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[genderfluidbun]

I feel like a viking..

We're literally too poor to afford real food. So my dinner consisted of a large chunk of ground beef - not even a hamburger with spices and a bun - and some steam microwave corn. For VALHALLA 💪🍗🍖

[genderfluidbun]

Learning about Ancient Egypt has always, and will always, give me chills.

It's crazy how some of Egypt's most powerful rulers were women. And, just like modern times, most of their achievements were covered up by and taken credit for by men. I think the world would flourish better under female leadership. We've had our time of men screwing things over.

[briannathestrange]

paint me like one of your french chameleons

[willowdove]

Why did she paint him with one eye?!

[ruinedchildhood]

[genderfluidbun]

Can someone teach me how to make the friend?

Like seriously, because I have to be done something wrong. I've met two people during college who have become a regular part of my life. And I didn't even go to college with either of them. I was a haunted hayride actor with one of them. (We were the only two clowns on the platform) And the other a friend introduced me to. He is now my boyfriend.

But other than that - nothing. No wild college fun. No making new friends. Maybe it's because I went to a local college. So I didn't get a roommate or was forced into loving with other people. But still!

I'm pretty sure I come off as a bitch. I swear, I'm awkward and quiet.

I always wanted like, a group of friends. My boyfriend has one, but he swears he only knows people n they're not all his friends. I always wanted a group of friends like (for lack of better examples) W.I.T.C.H or Winx Club or Sailor Moon. Just a group of people who are always there for each other, talk everyday, and tell the other when they're doing something stupid.

My boyfriend is the only person I talk to regularly. I love him, but sometimes you also want friends. I barely talk to the three I have. It gets lonely. I'm an only child, so maybe that accounts for my lack of social skills.

Now that I'm older, I want friends who I can cosplay and go to cons with. If I know them online, someone I can gross sob with when you meet them in real life. Someone you'd haul ass around the world for the chance to see.

I have unrealistic friend standards x..x

I always thought I was part of a friend group, and then they'd all leave. Or they'd replace me.

So tell me - how does one make the friend? Whether irl or online? Cause I'm hopeless.

[genderfluidbun]

Just thought of moment from a few years ago. And got pissed about it all over again. But for a slightly different reason this time.

So a few years ago, I was at my best friend's house, right? And she has a fire pit. Two guys that we hung out with (one is now her husband) were over. (She seemed to collect people like dolls). They couldn't get a fire going, and they didn't get why.

Well the summer before that I had been a counselor at a boy scout camp. And I told them, you can't light a fire with green wood and green leaves. They're too wet.

THEY DIDNT FUCKING BELIEVE ME.

Why? Because I was a chick. And chicks don't know jackshit about that shit, apparently. It took the neighbor, a male cop, coming over TO TELL THEM THE SAME FUCKING THING for them to believe that you can't make a fire with fresh wood... 😒😒😒

At the time, I was annoyed they always tried to gang up on me. Act like they knew my friend better. And then act like the victims when I would pull a sarcastic bitch act. Now I'm fucking pissed that they were being sexist.

Identifying as genderfluid or not, to a cis person I'm still fem. So that OBVIOUSLY gives them the right to presume I don't know shit about shit.

[genderfluidbun]

There are things in my relationship I forget are not always present in others. Mostly not until I read a post about it. Those posts about wanting someone who will call you, just to hear your voice. The posts where they talk about 'kissing at red lights' kind of love. The kind of love where your other half will dance with you to the store radio. The kind where you hold each other's hands while driving, and purposefully pick classes together to garuntee you'll see each other during the busy week. Or FaceTime before bed because you haven't seen each other in a few days.

The love where you take pictures in movie theater photo boothes. And celebrate each month's anniversary as a special occasion. Because you're so happy to still be together. The kind where, at any chance to fall asleep next to them, you knock out because you feel so safe. The security that makes their nightmares go away.

Sometimes I forget how lucky I am to have that kind of love. How lucky I am to be in love.

[genderfluidbun]

My motherly instincts = 17.5

My readiness to actually be a mother = -34.625

[lightheartedsuggestion]

The world is a little happier with you in it.

[meaningfulsuggestion]

The world is a little brighter with you in it.

[cute-hypothetical-scenarios]

The world is a little sweeter with you in it.

[romanticmusings]

The world is a little softer with you in it.

[positivelatina]

The world is a little more perfect with you in it.

[this-is-psychosis]

Therapists aren’t people who you “pay to pretend to care about you”, therapists are people you pay to teach you how to care for yourself

[voce-morti]

Me: I am violently depressed.

Therapist: Oh! Sounds like you need to do YOGA! That will help!

Me: *signs up for yoga*

Me: *is violently depressed in Downward Dog*

[mx-mythical-deactivated20260319]

Me: I hate myself and only see my flaws

Therapist: ok lets refocus on things you like about yourself. This week i want you to try and journal about good things you’ve for yourself and others.

Me: *does the homework* yeah but i still hate myself but feel bad cause i shouldn’t

Therapist: feeling like you shouldn’t hate yourself is a step in the right direction. Mental health is complex and isn’t something that will ~magically~ improve. We have a lot of hard work head of us but I’ll be here to help you.

TL;DR stop perpetuating the idea that therapy is unhelpful because the results are not instantaneous.

[kcsplace]

FUCKING THIS.

As a psychologist the amount of bullshit on this site, the amount of fucking dangerous bullshit on this site about how therapy is neurotypical bullshit and isn’t worth it and how exercise is pointless and good diet is pointless and that therapy homework is pointless DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL

Exercise is fucking important. good diet is fucking important therapy is fucking important. WHY???

because pills alone don’t help. they improve the hormonal imbalance (as does exercise and good diet which ALSO are a form of very real self care as your physical being is sorta connected to your mental one but go fucking figure right?), but guess what? the suicidal thoughts, the thoughts of harm, the thoughts of hating yourself, they’re still there.  suicides actually increase when medicated.  why? because suddenly you have the energy to fulfill thoughts of harming yourself.  which is why you NEED therapy alongside pills.

it has taken you years, or decades to create your maladaptive thought processes and behaviours.  that shit doesn’t disappear overnight. core beliefs don’t change overnight. these are the very fucking core of your personhood, your being and personality. THAT TAKES TIME TO CHANGE

STOP ACTING LIKE THERAPY IS SHIT IF IT DOESNT WORK IN TWO SESSIONS

[potrix-the-queerschlaeger]

^This!!!!!

[owivizzle-deactivated20190829]

God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable

[mitch-that-bitch]

I don’t mean to take over a post, but I actually did a project on this for my sociology of deviance class in college!

I carried a large stuffed rabbit whenever I went in public for about a week to observe the reaction of others. The point of the project was to do something harmless yet unusual to see if the action would be considered deviant, in which case someone had to try to correct or shame the behavior.

Long story short, nobody tried to correct my behavior. I was asked about it casually, had a few lingering stares thrown my way and when I was with my boyfriend, shop employees would direct questions to him instead of me. However, nobody refused to assist me when I was alone in a store, nobody said anything about the rabbit besides “oh, thats a cute bunny!” and I attended college classes without even a teacher questioning it.

In conclusion, it is socially acceptable to carry a stuffed animal, its just not a societal norm. ^^

[nerdgasrnz]

#for followers with a big anxiety or self hate problem #bring a friend with you (via @kingdom-for-muses)

[howjuderolls]

DID/OSDD YouTubers Masterlist

We have decided to compile a master list of YouTubers with Dissociative systems! If you have a channel you would like added please let us know!

The Labyrinth System

MultiplicityAndMe

Stronghold System

The Entropy System

Devii Uniquely Three

Me Myself N Aleu

Pink Camo System

The Solar System

Jeremy: An Alternate Perspective

Lantern Skyy

Axolotis-in-a-trenchcoat

Lexi Russ

The Rapture System

Bobo & Co.

Erithacus System

Pandora Aisling

The Castles, Kings and Queens System

MeHimandHer

Fae System

The Kairos System 

Chronic Mischief

Alexa Rosita

Amadeus System

Hannah Lussenden

System K

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[macwithac-deactivated20160924]

Lichtenstein be like “they’re invading, but whatever.”

[sketchpon-thefgt-deactivated201]

But how do you “accidentally” invade a country?

[ultrafacts]

On 5 December 1985, rockets fired by the Swiss Army landed in Liechtenstein, causing a forest fire. Compensation was paid.

On 13 October 1992, following written orders, Swiss Army cadets unknowingly crossed the border and went to Triesenberg to set up an observation post. Swiss commanders had overlooked the fact that Triesenberg was not on Swiss territory. Switzerland apologized to Liechtenstein for the incident.

In March 2007, a company of 171 Swiss soldiers mistakenly entered Liechtenstein, after taking a wrong turn in the darkness. The troops returned to Swiss territory before they had travelled more than 2 km into the country. The Liechtenstein authorities did not discover the “invaders”, and were informed by the Swiss after the incident. The incident was disregarded by both sides. A Liechtenstein spokesman said “It’s not like they invaded with attack helicopters”

Sources: 1 2 3

[flylittlekoala]

how do you even tell your superior officer I mean “uh Sir… I’m sorry but I think… we’re not in Switzerland anymore” “what are you trying to say cadet” “Sir I think we invaded Liechtenstein.” “…goddamn it, not again.”

[genderfluidbun]

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[genderfluidbun]

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[genderfluidbun]

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[genderfluidbun]

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[genderfluidbun]

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