"I don't relate to movies when they aren't like me" meanwhile the best comparison to the relationship I had/have with my mother during my Black American childhood features a Chinese Canadian family where generations of the women turn into red pandas due to a balance of emotional suppression and necessary strength and survival. Skill issue, I says, SKILL ISSUE!
When your mom raises you her daughter like a perfect warrior because she wants to prove to her mother and family and herself that she can do things right and is successful and normal and Nothing's Wrong but you are pulling away from that because you're your own person and it's bringing out her soul crumbling anxiety that you have to deal with.... Ouch who said that 👀


















