#abliesm

[andrewrannellsfr]

Sorry but mobility aids and medicine costing money has to be a form of abliesm. Fym i can barely walk bc my old cane broke and i literally cant go get a new one.

[iveeaten3humanorganz]

GUYS YOU KNOW EVERY PROBLEM IS INTERSECTIONAL RIGHT?? THAT IT AFFECTS EVERYONE REGARDLESS IF YOURE THE INTENDED TARGET OR NOT?? YOU KNOW A WHITE CISHET ABLE BODIED MAN CAN ALSO BE AFFECTED MY HOMOPHOBIA, RACISM, SEXISM, ABLEISM AND THE LIKE RIGHT? YOU KNOW ITS CAPITALISM THATS DOING THIS RIGHT? GUYS GUYS PLEASE—

[snakegentleman]

I can’t even properly explain what is happening right now, but literally as my procedure was supposed to happen(one I need to happen basically right now to not deteriorate), they canceled it because we had to up the severity of the procedure, and they don’t want to manage the consequences of that. They tell me I’m too complex, and I’m being treated like a drug seeker for telling the team ahead of time that I will need more pain management for longer to recover because of those complexities. They are telling me there is no diagnosis that justifies me being on TPN??? Even though, there are MONTHS of documentation of me failing everything else and lower level pain management. My attending physician is refusing to speak with me now because I asked what they would do if I was in severe pain after their policy window of post-op pain management, and she 1. Refused to speak to me directly, bypassing me to talk to my parents(who are not my guardians, I gave consent to update them) and 2. Now she won’t speak to me at all, saying the conversation was hearsay after the last question and leaving like she was escaping. I keep hearing I am too much of a liability to treat. I have to transfer to somewhere else, but they have me on oxy Q3 for the acute pain from my gj, so I’m trying to get an advocate to help me. This feels like blatant discrimination because I have a complex condition that they don’t want to treat with any creative thinking. I’m terrified because w/o my gj, I can’t take some of my most important meds, and I’m puking(and; therefore, losing weight rapidly again) constantly. They tell me to go back to my other state, but I’m now too unstable to travel. We’re going to a bigger city system in he state, but this is completely unacceptable.

[ilovegayvampires-og]

The thing I hate most about being autistic is that I feel ableism is baked into almost everything, but I can’t say anything or else I sound like some conspiracy theorist to others.

For me, this mainly applies to the discussion of gender. I’ve met many people who act as if neopronouns and xenogenders are some “dumb internet thing” or “just people trying to be unique,” when it’s more than that.

And I want to explain that many autistic people don’t connect with gender in the same way non autistic do, and that gender is made up, and that some of us have genders or methods of expression outside of the norm.

But I can’t say that being against these other ways of gender expression comes off as ableist, because I know people will take it the wrong way and think I’m just using autism as an excuse for everything.

[trixietheotherheart]

TRIGGER WARNING AND AWARENESS POST.

TOPICS CONTAIN THINGS LIKE GROOMING, TRANSPHOBIA, ABLIESM, HOMOPHOBIA, DOXXING, ETC.

Hello friends. Not to bother since the tags are quite unrelated to this post but I wanted to catch peeoples attention, this is quite important and this is a beware/awareness post. And the victims really need justice however they don't want their parents to know, the victims of these people are quite young.

You see, theres a very not good person on tiktok, IF you use tiktok, I want you to beware of this person and maybe spread awareness:

They doxxed kids, harrassed them, invalidated disorders, is extremely abliest to autistic kids, got their friends to harrass them, told them to kill themself, and this person is friends with racists, transphobes, a person who pretended to date a 10 year old WHILE BEING 16?? (creep), and is friends with groomers, and without a doubt they might be a groomer too!!

They are truly cruel people and even stressed a kid out and damaged their mental health.

if you also wanna expose them, spread awareness about it, reblog, or whatever, then please do, it will really help the victims who had misinformation on them because this doxxer has took words out of context from these kids and has spread rumors about them, this might even give a form of justice.

I will now state their tiktok alt accounts below here so you can expose them or do whatever it takes:

blubakon,

austincarlileissuesand

bluseesstars(they mightve changed their name?)

shredwhiteandblu

I wanna help these victims, and I wanna help myself too because I was a victim of those people too, and we need justice, i want people to know about it because we have been quiet for a long time, these victims such as me haven't spoken about it for a long time because those people already kept spreading rumors about them and they were afraid no one would take them serious or believe them. And they had no way to expose them.

I wanted to get it out there and help others and me,

We need justice.

I wanted to speak up, but I was afraid to do so, I know our doxxers do not have Tumblr so I can freely say it here.

Again, Reblogging can also help , making posts (tiktok, YouTube, or just Tumblr posts) about it can help too, do whatever it takes, cause I believe it will help them and me, adding tumblr tags into your reposts and posts can help catch the attention, and I know the tag somewhere says "controversy" but this is not a controversy, this is true and a fact that this person is evil, they even victim blame kids who were groomed and others and use vents and life problems against them 🫶

Thanks for reading, sorry for the bother, trixie out

[wishful-seeker]

So many people literally forget disabled people exist.

I see so many posts about some random stuff, like maybe the post is like "if you don't work out everyday you wont have a good life."

And then someone says "what about disabled people?"

And the response is ALWAYS "I obviously wasn't referring to them, im only talking about normal people."

And it always makes me think: so we don't exist in the collection of "everyone"? We aren't apart of everyone?? We aren't normal human beings?? Wrong! We just literally do not exist to you until you are reminded of us. You don't think of us, you don't consider us. We are a far away concept, we are a rare accident to you, something that never happens to "normal" people! Well hey guess what, this version of "normal" you mean? Yeah i was that kind of "normal" most my life. I used to be like you, abled and working out everyday, but now that i am different im apparently not a person anymore to you. And you don't acknowledge that this could happen to anyone, including yourself.

[jackedjacket]

"wow, I wish i were in a wheelchair, it must be pretty great to sit all day"

no, it's not. being in a wheelchair is incredibly painful. It is easy to get pressure sores, muscle cramps, or back pain from sitting.

ever sat on a cramped flight for several hours, unable to move much or stretch your legs? That's what it's like being in a wheelchair, except all the time. It's horrible. Stop saying that being in a chair must be "fun" or "easy"

[clairaworlds]

dyslexic Archives headcannons: Jmart editon

Jon

Jon's grandma realized there was Something Up with him and took him to get tested when he was fairly young. he got offically diegnosed with Dyslexica he also got diesnogsed with Austism (or ADHD, although as ADHD had only transitioned form being ADD to ADHD in '94 if I remember correctly so it may have still been refered to as ADD, at least colloquially, regardless adhd and asd were mutrally exclusive diegnoses untill the 2010s so regardless of my belief that Jon is AuDHD, he could not have been diegnosed as such)

Jon's grandma, got the diegnosis paperwork, and decided to never tell Jon, and insted burried the diegnosis and kept it off his records. She was doing this because she beleved it was best for him, in part due to the fact that he was already being bullied and she beleved if she could just teach him to "act normal" he'd be better off than if the lable of autism or Dyslexcia, she also beleved that if Jon was seen as "normal" he'd have better opertunites in life, he'd be more likely to be hired, be more likely to get into a good school. she also partally belved there was a mustake, because Jon was far too smart to have a learning disablity, and besides, Jon reads so meny books! so there was no way that could be true.

She was doing her best, but her best lead to Jon lacking the resources he needed to thrive, internalizing the idea that his struggles were entierlly his own fault, and partally contrubuted to his inablity to devlop a work life ballance (schoolwork took significantly longer and without any acomadation Jon just pulled all nighters and never socalized)

so, despite being diegnosed, Jon was entierlly unaware of his learning disablity and audhd.

The eye informed Jon of his diegnosis randomly in season 4, which was NOT THE TIME, (he had a lot of other shit going on) and Jon just had to deal with the sudden Knolage that he was tested and diegnosed and never told about it and ALSO HE'S HAD A LEARNING DISABLITY THIS WHOLE TIME. AND AUDHD?????? He looked at that information and then agressivly shoved it away because he was dealing with Just So Much.

Jon ushally HATES reading out lould, and honestly atributed part of his post-statment exhaustion to the effort it takes to read out lould.

Jon perceives the statments as if they're writen in open dyslexic or a simalar font. he dose not realize they're not.

someone please get this man a prescription for stimulants.

the only thought Jon processes about the diegnosis after the eye tells him is "that explains a lot" and then he puts it in a box and tries to never think about it again.

Gorgie was Jon's go-to spell-check in collage, when they broke up, she gave Jon a pocket dictonary so he could look up any word he was trying to spell without her, he still had it at the end of the world.

Jon got made fun of a lot, both by friends teasing him, and by genuine assholes about how he was so verbose but couldn't spell.

Jon can generally reconzie when a word is mispelt if he's reading. He looks at it and he knows there's Something Wrong With The Word, but if you asked he could not for his life tell you what the issue is. so he's honestly a prity good proof-reader.

as an overcompensation for his struggles Jon spent years studying gramar and trying to memorize literly every rule and detail. Between that and getting teased for mispellings and puntuation errors Jon is anal retentave about writing in full sentances with perfict gramar. even in texts, it bothers him more than a little that most people don't do this (he got made fun of every time he made a typeo or missed a comma, why dose everyone else get away scott free)

Jon loves semicolons. he didn't understand them for years but the moment he figured out what they did and how they worked they became his favorite puntuation.

Jon's grades were always good, and his intelagence and drive lead him to being placed in more advanced classes, but his disablity ment his grades were good but never perfict.

the other honors students viewed jon as too stupid to be in advanced classes, but the non-honors students viewed him as too much of a nerd/too smart to be one of them, which sevearly isolated him from his peers.

it's far eaiser for Jon to write in cursive than not, it's eiaser to form words, and it's far more legable, so Jon writes almost exclusivly in cursive.

Martin

Martin is entierlly undiegnosied. His mother did not beleve in that sort of thing, she called Martin 'slow' a lot, but constantly acused him of just being lazy, or not trying hard enough. A few of Martin's teachers wanted to put him in the spechal needs program, and every time that idea was mentioned his mother gave a lecture about trying harder and not being lazy. she had a very poor view of students with disabilities.

Martin has both Dyslexica and Dysgraphia. His handwriting is bad, his spelling is worse, and his grammar isn't doing much better. He ends up with a repuation for being big and stupid due to his struggles reading, writing, and spelling.

Martin has a lot of trouble reading big blocks of text, which is part of the reason he prefers poety, the more frequent line breaks and variations in formating break up the text and make it eaiser to read.

He has a really hard time reading cursive.

Martin writes very short emails, and tends to give up on spelling and garamar at all over text. He prefers typing to handwriting, but FAR prefers a full sized keyboard to a phone.

a voice-to-text program would go a LONG way for him. (part of why he likes recording his poems, it's easier than writing them out)

Martin really dosn't like it when people make fun of his spelling/handwriting, espechally if it's in a teasing way. if someone critasises that's one thing, but teasing is another. He never tells anyone this because it feels like he'd just be ruening a joke, and it's not worth getting upset about

Martin dose everything he can to avoid having to hand-write things.

Martin keeps telling himself that he dosn't care he dropped out of school because he was too stupid for an education anyways.

Due to his mother's views, and his own undiegnosed disablity Martin has some complex and very interalized feelings about spechal needs students. He's jelous of them and dosn't understand why, he kept telling himself he dosn't want to be a spechal needs student because a learning disorder would just make his life harder, but he also sees the acomadatons they get and can't help but wonder if he woudn't be so stupid if he had acess to the same resources. His mother also trained him to view spechal needs students as lazy, which is a view he inteintonally distanced himself from.

he cannot read his own handwriting an annoying amount of the time.

Martin HATES the fieling system at the archives because the string of numbers is A GODDAMN NIGHTMARE to deal with.

Martin ushally writes in all caps, espechally when it's something he knows he'll need to re-read later, or if he's writing something for someone else to read. When he's not paying attention or not putting an exessive amount of effort into his handwriting, he ushally writes in a horrific abomanation of capital and lowercase letters.

Martin has a lot of trouble reading historical documents, or things written by americans because the diffrences in spelling and gramar trip him up. He has beef with the word "color" WHY DO AMERICANS SPELL IT THAT WAY??

Martin dosn't really bother with spelling or gramar over text and uses abrivations to avoid spelling words he dosn't want to spell.

Martin writes his y's in cursive and it's the only letter he dose that to, because in math class his Xs and Y's looked identical so he started writing the Y in cursive

to this day Martin is only about 60% sure he knows how commas work.

BOTH.

Jon was informed, by the beholidng, that Martin's learning disablities just a bit before the unkown, and proceads to feel AWFUL because he constantly critasized Martin's handwriting, spelling, and grammar

Jon and Martin should NOT be allowed to proof-read eachoters work they will NOT notice the errors.

when both Jon and Martin are writing in the same style (not cursive, not caps-lock) their writing is weridly simalar in a few very spusific ways. Martin's is less legable because he's also dysgraphic, but they both blend their Hs with other letters espechally ts which will often result in them writing "T-e" insted of "the" or "t|ere" insted of "there" Rs also tend to blend, most often the R and E will blend to one letter. they also both have a horible habit of switching writing styles midway though words and sentances when not writing in their perfered style. Martin randomly catpalizes letters, and Jon will randomly write a letter in cursive.

their indivual copeing mechanisums often clash, which did NOT help the situation in the archives season 1.

Neither of them know how to process the fact that they apparently have a learning disalbity. so they don't. although jokes about spelling grammar and handwriting sting a lot less when they're comeing from someone who gets it, so they end up getting more comftorable teasing eachoter about it (although it's still uncomftable--espechally for martin--if anyone else brings it up)