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she/they - mostly a tlt blog - 22 years old - trans gothdyke - icon & banner by @notedchampagne

[ghostlyharrow]

uhh my website: https://sckl.neocities.org

[haaarpb]

whats tanya's deal.... did she start out a fully thought out character or as a useful obstacle? how did she end up at that party ?

im gonna keep tanya a mystery for now; just know she knows a lot and says a little

[carys-the-ninth]

I should reread Harrow the Ninth

[carys-the-ninth]

correct!

[haaarpb]

why is hopper always so sweaty

mind u thosere zits but yes theyre real sweaty

[haaarpb]

Do u ever goo teehee before drawing something?

maybe

[morganitism]

More trans infighting tbh

[morganitism]

Don't like that? Start being normal about transfems then

[morganitism]

Transfems are the ones expected to make themselves smaller for the comfort of other trans people. We're not allowed to speak. We're not allowed to stand. We're not allowed to take up space. If we do then we are just "troublemakers," and we'll be harassed until we isolate ourselves from society and never have community. They reduce us to labels like "transradfem" because it's an easy way to frame us as troublemakers while also framing us as the cause of our own oppression.

We are not a part of the solidarity that TME trans people envision because they are just as eager to build the tranny killing machine as any cis person. We are an obstacle to their "solidarity," not a part of it.

We have no brothers.

[xbeautifulxgarbage]

[liminal-disaster]

I feel like kids would be less "loud/annoying/tantrum prone/whatever the complaint about them is this week" if they weren't forced to live in a world that doesn't treat them like human beings and constantly forced to obey the whims of other people with no consideration for their own thoughts and emotions. And if they weren't actively conscious of this. Blaming kids for occasionally breaking down over their treatment is like blaming women for yelling at their abusive husbands or crying about the sexism inherent in society. It's "the women's disease/hysteria" but directed at children instead of women.

Even if they have genuinely loving families that don't neglect them, which is rare, children are still put under constant abuse from every other aspect of their life. They're living on ultra-mega-hard-mode. Emotions are understandable.

I also completely understand people who can't be around loud children, or who hate it when a kid breaks down crying or screaming in a store or a restaurant. I hate it when a kid breaks down crying or screaming in a restaurant or store. Like, that's not an unreasonable feeling to have when someone is making an uncomfortable amount of noise. I get it. You don't want that kid to be crying or screaming any more than they want to be doing it.

These kids didn't ask to be forced to sit in a fancy restaurant in uncomfortable clothes around people they don't like eating disgusting food for hours. Those kids didn't ask to be hauled around a supermarket looking at things they're not allowed to have. That kid is crying because they're in a situation they don't want to be in, and they probably didn't have any say over how they got there. They've been forced into Situations for probably their entire lives, and sometimes they snap and have breakdowns. Breaking down after the level of constant psychological abuse inherent in modern childhood would be considered normal and understandable for any other age group, but when children do it it's considered irrational and bothersome and annoying. I get that empathy and compassion are hard, we're all suffering, but maybe for once try to have some instead of just writing the suffering of children off as too annoying to deal with.

[wolfycoffee]

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[greatsilverini]

judith & dulcie & a self indulgent harrow :3

thank you to dear friend @h0perest0rat1onpr0gram whose ref images I used for harrow and dulcie!

[vividciggy]

Nona doodles 🪼

[haplophrynemolliz]

he said he loved me! me!

[butcheeked]

teachers hold up the world. its been 5+ days and we are close to almost done with our comic

[ghostlyharrow]

maybe. if men (and lesser so but still other TMEs broadly) are always going to be predisposed to thinking i am an incorrigible bitch. I should just embrace it and be an incorrigible bitch. maybe

[iamanewvagina101]

what r ur kinks

I'm consumed by grief

[dear-sophie]

Castle Drearburh doors

[tauindi]

the condescending life advice "you have to do x" "you cannot do x" "or you will be a miserable pariah"-style posts are really the worst on this site