Hello You Beautiful Bastard

Don’t yell at me I will delete this blog as a self defence mechanism.

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A daily reminder that if you ever see those autism vent accounts that talk exclusively about how much they hate their life, block them. Don’t engage, don’t read, don’t repost, don’t do anything. Just block them and move on.

No shade to the people that make them but they will literally drag your mental health to the bottom of the barrel and you will be stuck there in the self pity “I hate myself” hole where the ableists want you to be. Step one to getting better is to never obsorb those talking points.

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Im sorry but sometimes blocking does in fact make you look like a coward. How are you going to respond with a lengthy paragraph telling me I’m wrong and then NOT let me respond to it? Stop being a pussy, finish the fight you started.

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I’ve never met a “don’t like don’t read” person do exactly that. It’s always said in self defense of criticism and never an actual philosophy about letting others have fun regardless of your own personal tastes. Every single time.

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Currently replaying red dead redemption 2 again. I don’t wanna keep going cause I know how it’s going to end 😭

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Hey guys. So, it’s okay to have criticisms of a show! You actually don’t need to tell someone to kill themselves or threaten them with violence for criticising an animated cartoon! Isn’t that awesome? You don’t need to be a piece of shit to people all the time!

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I hate tik tok as much as the next person but no one can convince me that the comment section talking about “ranked competitive abortions” isn’t the funniest shit you’ll ever see in your life

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Untagged rape fics is one of the reasons fandoms aren’t fun anymore

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Tw; mention of suicidal thoughts, mental illness.

I think back to this account that made mental health posts, started each video with “hey brother” or “hey bro” or something equally masculine. And then he’d follow it up with some words about a common mental health issue. One that really resonated with me was the insistent need to die but procrastinating the actual plans and simply ruminating in the thoughts. He had a lot of those that were deep like that.

But then he made one specifically geared to girls. And you know what they were about? Being pretty. Literally all of them (all four of them in a sea of 50+ posts btw). His perception of women’s mental health didn’t go so further than physical insecurity and popularity.

It just saddens me because the original posts were relatable to everyone. I’m a girl, I related to them heavily. But he clearly divided mental illness to men things (genuine mental health problems) and women things (needing to wear makeup and look pretty for people).

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Beating my head against a rock everytime someone blames misogyny, ageism, and ableism in the medical field on fictitious “teenage girls self diagnosing with 12 mental disorders and a gross motor impairment.”

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Straight men: haha two boys kissing hahaha

Women and literally any type of queer person: me too haha two boys kissing-

Straight men: omg why do you always have to make it weird? This isn’t a fetish get some help.

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Something worse than men with edgy overly offensive humour is women and trans people who have edgy overly offensive humour. I’m sorry, I do expect better from you. I expect you to act like the adults you are and not a fifteen year old boy.

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I remember when a yumeship account blocked me because they were saying how weird it was that adult yumeshippers were making ADULT scenarios and imagines for their F/os, and i said it’s not actually bad at all and just because you’re a child doesn’t mean everyone in the community is or has to cater to them…

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You know what sucks about the disabled community? The gymnastics people will do to justify why some disabled folk should be ridiculed more than others. Anyone who tries making some mental tier list of disabilities that are more important/disabling than others is an idiot.

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the dating pool in my area is a pond full of piss.

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Waiting for this asshole to die is like being edged for days straight with no relief. Just kick the bucket already, dude. It’s time, it’s been time for a while.

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Person: I understand that there are intersectionalities and complexities to one's identity as a minority and one's privilege in society. Being part of an oppressed group in and of itself does not necessarily dictate that you are incapable of expressing bigoted beliefs or actions that are hurtful to other groups, and your status as a minority shouldn't protect you from accountability.

Me: I agree! Let's use this logic on this specific case of a white queer person and their behaviour-

Person: Shut the fuck up Oh my god, yall are so fucking desperate for drama, This is such a nothing burger they didn't do anything wrong. Like, this is a smear campaign I cant believe you'd attack my baby like that

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I’m sad no one wants to make out with me right now