it’s time to make this crystal clear.
a man lies in order to get sex? rapist.
a man creates a fake image that will make women feel more at ease sleeping with him when they wouldn’t if they knew the truth? rapist.
a man puts women in situation where she would suffer consequences if she were to refuse sex with him? rapist.
a man lets woman know she owes him sex or she’s a bad person/liar/prude/flirt? rapist.
a man acts as if once promised sex is now to be given to him without any option to pull away? rapist.
a man demands that a woman who consented to sex once is now to be available for sex with him any amount of times? rapist.
a man demands reasons and explanations to why a woman doesn’t want to have sex with him? rapist.
a man punishes woman for refusing sex? rapist.
a man talks a woman into having sex when she’s hesitant or dissenting? rapist.
a man uses his position of power and only gives “fair” treatment to women who go to bed with him? rapist.
a man withholds basic respect and attention from a woman unless he gets sex from them? rapist.
a man fails to use condoms when it was previously agreed he would? rapist.
a man pushes woman during sex to actions she clearly doesn’t feel comfortable or safe or willing to do for any reason? rapist.
a man uses force during sex to get more out of a woman than she would willingily do? rapist.
a man ignores clear signs of discomfort, fear, pain and psychological damage during sex? rapist.
a man promises a certain kind of sex and then pushes for a completely different thing once the woman is in impossible to refuse position? rapist.
a man does any action to a woman during sex that she told him not to do and that it makes her uncomfortable/scared? rapist.
a man injures a woman intentionally during sex? rapist
a man intimidates a woman into acts she would have seconds thoughts about in a situation without pressure and threats? rapist.
a man doesn’t let woman act like she doesn’t like what’s happening during sex and demands positive reactions, despite her true feelings? rapist
a man repeats actions that are obviously hurting or damaging the woman’s well being during sex? rapist.
a man uses sex to humiliate and degrade women and fails to see them as human beings? rapist
a man forces his expectations of sex on his wife/girlfriend and makes her feel like she’s not doing her “duty” if she’s not providing him sex? rapist
a man neglects a woman completely unless she’s ready to have sex with him? rapist.
a man throws a tantrum and acts oppressed if he’s not getting the amount of sex he thinks he deserves? rapist
a man targets insecure, vulnerable or abused women and gives them attention precisely because he knows he’ll have an easy time getting sex out of her if he exploits her emotions? rapist.
a man targets women who have hard time with establishing boundaries and standing up for themselves because it would be easy to push them into sex? rapist.
a man targets rape victims and pushes at their boundaries to see how much he could get out of them sexually? rapist
a man targets a minor or anyone under age of consent to get sex? rapist
a man uses money to buy sex? rapist
a man expects sex after spending money on a date/gifts and is ready to hurt/shame/force the woman if she doesn’t deliver? rapist
a man puts woman into situation where she feels if she fails to sleep with him she owes him, or she is in danger? rapist
a man makes sure woman’s social standing/physical safety/job/career depend on weather she will or wont sleep with him? rapist
a man does any sexual act with intoxicated, drugged, unconscious or otherwise unable to defend woman? rapist
a man uses cultural expectations and stereotypes to make women feel obliged to sleep with him? rapist.
a man economically destroys and traps a woman so she has no choice but to have sex with him if she wants to survive? rapist
a man emotionally abuses and devalues a woman until she no longer believes there is anything valuable about her except giving her boy to men? rapist.
a man divides all women into “good, fun and cool women” who will sleep with him and “stupid, arrogant bitches and cunts” who wont? rapist.
a man who thinks all of the above are fair deal because how else is he supposed to get sex? rapist.
a man sends rape threats? a rapist who uses threats to control women
Each of this situations cannot achieve consent because the circumstances of “give me consent or else” disable you from giving free, non-coerced, reversible and informed consent. Consent is an explicitly communicated, reversible mutual agreement in which all parties are capable of making a decision.  Non consensual sexual contact is rape. This works both ways, using male examples because it’s more than 90% men who uphold and repeat these patterns of behaviours.
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