if you have a sparkle on your face that was me 👉👈

he/him - 22 - formerly glitterbitchboy

[karvina]

youll be typing the url of one of your beloved mutuals into the search bar on this app and itll first recommend you a Tumblr Community with 2 people in it called like Nova Scotia Scrap Metal Enthusiasts

[damnhotpocket]

Gema.piano on instagram

Why are all music teachers like this 😭😭😭

[pigswithwings]

its not the year of the horse yet what r u all on

[pigswithwings]

its the ass of the snake we r in the tail end of a snake year right now. year of the horse is in february dont get all gregorian on me now

[pigswithwings]

ok now is a good time to be horseful

[dykeferatu]

it’s annoying as fuck actually how often supposed progressives jump to emasculanization as a way of making fun of men that suck. and i don’t buy the argument of “well i don’t think it’s bad but THEY would so it’s funny.” i don’t believe you. you think it’s funny to imply a man is a faggot because it’s been ingrained in you to think it’s funny/humiliating for a man to be feminine and FURTHERMORE you equate being penetrated with submissiveness and submissiveness with femininity. fix your hearts or die

[tlirsgender]

You are not a People Pleaser your lack of boundaries are not a virtue and one day you are going to boil over and lash out at your loved ones who had no idea they were hurting you because you never told them

[tlirsgender]

Your lack of boundaries are not a virtue 🗣🗣🗣

[tlirsgender]

The person in my notes telling me to "have compassion for traumatized people" is exhibiting the exact behavior I'm talking about re: (not) taking responsibility for your own communication so I think this type of person Does need to hear Hard Truths, actually. Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships & the people in them. Enabling it won't help anything cause ultimately you still have to do the work on yourself and use your fucking words

[tlirsgender]

Ok? Ok. Now everyone else in my notes saying some variation on "yeah this is me I'm working on it" I'm giving you a sticker

[vetchtibbles]

I think I’m falling behind in pop culture can we stop writing books and making movies until I catch up. something crazy is about to happen to gilgamesh

[dogpuppy]

[crimeronan]

i got a 100% on this bostonian-to-english quiz but i grew up near boston..... i'm curious what you guys get. there's a couple things in here i didn't even know are regionalisms + a couple things i hadn't heard before but could parse pretty easily from context. tag/reply with what you got and if you're familiar with the area or not!

[tlirsgender]

Greek myth retellings have this weird conflict of like. Trying to 1. Adjust them to modern progressive values, when they were written in the sociocultural context of an ancient society that simply Wasn't a Liberal Utopia. Which leads into 2. The marketable urge to make everything an escapist fantasy, especially for women & queer people, when a lot of these stories are like. Sexually violent and it's kind of the point and you lose a lot when you make it Not be about sexual violence. Consent Persephone comes to mind but this keeps happening

[tlirsgender]

And what really makes Me crazy is that Bad Things Happening doesn't preclude a story from being #empowering & I dare say it would be more meaningful from that angle. But whatever. Persephone Consensuaia is something of a modern folk figure representing kind of nothing

[tlirsgender]

From the queerness angle, I understand finding comfort in the knowledge we have always been here, that's a lot of what drew me to greek myths as a teenager, However . We can have some nuance here. Like, pederasty is maybe Not It. A lot of greco-roman homoeroticism is tinted through the lens of a misogynistic social context. Etc etc. I'm not #cancelling greek mythology I just think we can Think about it harder. Sanitizing it to fit our own modern sociocultural context feels .... WEIRD? Also you end up stumbling ass backwards into More Misogyny a lot when you do this (i.e. what a lot of you are doing to Demeter when you make Persephone into a disney princess. If she's to be Feministly rescued by a man, she must need a wicked mother, no?)

[tlirsgender]

You FAILED! [You stole fizzy lifting drinks] Your feminist Persephone retelling follows the disney princess formula! You LOSE

[mordioux]

All the flashy stuff

[speedlimit15]

When youre a kid youre like wtf adults are making themselves sick with poisons and when youre an adult youre like i need more poisons ASAP

[writhe]

was i normal / forgivable / worth saving at the party last night? be honest haha 😂 🙈

[ispyspookymansion]

if i hadnt bought that takeout that wasnt even very good on impulse 4 years ago i would be financially stable by now

[glitterboytoy]

have unfollowed Two people today for posting transandrophobia shit i hate this website so much but all the others are worse :(

[circusheart]

I propose this year be Two thousand twenty FIX. this year we're fixing shit. If you got a problem fix it right away if you can. As soon as you notice even. Fix shit. Fix your leaky faucet. Clean your shower. Talk to your friends about that thing they do that makes you feel unloved. 202fix

[fluentisonus]

looking at jobs is like vintage toothpick sorter entry level immediate start ..... wow maybe I could be a vintage toothpick sorter.... *starts to envision a future where I am deeply involved in vintage toothpick sorting* *scrolls down* "5 years vintage toothpick sorting required Minimum!" *my dreams of vintage toothpick sorting dissolve into dust"

[ibuprofengirl]

writing cover letters