NO MINORS PUT UR AGE IN UR BIO

31. she/her. white butch lesbian. single. tme. in the midwest of the usa. butch4(bossy)femme. subby stone top. follows n likes from @*******-******

[handsomegentlebutch]

VETTED FUNDRAISER LISTS!!!!!!

Vetted Gaza Fundraiser List by @/el-shab-hussein and @/nabulsi

GazaVetters List (I belive this is by @/gaza-evacuation-funds)

And ofc, the Gaza Funds site which will randomly show you a vetted fundraiser in need of donations.

(I'll prob add to this again at some point cuz I also saw things floating around for Congo and Sudan)

Decided it was finally time to make an pinned post!

Hi. I'm Cass. I'm a 31 year old butch lesbian that loves to garden, crochet, and play games of all kinds- video games and ttrpgs. So many ttrpgs. I've played D&D for 13 years now and have fallen in love with many other table top systems! I'm also learning to sew.

I'm single right now and don't mind being flirted with :3

I made this blog to raise my self esteem because I've had some pretty bad body image issues in the past. When I finally fully embraced my butchness a few years ago, my sense of self love really shot through the roof. It's a work in progress, but progress is what matters and it isn't always linear and that's okay!

Please lmk if there's something you need or want tagged and I'll do my best to remember. I also use the queue a lot on this blog and am really shit at tagging it.

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Terfs n swerfs Zionists

Rancid vibes

[bloodanddiscoballs]

The thing about the r slur is that people who are using it again are indeed using it as a slur. This isn't a word that is being reclaimed. This is a word that is once again being used 100% as a slur. You're being a bigot if you're using it against others. Straight up. There isn't another argument to be made. Knock it tf off.

[podcastwizard]

LIKES TO CHARGE REBLOGS TO CAST

[the-goddess-of-annoying]

you people aren't CASTING

[the-goddess-of-annoying]

NO

[pinketine]

Rule of thumb: In every oppressed group, the women are having a worse time of it. This is due to a concept called "misogyny", which intersects with everything

[innerchildabortionclinic]

can't reblog the post on platner that I want to because i'm blocked somewhere down the line so I will make my own post saying there is a long history of women staying silent about abuse for the benefit of men in political movements and it's not just a problem with liberals

but for the record platner being a rapist would be probable in the first place with his history in the US military

[fishpondfish]

not everything is getting worse. at least you don't hear high hopes by panic at the disco every day anymore

[bish-0-p]

mcu more like military contract universe

[sceptixfakemon]

this heatwave fucking sucks how am I going to serve my liege like this

[sceptixfakemon]

im never leaving this hellsite

[sceptixfakemon]

i swear if this is the second stupid sword picture post i make that gets to 10k i'll just go kill someone

[sceptixfakemon]

FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!

[lamah0urani]

🚨Urgent appeal🚨My husband needs surgery...

Hello, I'm Lama... My husband, Mohammed, is 30 years old. I want to ask for your help for my husband. Please support him and share his story so that it reaches everyone.🙏

My husband, Mohammed, has suffered from numerous health problems for 12 years, and the situation has worsened during the war due to shortages of medicine and healthy food. He urgently needs surgery and medication.😔

Help Lama's family to rebuild her life

Hello, I'm Lama from Gaza, I'm 24 years old, and my husband Mohammed is 30 years old, we got married in 2022 in a beautiful, warm and quiet

The costs of treatment and medication are very high; please, every donation from you will contribute to his recovery.

Please help my husband, donate to him, and share his story so he can recover and get the medicine.

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters , my verified number on the list is (#568)✅️

[spin-the-wheel-polls]

you have won a lifetime supply of this

How do you feel?

good!

I CAN SELL THIS AND GET RICH

im drowning in my supply help

Eh it's okay

BAD. VERY BAD

results/other

Remaining time: 4 days 20 hours

you would receive the supply once a month

the brand/type will vary so you could

you can sell the things you get/give them away but they will keep coming until you die

[loiswasadevil]

Yes i'll unfollow you for being Catholic

[novella-november]

Hey, I don't know who needs to hear this, but an author being autistic is not a shield, nor an (ableist!) excuse, for being racist, transphobic, misogynistic, and publishing a book filled to the brim with these things.

By claiming a white author is simply "sheltered and autistic" to shield them from criticism for racism and more, you are not only demonstrating White Fragility, you are actively being ableist by equating autstic people as being incapable of learning to.... not be racist or bigoted.

Especially because, you know...

Black autistic people exist?

Autistic trans women exist?

Fat autistic people exist?

Autistic intersex people exist?

Autistic women exist?

And all of these people experience the bigotries in this book, and are all equally capable of *not* being bigoted?

And equally, that autism does not mean someone is inherently bigoted?? ? And insisting that all autistic people *must* be incapable of unlearning bigotry (which is what you are inherently doing, when you try to shield someone from criticism by saying "well you can't blame them, they're autistic")

If someone is autistic and racist, it's not because they're autistic.

It's because they are racist, and refuse to unlearn their racism.

Stop using "the author is autistic" to shield that author from critique on their racism.

Autism is not a shield against critique, and using it as such is inherently ableist.

You are literally infantilizing people, and yourself, if you do this.

If you fuck up and do something racist, and say you can't be held responsible because you are autistic, congrats! You're both racist *and* ableist and no one should trust you to do better, let alone buy your books :)

[whosname]

[id. A twitter post by @/Bennieeexyz Jury duty letter came addressed to my cat. Not a mistake. "Felix Martinez" - that's his full name according to his vet records. My last name. His first name. Somehow he's a registered voter now. Called the county clerk. Me: My cat got summoned for jury duty. Clerk: Is the name correct on the summons? Me: Yes, but he's a cat. Clerk: Is Felix Martinez a legal resident of this county? Me: He's a legal cat. Clerk: Sir, if the name matches our records, he needs to appear or file an exemption. Me: He can't file anything. He has paws. Clerk: You can file on his behalf. Me: Under what exemption? There's no box for "is a cat." Clerk: (pause) Check "unable to serve due to medical reasons." Me: What's the medical reason? Clerk: He's a cat. Me: That's not a medical condition. Clerk: It is if it prevents him from serving. Sent in the form. Got rejected two weeks later. "Insufficient documentation. Please provide medical professional's statement." Took the letter to my vet. Me: I need you to write that my cat can't do jury duty. Vet: Why is your cat summoned for jury duty? Me: Excellent question. No good answer. Vet: This is the weirdest request I've gotten. Me: Can you just write that he's medically unfit to serve? Vet: On what grounds? Me: He's a cat. Vet: (started typing) "Patient is unable to serve due to species-related limitations including inability to speak, read, or comprehend legal proceedings." Me: Perfect. Sent it in. Got another rejection. "Summons is mandatory. Failure to appear will result in contempt of court." My roommate thought this was hilarious. Roommate: Felix is going to jail. Me: This is serious. Roommate: Bring him to court. See what happens. Decided that was actually the only option left. Day of jury duty, put Felix in his carrier. Brought the entire paper trail of rejection letters. Checked in at the courthouse. Clerk: Name? Me: Felix Martinez. Clerk: (looked at the cat carrier) Is that Felix? Me: Yes. Clerk: (long stare) He's a cat. Me: I've been saying that for six weeks. Clerk: Why didn't you file an exemption? Me: I filed three. All rejected. Showed her the letters. She read through them, expression shifting from confusion to disbelief. Clerk: Someone rejected the veterinary documentation? Me: Twice. Clerk: (called her supervisor over) You need to see this. Supervisor read everything. Looked at Felix. Looked at me. Supervisor: How did a cat get registered to vote? Me: You tell me. Supervisor: This is a data error. Me: Took you six weeks to figure that out. They dismissed Felix immediately. Apologized for the inconvenience. Supervisor: We'll remove him from the voter registry. Me: Appreciate it. Supervisor: (pause) Out of curiosity, how would he have voted? Me: Probably whatever party supports universal treats. Got a formal apology letter a week later and a voter registration card. For me this time. Apparently I wasn't registered, but my cat was. Roommate: Felix committed voter fraud. Me: Felix committed nothing. He's innocent. Roommate: That's what they all say. Felix is sleeping on the jury summons now. Fitting end to his legal career. end id]

[strawberry-crocodile]

for real tho it feels exhausting that ive seen this whole "woman should be allowed to abstain from X beauty standard" -> "i perform X beauty standard, am i evil? do you think im evil? please forgive me i came up with a dozen excuses 🥺" since like 2015 (and i know its been going on longer than that) like girl thats not the poiiiiint

[strawberry-crocodile]

look me in the eyes. repeat after me. "i face societal pressure to perform this beauty standard. i should not face that pressure. i conform to this standard. i am rewarded for performing to this standard. i need to respect women who do not perform this standard. this is not about whether or not i am a sinner for wearing makeup."

[stellaluna33]

Several times on here I've seen the take "I know local theater is bad and cringey, but you have to support it anyway!" And while I understand what they're getting at, I'm always like, why do you assume it's going to be "bad" just because the artists are members of your own community? I just saw a local production of The Importance of Being Earnest and it was HILARIOUS. Everyone was DELIGHTFULLY funny and we thoroughly enjoyed it! There have been so many times I've been greatly moved by "amateur" or student art, and if you can't allow yourself to appreciate anything but "the Best" (and who decides what "the Best" is anyway? This production of "Earnest" was way funnier than the version that Judy Dench and Rupert Everett were in, as deservedly "famous" as they might be) then you are just being a joyless snob. There's beauty and talent all around you. And if that makes me "easy to please," then well... That means I'm pleased more often! And why should I want to apologize for that?

[r-osehips]

#see‚ it's not about eating your vegetables or pityfucking the local art scene #it's about making the grave mistake of believing yourself to be past surprise. #in my old age i have seen too many outstanding (or outstandingly ambitious) works by unknown artists #to presume which venue i will be seated at the next time i see a lifechangingly good performance #if you wanna be a prick and commodify it yeah sure i guess it IS gambling money and time you'd otherwise use on DoorDash and Phone in Bed #but i don't think that's any way to live life. incuriosity is weak as hell. neither you nor your art will survive the winter (tags via @deadpanwalking)

[handsomegentlebutch]

Shes so elegant

[deltaomicronfive]

The stigma on addiction kills people. It fucking kills people. You are policing people so when they fail, they hide, they self harm and they die by their vices. If all you have is judgment for addiction and no sympathy or empathy for users, your opinion is less than worthless to me as the daughter of a life long addict. You are not better than any addict. You are one devastating period of life away from being them and even I don't wish that you face someone like yourself now, should that point come.

Addicts are not statistics, are not their vices, are not your negative health affects to a drug. Read: a smoker is NOT the embodiment of second hand smoke. They are users without safe use public spaces and I'm fucking begging you all to understand that people being mentally ill and doing things you don't like to cope is not the same exact thing as them choosing to harm other people.

Some of you hate addicts more than conscientious abusers and it shows. Some of you see them as one in the same and it shows.

Some of your opinions on addiction tell me everything I need to know about your understanding of children, offline sex workers and the homeless.

And I'm really fucking tired of sitting here in make belief land with you people as you miss my points deliberately as you preach abstinence and penance for a demographic you do not know and are not even a part of.

Why the fuck is a demand for empathy being met with such apathy and hostility. Fix it.

[deltaomicronfive]

I'm mad as fuck. Reblog this fucking post.