So, who else here struggled to pick up the âgo away, youâre not wantedâ social cue as a kid, which has made them so overly cautious as an adult that they end up having cool conversations with cool people but donât want to be too friendly in case theyâre missing the cue, and so end up making those cool people think that you donât want to be friends with them?
Because, like, this is the Number One Thing that has fucked me up as an adult and I am so grateful to my friends who didnât stop talking to me while I slowly figured out that, yes, they did actually want to be friends.












