Ghost-Tri

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[zayablack-deactivated20160924]

Re: Saftey & Amazon Wish Lists for SWers

Friendly reminder that Amazon wishlists should be used with caution. I logged out of my sex work account just to see what it looks like if someone wants to buy me a gift, and saw my legal name under the address options. Thankfully, only one person has bought me something from my Amazon list and that was at my old address in a different state.

I’m still keeping my Amazon wish list for electronic gift cards only and when I get a PO Box, I’ll open it back up for tangible gifts. But yeah, just be careful. 

(Note: My wish list was under my stage name, but my address had my legal name, because I thought from Amazon’s policy about not sharing your address with gift buyers they wouldn’t see any of that, but they do see your name and city, just not your address.) @sexworkerhelpfuls

[sexworkerhelpfuls]

And even if you have your name hidden and address, customers can call Amazon and ask about the wishlist order they just placed for you, and Amazon can and will tell them your name and address. Amazon is supposed to be for friends and family only, which is why having a family member call to verify it’s going to the right address isn’t scary, but using it for sex work is. This is why I only accept giftcards and buy the items myself.

[tiedye-tripp]

Reblogging again for the addition. Boooooost

[pepperxspice-blog]

Helpful SW app of the day: Master Call Blocker

I do not accept phone calls on my work phone unless a call has been arranged ahead of time. My answering service states this quite clearly, and I do not even allow people to leave messages. I ask them to text me or email me. This has been pretty effective, usually people call once and then text me and that works out fine. But over the past few days this number has been calling me repeatedly. 

I was having none of it anymore, so I went hunting for a call blocking app. 

There are tons of call blocking apps, but I wanted one with an auto-reply feature so that I could send out a message informing the person that they have been blocked and why. Master Call Blocker was one of the few I found that had this feature! Please note if the message you put in is too long, it won’t send. Its limit seems to be around 70 characters - my message up there is 67. 

It has a few other handy features that you’d expect from a call blocker as well. You can turn the call blocking on or off entirely, you can choose to block only certain numbers or all incoming calls, and you can choose whether the blocked call is hung up on immediately or if it simply silences the call. 

Available on Google Play 

[lavendergin]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BFRvRgJn8Up/

[luscioushoneysugar-blog]

for my ladies wondering how much doctors/physicians make – $$$$ – this was part of an article from Fortune magazine. I’m definitely on the look out for a doctor. they have no excuse now! lol.

[bombshellssonly]

@amore.w

[brown-sugaah-deactivated2015100]

SB Banking Tips

Banking seems to be a common trouble spot sugar babies. I’ll share some of my tips for making cash deposits and what types of accounts are most beneficial for sugar babies.

Info

-The bank is required to automatically flag any deposit over $10,000.

-If you deposit $2,000 five times in one day, you’ll still get flagged.

-Any deposit the bank deems to be suspicious will be flagged.

-You only report interest paid to the IRS if your account is interest bearing. This means, if you have a savings account or an interest bearing checking account, you will accrue interest and must report this on your taxes.

-Most accounts require the owner to have a certain amount of money in the account or a penalty must be paid. Some banks will let you set up alerts to guard against this.

-Any one person may give you a gift of $14,000 per year without having to pay a gift tax.

-The giver of the gift is responsible to pay the gift tax, not the receiver. However, arrangements can be made if necessary.

-If you have cash that you don’t want to deposit, get a safe. A really, really good safe. One that is fire proof, water proof, etc. You don’t want your hard earned money to go to waste.

Tips

-Set up accounts at multiple banks. Banks do not communicate with one another and this allows you to make smaller deposits more frequently.

-Do not deposit the same exact amount each time.

-Mix the deposits. In some cases, I will deposit cash and personal checks not related to sugaring.

-Look like you have money. I always dress nicely, have my makeup done, wear some jewelry. If you are dressed in sweats and UGGs, it may seem a bit suspicious.

-Visit the same branch and make friends with the tellers. Always be polite, chatty, and smile. They will get to know you as a regular customer and trust you. If they know you regularly make larger deposits, they won’t be suspicious.

-Find banks that have ATMs that will immediately deposit your cash. I know newer PNC banks have these ATMs. This allows you to make deposits after hours and no teller is present. These transactions are not flagged unless they exceed the $10,000 limit.

[amberscaliforniasugar-blog]

This is exactly what I needed! I’ve been keeping all of my escort money in a big sunglasses case in my underwear drawer until I get a safe. I’ve been so scared to deposit funds into my bank account because I don’t want to get flagged but I can’t fit my money in this big ass case anymore and it’s just stupid to keep several thousand dollars like that.

Every sex worker needs to read AND share this.

[tlcbaby]

DAMN I NEEDED THIS

[soflobrat]

!!!

[ghost-tri]

Sugar Daddies: baby I love how natural you are

Me: this is a process, this takes time, this takes work, I take work, I'm fake as fuck dude

[mellanysanchez]

Natalie’s beautiful hands

[memecucker]

the TurboTax FAQ page on reporting illegal income is really helpful

[iwannabeadored]

yo sex workers!

[bombshellssonly]

@bootyneedslovin

[joselinehernandezgifs]

[bombshellssonly]

@glaceee

[jwstudying]

SELF CARE CHEAT SHEET!!

how to treat yourself on a low budget

what to do after a long day

how not to be hard on yourself

staying healthy while studying

how to deal with mental illness

feel better masterpost

hygiene/beauty masterpost | my make up masterpost | make up masterpost | simple steps for perfect make up | more make up tips

6 ab moves 

hair oil benefits

what is your acne telling you?

headaches

masterpost for rough times

the sex ed your parents didn’t give you

head to toe self care

blow job tips

limits of the human body

when to change your toothbrush, workouts etc

useful hoe tips

shaving your vagina

foods that fix everything

22 less difficult ways to practise self care

self care wheel

bad habits and how to break them

stop biting nails

stop procrastinating 

stop skipping breakfast

stop cracking knuckles

stop falling asleep late

boost your confidence

list of stress relievers

remove a splinter

smoothie masterpost

morning yoga

hair masterpost

self care masterpost

period hacks | alleviate menstrual cramps

sounds to soothe anxiety | another tip

what to eat before you run

self care infographic 

study guide for health (basic first aid, healthy hobbies etc)

a+ self care advice | more lovely advice

coping skills

feeling sad?

7 ways to say ‘no’

what to do with food poisoning

self talk to end obsessions

self care ideas/tips

[purely-sugar]

How to send pics via Google Voice:

1. You will  need to sign up for Google Voice obviously. 

2. Download the Hangouts App on your phone.

3. Go to Settings

4. Click where it shows your phone number. 

5. Scroll to the bottom and enable messages.

6.Go back to your messages and click the first icon where it looks like a mountain. 

7. Attach whatever photo you want. 

That’s it. 

Feel free to reblog the information.

[soflobrat]

Bitch yesss. I’ve been looking for this. Bless you✨

[psy-faerie]

PLEASE REBLOG

[pardonmewhileipanic]

Jesus Christ

[smitethestate]

Holy shit boost and please stay safe if you use rideshare stuff like this.

[harryedward]

I like the culture of telling girls they can have as much sex as guys. But I think this culture really lacks the consequences of being sexual. There should be more posts about the emotional affects of sleeping with so many people; what to do if you find yourself being taken advantage of, how to deal with these boys treating you like garbage, what to do if you’re slut shamed, rather than the posts like “suck 10 dicks u bad bitch 👅👀🍆”

[bombshellssonly]

@anthonycuts