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༺ he/him ༻ art tag: garsmacabre

[ratstitch]

My freinds are getting tiered of telling me about there relationship struggles because every time my aromantic ass just tells them to look at it from an artistic prospective.

[mushroom-punk]

i love polyamory i love aromanticism i love QPRs i love communal child rearing let’s all get weirder forever

[apricops]

*trying to pitch public transportation to Americans* it’s like a legal form of texting while driving

[limbel]

we have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who write gen fics. we have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who write character studies and stories with no focus on romance or sex. we have to get on our knees and thank the brave soldiers in fandom who write about minor characters and friendship and family with no focus on romance or sex. i know it’s hard to care about characters in a world that seems to only revolve around ships but i see you. and i love you

[garsmacabre]

sex is such a cool concept, too bad it has to involve genitals

[garsmacabre]

imagine if (back then in the renaissance, when only men were allowed on stage) rosalind was played by a closeted trans woman. then that would be a woman playing a man playing a woman playing a man playing a woman

[ezra-the-ghost-cat]

I think what I want is a qpr. I want a relationship with someone where the dynamic is "we understand each other on a deeper level than anyone else in our lives, let's kiss about it" and it not be romantic. Can anyone hear me.

[harlan09]

love is real.

but romantic attraction is just a social construct in place to dictate how we "should" express our love.

fight me.

[ebulatheduck]

the world would be such a better place if people could be kinky without any romantic or sexual connotation

[transandrogyny--turtlebug]

I hold the idea that women and (all genders) are just as capable of harm as cis men are because we are all flawed people, it's just that cis men have historically held more power and so they get away with harm more than women/ other genders. Thinking that women are less capable of harm makes me think that you don't see women as people, you know? It's the benevolent sexism stuff

[tboy-cock]

asexuals and aromatics who are asexual/aromantic due to trauma: you are valid. you can be asexual and/or aromantic due to trauma. youre not wrong about yourself because you "might not be aro/ace if you werent traumatized." you are aromantic and/or asexual regardless

[aceofpans]

”with shapes.inc you can talk to your ocs!!” Dumbass. I’m already talking to them. In my head. “B-bbut what about your favourite charac-“ skill issue. In my head as well. get fucked.

[dreadfulman]

Placing misogyny as an inherent trait of men/masculinity is just another form of "boys will be boys" btw. You cannot ever meaningfully hold misogynists accountable if you treat it as an inherent trait of their identify and not bigotry they are willfully perpetuating.

[moonlitmartyr]

I hate ruminating on what could have been. Out here thinking "if only I locked in when I was 13" are we serious

[batsandboba]

as someone who doesnt watch a lot of tv shows but does watch a lot of video essays, there is nothing more exciting than a popular tv show ending badly. its like a whalefall for my youtube recommendations. thank you stranger things also sorry that happened

[aromantic-yearning]

wishing you all a messy passionate aroace situationship this 2026

[lost-long-ago]

Unrequited love but it's fine. A is head over heels with B who doesn't feel the same about A, but they're both ok with this and it doesn't ruin their friendship. A enthusiastically expresses their feelings for B, and B welcomes the sentiment but just doesn't return it

People around them keep expecting this to become a problem but it just doesn't. A doesn't expect B to start feeling the way they do and is happy with their friendship as it is. B isn't bothered by A's feelings or the expression of these because they know B doesn't expect anything from them that they can't give

(You can imagine this being about romantic love if you must but I'm aromantic so in my head this is about alterous attraction)

[garsmacabre]

i remember scribbling down an idea exactly like this in my notebook about two years ago—feels good to know i'm not the only one with this concept floating around in their head