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she/they - mostly a tlt blog - 22 years old - trans gothdyke - icon & banner by @notedchampagne

[ghostlyharrow]

uhh my website: https://sckl.neocities.org

[werewolfbutches]

[swiftlark]

hot take possibly? but i actually think it’s okay for things to be marketed for adults. it’s literally okay if things aren’t suitable for children. i feel like we are losing the plot

[reimanticism]

happy pride month to whatever they had going on

[kej-art]

happy pride to these idiots 🌈

(I'm thinking about drawing Ianthe and Camilla as well? we will see, we will see)

[frishbi]

Kicking off the month with some Griddlehark!

[birdyvadu]

Moarning

*head in hands*

[wifegideonnav]

happy pride to girls who didn’t know that women could be nice to you, inscrutable polycules, straight people in forbidden marriages, body snatchers who kiss their own reflections, poets obsessed with long-dead warriors, predatory cougars, lesbians who are in fact the problem, and girls who are in love with a corpse

[farmerlesbian]

ok. and why would it be bad to be horny? why would it be bad to look at a photo of boobs for a long time? why would it be bad to look at a woman and be attracted to her? why would it be bad to be turned on by seeing a woman? why would it be bad to think of a woman lustfully? and why would any of this make someone a bad lesbian? quickly.

[farmerlesbian]

i’m tired of the jokes that hinge on the assumption that it is bad to look at or think of a woman lustfully, that it would make you a bad lesbian, a bad feminist. that it is somehow bad to be attracted to a woman. its not. it’s not! look hornily goddammit! it’s a photograph, you don’t need to “look respectfully” look as long and as horny as you want! she or they can’t see you! please free yourself we don’t have time for this.

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

ntm that on top of that, to treat attraction to women as inherently and necessarily predatory in nature cedes the antifeminist argument that people who commit sexual harassment or even assault had no choice and that responsibility lies with the victim to be less attractive/vulnerable.

otoh every time you look with lust upon a woman and don't harass or assault her, you're living proof that attraction to women shouldn't excuse harm. Every time you hit on a woman in an appropriate environment in a way that respects spoken and unspoken nos, you're proving that wanting to fuck a woman doesn't excuse mistreating her.

thinking about it like that made it easier for me to stop feeling so much shame about my desire for women, anyways

[farmerlesbian]

💜 thank you for the addition, yeah!

[daughter-of-sapph0]

actually id say that the falsely constructed idea of trans unity - that all trans people are some monolithic group who all agree with each other and are all equally oppressed and anyone who disagrees with that is an outsider trying to harm the trans hivemind - is FAR MORE DAMAGING to trans people as a whole than the basic understanding that intersectionality exists

lets be real, "trans unity" will never happen as long as there are privileged trans people who use their privilege to harm others. not only is that phrase a stupid unobtainable fantasy and will not protect us from systemic transphobia... its also exclusively said by mitchfestian tmes who want us to shut up about our specific relationship with transmisogyny

[lenaskzorel]

oh griddle my beloved ♡

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[tongue-twists]

the enlightened pervert can look beyond kink to find meaning. and then get horny about the meaning instead.

[marceline2174]

Bone Cocoon

[swordtit]

the best thing you can do to a character make them averse to touch and absolutely starved for it

[ghostlyharrow]

im fine i just need a glass of ice water and a hug and a few hours in my bed and a joint and a full-body orgasm and a dr pepper and reassurance that im still sane and a new chapter of this fic and a peach iced tea and another glass of ice water and wintery weather and a nap and someone doing something thoughtful for me without me asking and a cigarette and a cry and a hangout with other lesbians and a hangout with other goths and another glass of ice water and a lobotomy and to not feel fetishized and a bar of chocolate and to feel desired and a new job and a good hair day and a refill of my lipstick and a threesome and a lot of money and more commissioned art and a masters degree and another glass of ice water and joy and an apartment please god i just want a fucking apartment

[bodyintheriver]

“She died. She can’t come back, even if you keep her stuffed away in a drawer you can’t look at. You’re not waiting for her resurrection; you’ve made yourself her mausoleum.”