She was a paradox

Mar, 25, lesbian, any pronouns. Still tired, now with a math degree. Mostly a fandom blog. I write sometimes. I make gifs over at @lesbianladysif and I have a DBDA sideblog @crystalpalacesasaki. Also Haeva on AO3.

[sherlockig]

Moodboard for @haeva

[apolladay]

is a 162cm (5'3"?) tall woman tall, average or short?

tall

average

short

no matter as what i describe myself, i always get pushback somehow and i think that has skewed my perception

is a 162cm (5'3"?) tall woman tall, average or short?

tall

average

short

Remaining time: 6 days 4 hours

[lakemojave]

People are unfazed if you hate women but if you dislike dogs they assume you're a bad person

[wetheurban]

"I'm sure about you" is a love language.

[manicpixiedepressedwitch]

[yesornopolls]

Do you know what Lockwood & Co. is?

Do you know what Lockwood & Co. is?

Yes

No

Remaining time: 4 days 4 hours

[hotgirlcastiel]

[tangerinebonfire]

Here is the tiktok this is referencing, everyone in the comments please take a breath

[probuccalfat]

people will describe their incredibly nebulous sexuality to you that they’ve never been able to define and the whole time you’re thinking that sounds like bisexuality brother

[franchaelagifs]

MASALI BADUZA as Michaela Stirling BRIDGERTON | 4.05 Yes or No

♡ requested by anonymous ♡

[stephexmachina]

when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.

[stephexmachina]

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

[stephexmachina]

it is about being a woman. hope that helps!

[vibrantstarfire]

reading comprehension questions for the notes:

is wanting to be a wife and mother a requirement for being a woman?

why might OP be annoyed with replies assuming that this post is about being aroace or transmasc if a woman doesn’t want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to sexuality and romantic interest that might make a woman not want to be a wife or mother?

are there reasons unrelated to gender identity and expression that might make a woman not want to be a wife and mother?

core concept: what is gender essentialism?

is it gender essentialism to imply that all women inherently want to be wives and mothers? could this be what OP is critiquing?

look at the notes OP responds to. is it gender essentialism to imply that being a wife and mother is so affixed to womanhood that to not want to be those things means you’re incapable of sexual/romantic feelings, or not a woman?

what trait are you perpetuating when you assume that women who do not want to be wives and mothers must be aroace or trans? is it gender essentialism?

[2well2water]

stop posting about your badly behaved dog i mean husband online if you’re going to get upset with the people telling you he’s a bite risk. “look at what my husband packed me for my lunch” and it’s the most insulting low effort assortment of snacks you’ve ever seen accompanied with a note that says “i see you as subhuman”. “ugh guys stop telling me my husband doesn’t respect me you’re not the ones in the relationship you don’t know what he’s really like” yes i do and i think you should have him put down.

[flythesail]

"You're the only light in this crooked town. I'll be damned if I'm gonna see you get hurt in all this."

— THE WAY HOME | 4.07

[haeva]

🍓

You're one of the kindest people I know and you always make me smile! Also you're an incredible artist!

[haeva]

🍓

You're such a good friend and an amazing writer! I can't wait to read your book!

[sakizremade]

@mutuals send me a 🍓 and ill compliment u!

[uptownthots]

“I’m no less a feminist than you are simply because I choose to hold onto my youth and beauty” you are less of a feminist for entertaining the patriarchal belief that beauty = youth and that a woman’s beauty disappears once she looks older than 20 lol

[moonageromantic]

Full time job at the yearning factory