and boys with penises

[psychotic-gerard]

pause i forgot cis people exist this was intended as a celebration of bottom surgery

[redhairandpronouns]

"if men could get pregnant-" they can. "if men got periods-" they do. "men never experience-" they do. "men would never understand-" i promise you whatever you are about to say there are men who go through the exact same thing

[gaydiation-poisoning]

I'm gonna be so real some of y'all think you can't be trans if you were born with a vagina

[r4t-sp4t]

This in the replies, absolutely.

[gaydiation-poisoning]

I'm gonna be so real some of y'all think you can't be trans if you were born with a vagina

[dsmaster7173]

[gaydiation-poisoning]

I'm gonna be so real some of y'all think you can't be trans if you were born with a vagina

[isotopeboy]

It’s very jarring to interact with people who have this mindset because they’ll unironically tell you that trans men are inherently non-binary and will never be men while they themselves identify as trans men

[gaydiation-poisoning]

I'm gonna be so real some of y'all think you can't be trans if you were born with a vagina

[seracadash]

(goverment voice) we need to protect the children from pornography so our plan is to remove their eyes so they would never see something so traumatic. if you are against removing children's eyes you are basically a pedophile

[aresynh]

"Oh, and we are cuting of the benefits and help programs for blind people, in an unrelated note".

[seracadash]

(goverment voice) we need to protect the children from pornography so our plan is to remove their eyes so they would never see something so traumatic. if you are against removing children's eyes you are basically a pedophile

[shadbrim]

[seracadash]

(goverment voice) we need to protect the children from pornography so our plan is to remove their eyes so they would never see something so traumatic. if you are against removing children's eyes you are basically a pedophile

[desk-drawerr]

He eat a nemon

[twisted-amygdaloid]

Using my trans male privilege to be completely unable to use any public restroom due to looking like the probability of a coin flip for gender.

[sugarcubii]

Trans men are legally banned from all public restrooms in the UK things are really bad.

[twisted-amygdaloid]

Using my trans male privilege to be completely unable to use any public restroom due to looking like the probability of a coin flip for gender.

[useless-stray]

“yeah! I support trans rights 🏳️‍⚧️! oh, what is my opinion on trans men? uhm… well I support trans women!”

[gandalf-the-bean]

the hypocrisy of only supporting part of the trans community and not all of us is wild to me. we're all in this together and we'll get nowhere without standing together