Syscourse blog!

Plural they/them, you&/yours& See pintro for more!

[gravescourse]

Mandatory intro post!

[PT: Mandatory intro post! /End PT]

About Us

Traumagenic and neurogenic fictive-heavy system. We split most of our headmates from hyperfixations and special interests, with the rest of our system being mostly traumagenic. We do have a few headmates that didn't originate from either of these things as well.

We mainly use we/us, but we do occasionally also use I/me to refer to the individual fronter. If you're referring to us, as a collective, please use you&/yours&.

Plural they/them (no single they/them) to refer to us collectively; we won't share the pronouns of individual headmates since there are a lot of us who post here. We also don't usually sign off, but we will if it's important.

Bodily intersex, almost all of us are queer in some way as well. Recovered ex-radqueer.

Our syscourse code (link).

Our plural code (link).

[artisticdysfunction]

im also gonna say.

for every other aspect of systemhood, it's generally considered polite to ask how a system works and how they prefer to do things, instead of assuming.

why should littles be the exception? why is it okay to assume for littles and literally no other aspect?

just assuming, even when you have very valid trauma based reasons for it, does absolutely nothing but make some people miserable. and we would know, as in the past we have had to suffer through that exact kind of person.

[gravescourse]

Have a cat to combat recent syscourse spam ^^

[PT: Have a cat to combat recent syscourse spam /End PT]

[gravescourse]

Please take care of yourself today, do that thing you've been procrastinating, drink some water, take a nap if needed! You are important, cared about, and loved (or appreciated, if love of any sort isn't your thing)!

[PT: Please take care of yourself today, do that thing you've been procrastinating, drink some water, take a nap if needed! You are important, cared about, and loved (or appreciated, if love of any sort isn't your thing)! /End PT]

Sincerely, Medkit

[pxnksystxm]

petcourse time

syscoursers show me ur pets…or face the disappointment (my disappointment of not seeing them)

[gravescourse]

Torwat (cat) and Ziggy (dog)!

Torwat has a wonky tail, we have no clue where it came from, but it doesn't seem to be hurting her according to the vet. We think it might just bend like that because she's a manx, and it also could've gotten shut in a door at one point or something, hence the other bend.

Ziggy doesn't really have anything 'quirky' about him, he just sleeps all day. As older dogs do!

[gravescourse]

I know this is not what I usually post on here and not technically syscourse but I thought you guys would get a laugh out of it. Had the Forsaken tag open and tried to go to the syscourse tag without erasing it... something terrifying has been created.

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[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

unfollow us if your system isnt forsakengenic REAL systems were made by the Spectre

[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

godforsaken? like.....just like....forsak

[harleyful]

what happened to this post

[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

spectre got us

[gravescourse]

Spectre got us

[gravescourse]

I know this is not what I usually post on here and not technically syscourse but I thought you guys would get a laugh out of it. Had the Forsaken tag open and tried to go to the syscourse tag without erasing it... something terrifying has been created.

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[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

as a c-DID sys, i'd honestly love to see more content we don't relate to. more spaces accepting to and more discussion of high-split tolerance, low head count, less switching, more of that stuff.

so many system spaces are for the chaotic DID experience - i feel like a lot of OSDD and more "chill" experiences get left out

we are getting annoyed with the way the discussion is brought up, but that's just because our first instinct when we perceive "persecution" is to get aggressive so it's irrelevant. kinda why we haven't been commenting much on syscourse recently, don't wanna trauma response all over the masses

we don't have much knowledge of OSDD regrettably, so any OSDD sys who wants to say anything about how they feel treated in the system community, or their differences from DID, or anything really - are perfectly welcome. anons are back on as well

[gravescourse]

OSDD sys here - I really feel like most of the system community only caters to DID (only if it's cHaOtIc) as you said. I can only really speak on OSDD-1 since I don't know too much about other types, but from what I've seen, fakeclaiming certainly has an impact on our exclusion from the community. OSDD-1b systems are targetted relentlessly by fakeclaimers, especially if they're pro-endo or endo-friendly (really, any syscourse stance besides anti-endo). Fakeclaiming subreddits such as syscringe also famously target everyone, but I've especially seen some claiming in unity that OSDD-1b must not actually exist due to the nature of it.

OSDD-1a on the other hand also suffers fakeclaiming, yet of a different kind. I also often see OSDD-1a getting.. honestly, erased. There is a massive and disappointing issue, including in syscourse, of OSDD-1a just not being talked about at all! People tend to fakeclaim systems with type 1a for "not REALLY having alters", from what I've seen, which is obviously bullshit. I feel like it's a lot more unfair for OSDD-1a systems to navigate the system community, because when they're actually noticed at all, they get fakeclaimed. Or, if you're lucky enough to find yourself in a space with no fakeclaiming at all, still not get noticed and have no relatable content anyways.

[gravescourse]

I have a confession to make... I'm the anti anti pro anti pro willo anon anon anon anon...

[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

stop saying mitsuki is morally awful and shouldn't be on the internet for the crime of being mentally ill and having a breakdown jesus christ. everyone has those moments. even more so in syscourse, where we're almost all traumatized.

also, that type of breakdown is common in our experience with cluster b folks who have self-destructive tendencies as one of their symptoms, and as a cluster b system with a cluster b psys, cluster b friends, cluster b enemies - i have literally seen more explosive breakdowns that were completely forgiven. i've HAD those breakdowns. so like, just go mask off and start calling people you don't like narcissists and sociopaths so we can speed this ableism express up.

[quoigenic-anon]

Okay, some users in the tag do give me a certain feeling...

Like people in triggered state should still watch themselves and never do anything wrong. That they're supposed to still control themselves, even when they can't even control their own thoughts and emotions. That they should take responsibility for their bad actions immediately, even in triggered state.

You know what? It's wrong. It's wrong to expect from a currently unstable person (a traumatized individual in 99% cases) to act nice when they're triggered. It's wrong to think that everything said and done in triggered state they would accept and do in normal state.

[artisticdysfunction]

"this blogger is forcing us all to watch a public mental breakdown!"

... yall don't know how to block someone?

[gravescourse]

Just gonna put this out here, with all the stupid "radendo" stuff going on in syscourse right now;

Willogenics and other created systems always have been, are, and always will be a part of the plural community. Even if you 'disagree' with them, which is kind of pointless and dumb on it's own, they won't go away even if you magically slap some new label like "radendo" on them.

To any created systems reading this, I hope you have a good day/night! Don't let randos on the internet make your day gloomy just because of some stupid insult label like "radendo" with zero history.

Created systems will always be welcome on this blog.

[gravescourse]

The anti willo anon is actually all of us. We play a little game of telephone to decide what the next bullshit we spew is and who gets to do it next!

[cantkiteforshit]

One thing I'll never understand is people policing what's happening in others mind. "That can't happen!" IT HAPPENING IN THE HEAD? IN THE BRAIN dawg wdym. Like just in a general standpoint. "You can't do xyz!" It's happening in the head, you're telling me Katsuki didn't pinch my cheeks when I went to his dorm room last night??? ☹️☹️☹️

[gravescourse]

I think I might've actually come back to syscourse at THE worst possible time. No joke. Fate is a funny thing!

Anyways, to anyone whos been hurt by recent stuff, I hope the best for you. Stuff thats been happening is unusually horrific even for the dumbass anti willo anon, and I come to remind you all to drink water and take breaks as needed! Discourse can be stressful, and it's always okay to block those who make you uncomfortable and step away for a bit.

Have a good timezone, syscourse. I hope recent things clear up soon.

[spud-sys-deactivated20251230]

are we seriously gonna use someone's breakdown as "proof" that shi's definitely the AWA because shi's an "attention seeker"?

i know that's probably the AWA themself and they're not in good faith. i don't care. mitsuki (i believe that's hir name, please correct me if i'm wrong) doesn't need this right now and i think we should say that. i think we should call this out because i don't want to tolerate this behavior at all, even in bad faith.