I am back in my obsession, transcribing everything I can find written by my g-g-g-aunt Nellie Howard in newspapers and magazines. This is the earliest one I have found so far, published when Nellie was 18.
17 Jan 1880, The Maine Farmer, page 1, column 8:
I take great pleasure in reading the contributions of the sisters in "our column," and want to add my mite in favor of the "Widow's Say." I am a farmer's daughter: and "we girls" also can harness the horse, put him in the thills and drive to town without assistance; or, if need be, mount and go minus a carriage; we were rather proud of our ability to do so, until "Betty" dampened our ardor by telling us that our place was in the house. "If we conform to your ideas, Betty, how can we learn to do these things or compete with our big brother in riding the spirited pony? He will then surely 'carry the day' in horsemanship." You see the widow is more generous; she allows liberties in this direction and says we may still act our part in society as ladies. I am sure I should be sorry to forfeit either one of these privileges for the sake of the other. And does Betty really think I must? As for tying up and milking the cows, etc., I am not afraid of doing either, in case the men-folks happen to be away. Instead of walking a half mile to solicit aid from our obliging neighbor's chore-boy, I choose the least of two evils. I slip on my hood and wrapper, drive the cows in and milk them myself, and come in with my dignity unimpaired, and feeling quite independent as I would had I, under plea of inability, depended on the kindness of others to do my work for me. It requires but little time to acquire those accomplishments, and certainly they will do us no harm; and as I have shown, may, sometime, be the means of saving ourselves or others much inconvenience. Perhaps all farmers' girls do not think alike on this subject; if not, I await their censure or reproof, and am willing to be enlightened if my ideas of propriety are wrong. Will Clarissa please tell me where I can obtain Poinier's French dyes?