permanently sharing a bedroom with someone else is insane and the expectation that that is the basic unit of life partnership is probably a main reason marriages fail. imo
heavy, heavy, heavy agree. it’s not a feasible thing to me. once in a while? sure, let’s sleep in the same bed. every single day for the rest of the foreseeable future? get the fuck out of here. i’ve had some friend in honest to god good relationships tell me they had bad sleeps because of their partner fussing or waking up so much earlier than them or what-have-you and i can’t imagine living like that. like you can’t get up and go to your own space?
