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[asparklethatisblue]

Visits in the newly acquired bookshop 

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[gentitalia]

this is very tmi and I barely use this blog so this will probably not help me lmao 

HOWEVER 

I am super touch/sex repulsed when it comes to myself like no one is allowed to touch me at all except like......two friends and maybe my dad can hug me 

so doctor is like “you need a pap smear” and I’m just.................................

h ow can I not panic when I never want anything up my vagina ever and will probably not relax while it is happening

[shounen-super]

[hmnhnmass]

Before you play sound on this video this look at the video do you see it do you see it imagine what you’re going to hear when you put play you’re wrong you’re fucking wrong I was wrong this is wrong

[fireblenders]

[skzhhssh-deactivated20190330]

how does ellen degeneres’ wife ever fuck her like. u close ur eyes for a second and thats dory telling u shes gonna raw ur ass all the way to 42 wallaby way sydney

[mjalti]

op? please never make me feel whatever this emotion is ever again

[thexfiles]

i have never read a better onion article than this 

[thexfiles]

it’s TOO real

[gentitalia]

you know that feeling where you put your heart out to someone and it just smacks you in the face

[bigbigtruck]

Wrapped up my illustration for @nextlevelzine!  Get the zine to see the full image :D

i swear i also have original and SFW stuff in progress :U

[bigbigtruck]

Daytime rebloob! Zine preorders open soon. More info at http://nextlevelzine.tumblr.com!

[promisesofamazing]

Do you ever start to like think or miss an ex best friend and then you’re like “yikes, let’s not” because they fucked you over and emotionally damaged you in some way cause same

[heartthrobsuicide-remade-deacti]

Okay, but I’m being 1,000% serious now. Survivors and victims don’t give a fuck if their abuser changed. They really don’t care. It does not change what the abuser did. No matter what you think, survivors and victims are still allowed to hate their abusers, whether or not the abuser has “changed”. Even if the abuser has mental illnesses. 

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[uwu-chan-abouttodelete-deactiva]

hey like, if you happen to do something abusive because of your mental illness

you still gotta apologize for it???? 

you still have to accept responsibility???

you can’t expect the people around you to just suck it up when you hurt them because you’re mentally ill. 

[brehaaorgana]

spiraling further and self-deprecation/calling urself a monster also isn’t an apology. an apology does not involve another person comforting you for your harmful actions. 

[fleursdanslatete-deactivated201]

same with claiming that you are a failure and are doomed to never change or improve. Apology should not involve the other person comforting you and rooting for you, and essentially being your cheerleader.

Same if you claim that not doing abusive things to someone repeatedly is “so hard” while also refusing to examine your behavior, to create a plan of action to help you cope with your mental illness in a healthy way, or by refusing to seek help in any shape or form. Twice as bad if you expect the person you abused to be your mental health therapist/processor.

[genderphobia-deactivated2018101]

!!!!!!!!! SAY IT LOUDER !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bpdethos]

Having an abusive parent is hard bc even though they treat you badly there are times where things aren’t as bad, they treat you better or they buy you something so you end up feeling like crap bc you feel you were in the wrong and that whatever happened was your fault and that it’s you who should be better.

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being emotionally abused has made me incredibly defensive towards being told what to do, but at the same time has made it hard for me to do things without someone telling me that it’s ok to do out if fear of doing something wrong and getting in trouble

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if you ignore my tum my boobs look great in this tbh

[punk-mom-deactivated20201103]

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I AM DYING FRIENDS

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knowing that I’ve been emotionally abused for six years now puts into perspective why I put abuse plotlines in a lot of my well thought out aus huh