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I’m currently trying to learn how to make aesthetic boards for a blog I’m a part of. This was the result.
In my defense, you left me unsupervised.
How to write kids, if you don't remember being one or haven't lived with any
1. Kids never feel as small as you see them. A three year old thinks a one year old is a baby and a six year old is grown up. A six year old thinks a three year old is a baby and a twelve year old is an adult. Age is about perspective. One year is a huge age difference to a little kid.
2. Little kids might not be conscious of their physical limitations, but they can still be frustrated by them. A seven year old might see an adult do something relatively simple, like draw a straight line or perfectly crack an egg, and try to do the same thing, only to be frustrated when it doesn't work.
Imagine suddenly having an injury that makes a skill you use every day become difficult- you feel you should be able to do the thing, and you understand the thing should be easy for you, but it isn't. It can be immensely frustrating to have a brain that grasps a concept that language or fine motor skills haven't caught up to.
3. You know when you forget a word, and have to make something up on the fly to describe the word? That's pretty much exactly what learning your first language is like.
You know what you intend, but you don't have a way to express it, and it can move you to tears with frustration when everyone around you is suggesting the wrong thing, or seems completely certain they understand what you mean, and they don't.
You don't have a word for "Later"? You might try saying "next time", or, "after", or, "before tomorrow".
This might result in saying, "Are we going to the park next time?", "Are we going to the park before tomorrow?", or, "Are we going to the park after?", all of which can result in different answers.
4. Kids feel like adults are a different species. They don't get why we do certain things, and they don't understand why we don't want to run around with them all the time.
If sitting still is boring, coffee tastes bitter, and long conversations only happen with weird-smelling strangers who talk to them like they're stupid, then they truly will not understand why anyone would *want* to be left to have coffee with a friend without welcome distractions to make it bearable.
Aren't you bored? You aren't doing anything. How could you possibly be stimulated without any food or toys or music or anything? Why don't you just leave? Do you *have* to be there, the way you had to go to work? Adults are weird.
5. Children have complex social relationships that are just as varied as yours.
A room full of third graders might look like indiscriminate chaos to an adult, but pick a well connected kid, and they'll tell you that Megan is the fashion icon who can do hair really well, Thomas is the athlete, Gray gets mean when he has to share so nobody wants to play with him, Paisley can't read and the boys make fun of her for it so don't make her work in a group with Anthony, Dillon put a bug in their food once so they'll never trust him again, and Matthew's parents let him watch family guy so he says bad words and makes grown-up jokes that make other kids uncomfortable.
You don't see this stuff because you aren't inside the society. They are, and they do.
6. Time. Moves. So. Slow. Five minutes really does feel like half an hour. Sit still for five minutes? That's like you sitting in a waiting room at the DMV for an hour. Wouldn't you get annoyed and impatient? They haven't learned to hide their irritation yet. That's really the only difference.
7. "Reading in your head" requires understanding that you have a Voice, which people can hear, and Thoughts, which are audible only to yourself. This can be a difficult concept to grasp. If a kid is reading out loud, and you tell them to read quietly, there's a good chance they're going to whisper or mouth the words instead of going totally silent the way you might. Splitting the self into multiples like "Internal monologue VS public perception" or "What I look like VS how I think I look" is alien and bizarre. If a kid thinks they look like a Dragon and you laugh at them? Ouch. They might be mad for a while.
8. Repetitive chores make no sense when your awareness of time doesn't extend beyond a week or so. Why should I wash my blankets? They don't look dirty and I don't smell anything bad. Blankets don't get dirty unless you put dirt on them. If you put a blanket in a washer, you can't use that blanket AT ALL the ENTIRE TIME it's being cleaned. That might be an hour, but it will *feel* like a week. And you have to do that every two weeks?? That's overkill. Why even bother?
9. Kids have opinions about adults. They will have a sense about whether an adult is "real-kind" or "fake-kind". An adult who listens respectfully to what they have to say, asks thoughtful questions, and takes their concerns seriously? That's a good adult. An adult that oversimplifies their struggles, ignores their complex social rules, and gives bullshit advice like "just walk away from bullies" and "turn your chores into a fun game"? That's not a trustworthy adult. That's an Adult™. An Adult™ doesn't consider them to be a real human being with thoughts and emotions. An Adult™ sees them as an inferior, amusing pet. And they will actively sabotage An Adult™ like that.
10. Emotions are physical at a young age. Joy might make their body buzz until they can't help but wiggle or jump around. Sadness might be a huge physical pain in their throat and heart. Everything they experience is still relatively.New to.them, so there is very little frame of reference to decide if this is a "big hurt that will last forever and ever and never go away", or a "small hurt, that can be fixed easily and won't matter in five minutes". If someone lies to them about getting a cookie, that very well might be all the betrayal of your best friend sleeping with your husband.
Fortunately, a child probably won't be able to burn all your clothes in the yard without your notice.
Tips for Writing a Difficult Scene
Every writer inevitably gets to that scene that just doesn't want to work. It doesn't flow, no matter how hard you try. Well, here are some things to try to get out of that rut:
1. Change the weather
I know this doesn't sound like it'll make much of a difference, but trust me when I say it does.
Every single time I've tried this, it worked and the scene flowed magically.
2. Change the POV
If your book has multiple POV characters, it might be a good idea to switch the scene to another character's perspective.
9/10 times, this will make the scene flow better.
3. Start the scene earlier/later
Oftentimes, a scene just doesn't work because you're not starting in the right place.
Perhaps you're starting too late and giving too little context. Perhaps some description or character introspection is needed before you dive in.
Alternatively, you may be taking too long to get to the actual point of the scene. Would it help to dive straight into the action without much ado?
4. Write only the dialogue
If your scene involves dialogue, it can help immensely to write only the spoken words the first time round.
It's even better if you highlight different characters' speech in different colors.
Then, later on, you can go back and fill in the dialogue tags, description etc.
5. Fuck it and use a placeholder
If nothing works, it's time to move on.
Rather than perpetually getting stuck on that one scene, use a placeholder. Something like: [they escape somehow] or [big emotional talk].
And then continue with the draft.
This'll help you keep momentum and, maybe, make the scene easier to write later on once you have a better grasp on the plot and characters.
Trust me, I do this all the time.
It can take some practice to get past your Type A brain screaming at you, but it's worth it.
So, those are some things to try when a scene is being difficult. I hope that these tips help :)
Reblog if you found this post useful. Comment with your own tips. Follow me for similar content.
this is the list that solved two thirds of my writers block
Might have these out of order but just a good thread to share.
[link to the original thread on twitter for screenreaders]
on one hand this thread makes me want to cry a lot and on the other I’m like, well, my brain is a complex system and now I have a sort of entry point to figure out how it works, so that’s good
I want to reblog this because sometimes finding the word for how your brain works differently is helpful.
this is helpful! but also… it’s all things that can be passed off as ADHD as well. does anyone know of any resources for distinguishing between autism and ADHD? I’ve been looking for some for a long time and haven’t had any luck
so im not a mental health professional, so keep my response to this with a grain of salt, but this is my understanding as someone with adhd who works as a teacher and has learned about these conditions and how they work and has worked with kids with them (and has a brother on the spectrum)
the core of adhd is problems with executive functioning- this is a series of functions that primarily take place in the frontal cortex of the brain which cover goal-making, prioritization of and completion of tasks, motivation, attention, focus, time management, organization, and impulse control - if your primary difficulties are with these, it’s more likely adhd
autism revolves around issues of sensory processing, cognitive empathy, communication and language processing; someone with adhd may have issues with sensory processing, but this is more likely to interfere with their ability to focus; they are much less likely to have a full on sensory overload meltdown - in fact I’ve never seen that in a student with adhd but I have seen it in students with autism; there’s also differences with empathy (which I go into later)
people with adhd and autism have strong relationships with routines and rules but in different ways - in adhd the routines they are used to or they create for themselves can help them remember to complete tasks or manage their time. changes in routine make it more difficult because the accommodation is taken away leading to forgetfulness or disorganization which can be distressing. for someone with autism the routine itself is important and comforting and any break in routine is incredibly distressing - not because of a difficulty in executive disfunction like for someone with adhd, but because of the change itself. an example i can give you is an autistic student of mine always had to get up from his desk and watch when the trolley went by - this routine was necessary to him even though it didn’t help him complete his work in any way - whereas for me, a class time or weekly meeting changing causes me stress because I am more likely to forget it or be late since the routine helps me remember
adhd & autism can both result in social issues but for different reasons. with adhd the problems usually stem from lack of impulse control, hyperactivity, day dreaming and/or special interests and while autism can include those issues, if you also have difficulty reading & using social cues and communication it’s more likely to be autism not adhd.
It’s also not uncommon for someone on the spectrum to have a disinterest in socializing or even in having friends - I’ve had multiple students who were probably on the spectrum who were perfectly happy being alone and not having any friends at all, but I feel like that is really rare among kids with adhd who are more likely to have at least one or two close friends and if not, be very unhappy - this isn’t to say no one on the autism spectrum wants friends or has friends or is sad about being unliked, just that if you remember being content being alone as a kid or having a tendency to not really socialize with people, that’s more likely autism than adhd
both ppl with autism & adhd may have special interests & info dump - main difference would probably be person with adhd has more awareness when ppl are losing interest or think they’re weird but can’t help themselves and a person with autism is less likely to notice or recognize what others think / how they react
both ppl with autism & adhd may stim (do repetitive movements) but the stimming can differ and be motivated by different things. someone with adhd may use a fidget spinner or move back and forth in an rolling chair or pace or doodle to help them concentrate or because of hyperactivity. if someone with adhd is prevented from stimming it probably would not cause them emotional distress in and of itself: it would likely make it harder for them to concentrate or offset hyperactivity and that could cause frustration but the act itself is actually probably not that important. letting out a kid with adhd for recess early or giving them another outlet would probably work. but for someone with autism it could result in a meltdown or a complete inability to do a task bc the stim itself feels necessary or highly important or comforting. people with autism are also more likely to stim in more obvious or socially “unacceptable ways” like rocking back and forth, making certain sounds, etc. Ofc not all people autism do this, but it can happen in autism but I’ve never seen it in adhd
procrastination is more of an adhd issue - do you procrastinate and put off things even things you enjoy? like a tv show you keep meaning to watch, a friend you keep meaning to call? do even your special interests get put off sometimes? more likely to be adhd than autism
organization is more of a problem for adhd; a kid with a super messy backpack and chaotic room who keeps forgetting and losing their homework is more likely to have adhd; a kid who keeps everything in a particular place and is really upset by things being moved or changed is more likely to have autism
difficulty with speaking or processing language is a symptom of autism which can include not understanding what people are saying, or having moments where you find yourself unable to talk (selective mutism) - some ppl with autism have tendencies like echolalia where they repeat things people say or find it very hard to put thoughts and feelings into words; ADHD does not include these symptoms - in fact this was the major difference between me (kid with adhd) and my brother (kid with autism) - i am a very communicative person who loves language, my brother struggled with expressing himself in words growing up
students I had with autism had a lot of trouble drawing inferences or reading between the lines but they did very well with facts, For instance, when we would read passages together, they would scan the passages for specific details, but they had a hard time stating the main idea or inferring what was suggested or describing character traits and feelings. I had a student who could rattle off all the presidents and first ladies and lots of facts about classical musicians but couldn’t tell you what a character was feeling in a scene or what the main idea of an article was. If that feels familiar you more likely have autism than adhd
difficulty with cognitive empathy is a common issue for autism but not for adhd. you might say tactless things if you have adhd but you’re more likely to say dumb shit and regret it due to impulse control whereas with autism you’d be confused as to why people are upset at you or you might simply have difficulty understanding how others think and feel. a common misconception is autistic people are cold or don’t care about others NOT TRUE AT ALL - cognitive empathy doesn’t mean you don’t FEEL for others, it means you have trouble putting yourself in other people’s shoes - adhd does not cause issues with this - it more causes issues with impulse control and keeping up with relationships due to issues with goal-setting, remembering social engagements, etc
people should feel free to add more
Lots of overlap between symptoms of ADHD and Autism, and it is totally possible to have both! A lot of people with one tend to have the other and don’t realize it until much later.
You don’t have to be officially diagnosed to take advantage of resources for Autism – if the community “hacks” and info you see online work for you, use them! You deserve to have the best life possible working WITH your Autism, and not against it.
Same for ADHD folks too - you don’t have to be officially diagnosed, you’re not “appropriating” anything if hacks/tips/tricks help.
If it helps, it helps. Normalizing it helps everyone too.
Remus's skirt outfit
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☠️/⛓️ /☠️
Ramble. I’d like to know 👀. -🌹✨
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Oh dear... Well, here we go!
(There's the list again for reference, I guess)
So. My thoughts on ships.
I mine as well start at the beginning of my adventure into the Sanders Sides fandom. I have always been a multi-shipper. I couldn't pick just one ship that I liked because they could all be frickin cute in their own ways. The more fan content I consumed, the more I actually started to favor certain ships, though I still liked all of them. Analogical and Logince were the first two I favored above the rest. Then Janus was introduced and I liked Roceit a lot too. I started off on Wattpad and I read a lot of one-shot books. I never actively searched for a certain ship until my brain settled on my favorite characters being Logan and Virgil. So, I found a bunch of Analogical and a few Logince stories. Still, again, I read just about anything if it sounded interesting enough and fan-art and edits are always cool. (And I wrote anything too)
Along the road, Prinxiety and Logicality became kinda eh and Virgil was lowering on my list of favorite characters. It wasn't until Remus was introduced that my thoughts almost completely changed. I discovered Unsympathetic Patton and consumed way too much of that (not really, there's not enough still in my opinion-) and Unsympathetic Virgil and Roman could be really good too. Logan, Remus, and Janus became my absolute favorite characters, the only time I can stand them being unsympathetic is for the sake of gore or some such thing. So marry that favoritism with my love of angst and obviously that leads to at least one if not all three of the others being unsympathetic. And with those three being my favorite and being overwhelmed with the amount of Prinxiety and Logicality content, I grew to really, really dislike the two. I can only read it if it's super toxic or something because angst. Don't worry, I do love Roman too, but sometimes I just really love to hate seeing him be an absolute toxic jerk.
So I suppose why I said I'm not sure I did it accurately... I have my OTPs and I have ships that I still favor but not as much. But the rest I'm pretty neutral towards (except maybe the five on the bottom two tiers though I still scrunch my nose at Prinxiety and Logicality...) Like I might read something (more often than not, it's smut ngl) if it pops up and again, art is always super cool. I might even write them from time to time if I think of something for it. So the two middle tiers are not completely accurate to me I feel like? Any of the ones in the neutral tier I could like if the content is right, and any in the tier above I might just shrug at. (Not that the story or art was bad, it just wasn't my cup of tea then) So those tiers could shift a lot throughout even a single day.
Not gonna lie, I started off only supporting RemRom and started writing stuff because it needs more content and just to spite people. But...It’s really cute, y’all. It’s not my first favorite but definitely deserves that OTP tier in my eyes. I mean, Intruloceit is already pretty perfect for me but add Roman and it’s just *chef’s kiss*
So yeah, there was my rambling… Idk if any of that made sense but hopefully??
(Also, I’m not trying to hate on people who ship Prinxiety and Logicality. I don’t care what you ship. I had a friend who hated my OTP and I hated theirs, but it didn’t change the fact we were friends. Our opinions don’t have to perfectly align to get along and be nice to each other.)
Same Roman, same.
He sexy man 💚💚
I have had the absolute pleasure of doing this neat tier. It was fun Bc it actually almost had all the ships in it (not including c!Thomas Emile REMy or Critic)
Anyway idk why the second image cut off the results. It’s the one that counted toward the community results 🤷🏾♀️. But everything in the bottom category is the same in both images(except for 2 ships which I made a new category for)
https://tiermaker.com/create/sanders-sides-ships-including-poly-ships-771762?ref=button
rate all sanders sides ships (including poly ships. excluding shorts characters)
Idk if I was completely accurate but I did it?
⚠️Contains spoilers to the newest video⚠️
Pov: Remus and Roman having a ✨regular conversation✨ with Thomas. What are they talking about? 👀😁
💚 Listen I made the top gif and gif underneath the cut from scratch. Watch out world, soon I may be able to make full on stories from heavily “hand crafted” gifs hehe ❤️
If you still want ideas
Can you do them playing an instrument?
cuddles + an idiot
RemRom where they aren’t brothers but instead friends. And it’s warm and sweet.
Saying “this niche, properly tagged, warned, and rated piece of fiction could theoretically hurt someone” is not a good argument. This properly labeled cookie with the allergen information at the bottom that contains gluten could theoretically harm me very badly, but only if I consume it. Tags are like nutrition labels, and warnings are like allergy information. If you know you have an allergy to something, the logic is to stay away from it. It is the same with fiction. I’m not running through stores yelling at people to take all the products with gluten off the shelves just because it could hurt me. Instead I ignore it and go to the gluten free section and find cookies that are right for me. And if running through a grocery store yelling sounds ridiculous, that’s because it is. Stop doing the same with fiction.
this is the best way i’ve seen this put!!
And just like with food, what might be harmful for one person to consume could be quite *beneficial* for others. One man’s trigger is another man’s catharsis.
AND if you lack the maturity/self control/awareness to stop yourself from eating things that could potentially harm you, you either 1) are too young to be making your own food choices and should be supervised by a parent/other adult who is supposed to be responsible for you (and the store clerk who put the food on the shelf is NOT) or 2) need to take accountability for your own actions, because if you deliberately consumed something you knew could hurt you as a fully autonomous adult, then you really have no one to blame but yourself.
yo
but if Roman and Remus did fuck, Roman would be the bitchyest bottom ever but It would be okay, bc if anyone can handle his level of diva-ness and not be too judgy and condescending about it…it is absolutely Remus. See he knows how Roman works, Roman needs to be treated like the slut he is in bed but also treated to a bubble bath and cuddles and a 10,000 dollar bottle of champaign afterward.