This is poetry to me
I'm being serious btw like. There's a really particular transfem horror to this.
every so often this will get circulated around again and I resist the urge to start telling off the many, many transmascs who comment on it about how scary it was for them going on T because of this so "transmasc here, I totally get it" and its like. you don't. you really dont. the parallel of the lack of agency PAIRED with the ability to call for help is the entire thing. the consistent lack of understanding that estrogen doesn't change our voices. that it's something we just Lose and never get back. it fucks with me & every time I get a wave of Men Insisting They Understand Something That They Clearly Don't it's like. the poems keep writing themselves huh
And are the transmascs who said this in the room with us now?
Why are you going to the line of "not only is that not true, you're crazy" when all she said was that men don't get it and it's frustrating when they pretend to?
Because maybe, just maybe we shouldn't do generalizations for experiences on an entire group of people. Maybe, perhaps, people actually *do* understand the concept of losing something and being completely unable to get it back, in spite of not going through the exact same circumstances. Maybe this has nothing to do with misogyny like you so cleverly tried to change the topic to in the tags, along with a lovely little ad hominem and appeal to pity. Maybe I'm so goddamn tired of people on this website whining and bitching and wanting to be special so badly they make up ways that theyre oppressed that only ever makes things more toxic for everyone. Who knows?
This literally about a specific change that happens to young transfems that are going through puberty, like that's what the post is about. This isn't a post about general trans stuff. It is about a specific thing. You fundamentally are showing up to complain about people not being included in it despite that. Also, you literally say 'whining and bitching and wanting to be special' is that not misogynistic all of a sudden? You talk like a 2016 anti sjw gamergater.
They blocked me for this but like. what are we supposed to say? we can't even talk about shit that happens to us without being called whiny bitches? Feels so fucking pointless.
since you blocked everyone else @a-teacup-of-golden-cracks fuck off MRA there are things you don't and won't experience and acting like that's a form of bigotry is vile
















