I Reject Your Reality & Substitute My Own

Welcome to the ramblings of a crazed fandom boy- you have been warned! LOL Can find me on these pages if you wanna chat- always up for a good convo or for some fan squeeing.     Transmasculine, Pansexual, LGBTQ supporter, and Equal Rights Advocate.    Still a big Haven fan but Also now addicted to Roswell New Mexico and falling in love with Primeval all over again :D          He/Him Pronouns

[greygullhaven]

FanFic Masterlink Collection

Master list of most of my Fanfics on AO3. I will update the links with new stories and fandoms as they come!

Shetland

1.    The Waves of Shetland (One shot for Jimmy and Duncan- will this fight drive them apart?)

2.    What We Have Right Before Us (One shot for Jimmy and Duncan realizing what they have)

Death in Paradise

1.    Solving Your Own Murder (Fix it fic/long fic dealing with Richard Poole’s ‘death’)

2.    A DI and His Whiteboard (Fun little fic looking into Richard’s head- might be continued)

Primeval

1.    Primeval Drabbles for Nick, Connor, Becker, Stephen, and Lester (Short drabble collection)

2.    Never Alone (One shot story for Becker and Connor after a creature incursion injury)

3.    Beyond the Darkness (One shot story of Stephen and Nick Dealing with Helen’s aftermath)

4.    Halloween – Primeval Style (Qucik drabbles of the gang celebrating Halloween)

5.    How Drunk Was I? (AU one shot for Becker/Connor and their not-so-secret relationship)

6.    Dinner Time Shenanigans (One shot of Danny and Lester having dinner)

7.    The Start of a New Life (One shot of Cutter’s clone- AU where he survived the attack)

8.    How Far We’ve Come (One shot for the Polycule of Nick/Stephen/Connor)

9.    Time of Death (AU story- warning of character death/afterlife flashes)

10. Echoes of the Past- Sounds of the Future (AU story for Cutter/Connor – Paused for now)

11. Swirling Time and Shattered Lives (AU story of Nick and Helen chasing anomalies together)

12. New Years, Old Memories, New Future  (One shot for Becker and Danny- PTSD warning)

13. Rift Risks – (A little one shot of Nick and Becker arguing about what to do with the anomalies)

14. Looking to the Future (One shot for Nick and Stephen- Helen is gone and they actually talk!)

15. The Legacy of the Ability Research Center (Epic AU superpower/hero story- co-authored)

Roswell New Mexico

1.    New Year’s Eve Hope (Fic for Alex and Michael- warnings for PTSD focus)

2.    It’s a Christmas Tradition? (Fluffy one shot for Alex and Michael at Christmas time)

3.    Who Cares if One More Light Goes Out? (Angsty Alex and Michael fic- Paused for now)

By Any Means

1.    The Price of Getting Attached (Little one shot for Jack and Tom-Tom – relationship talk)

2.    Where Do We Go From Here? (One shot dealing with the aftermath of the series)

Haven Fanfics

1.    LifeHouse- A Haven Found Family Story (AU story Poly-family dynamics- Co-authored)

2.    Those Late Night Talks (One shot of Haven Poly-family storyline)

3.    Lizzie’s Special Family (One shot of Haven Poly-family storyline)

4.    Math is Math is Math (One shot of Haven Poly-family storyline)

5.    Matters of the Heart and Mind (Duke and Dwight relationship story- WIP/Paused)

6.    What’s in a Name? (One shot AU story about Dwight and his Father)

7.    Changing Tides, Changing Hearts, Changing Perspectives (Reimagining of the Troubles)

8.    Rock Me Hard Rock Me Gently (AU story with Duke/Nathan/Dwight- might be continued)

9.    Quiet Moment On The Beach (Duke/Nathan one shot story during a relaxing walk)

10. The Gift of a Touch(Duke/Nathan one shot story with Nathan’s touch Trouble reimagined)

11. Friendly Competition (Fun little one shot with Duke/Dwight/Nathan one afternoon)

12. Be Mr. Responsible (Duke/Nathan one shot story one sleepy morning)

13. This Is My Christmas Wish (AU secret/forbidden love short with Duke, Nathan, and Dwight)

14. Making a House Into a Home (Duke/Nathan/Dwight story- the birth of “Three Stars of Haven”)

15. Collide (Slice of Life collection of stories for Duke and Nathan)

16. Demons (Angsty one shot for Duke struggling with the Crocker Curse)

17. Love Lost and Love Found (Story for Duke and Nathan and Dwight -near character death)

18. All I Want For Christmas Is…. You? (Three Gulls fanfic- Christmas for Duke/Audrey/Nathan)

19. Giving Thanks For You (One shot for Duke and Nathan having Thanksgiving together)

20. Harmless Flirting? (Duke and Nathan story where assumptions may just derail a relationship)

21. Kissing Scars (Fluffy one shot for Duke and Nathan)

[kissed1996]

Worst Christmas Movie out of the popular ones

Elf

Christmas Vacation

Love Actually

Home Alone

The Grinch

The Polar Express

A Christmas Story

The Santa Clause

Nightmare Before Christmas

Voting ended onDec 31, 2024

[greygullhaven]

Elf, Christmas Story, and Polar Express can all just disappear and I would be happy!

[an-aura-about-you]

btw while people continue to fight the system don't forget about Undue Medical Debt (formerly RIP Medical Debt), a charity that buys and forgives medical debt. on average a donation of $10 will forgive $1,000 of medical debt.

[an-aura-about-you]

I'm fairly confident that this is now the one original post I've made that has gotten the most notes, and I honestly couldn't be happier. the more attention we give this, the higher the chances that someone will see this and donate. medical debt is both one of the most crushing things a person can deal with and one of the stupidest things humanity has invented. and if you live in the US, I have no doubt that you've had to deal with medical debt in your life, either for yourself or a loved one. even a small donation can do so much good, and now is the time of year when we are encouraged to think of others.

[t-aash]

I unexpectedly had a medical debt paid by Undue Medical Debt last month. It was an incredible gift and sorely needed. I had never heard of them and to know that strangers cared enough to help clear that was incredibly meaningful. I hope to pay it forward.

[an-aura-about-you]

Thank you for sharing this! I'm so glad to see the positive outcomes from giving to this charity.

[blondejaneblonde]

They’re also a four-star charity on Charity Navigator: https://www.charitynavigator.org/ein/471442997

Charity Navigator - Rating for Undue Medical Debt

Undue Medical Debt has earned a 4/4 Star rating on Charity Navigator. This Charitable Organization is headquartered in Long Island City, NY.

Pro adulting tip! Set up a recurring donation like this on a credit card you don’t normally use, and put the card on autopay. That keeps the card from being closed for inactivity, and improves your credit rating by extending the average age of your accounts. 🌈

[greygullhaven]

Will be looking at making a donation in honor of my wife who I just lost 2 months ago after a nearly 10 year fight with cancer.... and who had treatments that cost 15K per month for oral chemo and who was getting immuno therapy right before she died that costs around 24K per treatment and she got them every three weeks! Medical expenses KILL PEOPLE!

[allsadnshit]

"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

[eternal--return]

This is the most important thing I’ve learned about grieving. It never goes away. Time doesn’t make it smaller. Time, if you do the work, makes you bigger. Self expansion is key. Self expansion through creativity and passion and communication. My grief used to be all of me. Now it is a part of me. An important part, but just a part. I love this visualization so much.

[greygullhaven]

Facing the loss of my spouse of 12 years and the soul mate I took care of as their sole caretaker for 10 years.... I am struggling through this right now. 2 months out it is so fresh it feels like I will never change from the crushing weight I is now. i know it will but - fuck is it hard right now

[my-random--thoughts-deactivated]

[greygullhaven]

hehehehe 3 decades and some change for me- life went down hill when I was 10 and been some peaks but largely a downhill slide

[johnny-depp-is-loved]

Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: [phone] (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: [phone]

Trevor Project: Call [phone], text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

[bob-belcher]

[babyanimalgifs]

Dog is a irrigation specialist

(Source)

[my-random--thoughts-deactivated]

[siphonyx]

[rockshitty]

I dunno man. I found out today that a subway sandwich is $14 now. A shitty subway footlong sandwich that isn't actually 12 inches long and is occasionally made with expired ingredients and was never a great option to start with. I ate those in high school because I was broke and at the mall a lot.

There are poke bowls in my city from a local place for $16. Super fresh fish and veg, warm rice, more than I can eat in one sitting, for the price of a sandwich and a drink at america's most mid-tier sandwich shop.

Someone in another post said (paraphrased) you used to be able to get something mediocre for cheap, but now the mediocre things cost as much as the nice things so why would you?

[curlicuecal]

This is me when I realized I could get a proper bowl of curry from the fancy indian food place for basically the same price as a fuckin McDonald's hamburger meal these days

[greygullhaven]

The sad side is that there are many of us who can't afford the 15-20 bucks a meal price at all regardless of what we are getting, so we are running out of options for food more than most others!

[oakdown]

JOHN SIMM as THE MASTER in BBC'S DOCTOR WHO

[greygullhaven]

My Master <3

[bnq]

perfect boy .

[skweebs]

[doctordisko]

Hes literally me hes literally me hes literally me

[expressions-of-nature]

Big Sur, California by Kristin Castenschiold

[hannahhillam]

I threw a dog on the ground today 😭😭😭

[coffeeandstring]

I am embarrassed by how hard this made me laugh.

[fatsexybitch]

…..does this mean cat people hurl cats at the ground?

[hollowedskin]

you just kind of… open ur arms and they sort themselves out. if you try and place them down they get mad and wiggle and make everything worse

[everydayconman]

[shotfromguns]

some friends of mine have the most un-cat-ish cat i have ever met

my quintessential example of this:

i was holding him in my arms petting him while we were picking out what games to play that night. when we’d decided on a few, i needed to put the cat down in order to, you know, carry boxes. so i started letting him down, expecting that he’d eventually do the cat hop thing… but he never did.

i ended up lowering him all the way to the floor. and even then he never got his feet under him. i just sort of… plopped him down on his side as he stared up at me like a betrayed sack of flour.

[thecheshirecass-deactivated2018]

I saw this so clearly in my mind and I’m never going to stop laughing at betrayed sack of flour.

[daftzilla]

Miette’s long lost brother, the betrayed sack of flour

[thoughtportal]

Happy Labor Day. Today I learned about probably the first strike to happen IN SPACE.

[belligerentbagel]

“We would never work 16 hours a day for 84 straight days on the ground, and we should not be expected to do it here in space.“ 

The day when three NASA astronauts staged a strike in space (Hiltzik, LA Times)

[themythicalcodfish]

SOLIDARITY IN SPACE!!!!!