god yall are dumb

they/it/whatever the hell you want. i'm queer, brown, and full of rage 👍🏽

[hellsites-an-understatement]

Felt like I had to make an intro if I'm gonna be here:

For this blog, my name will be Hau (literally just my url's acronym). They/them/whatever your heart desires. A person of color who is possibly neurodivergent.

The sole reason this blog exists is because I hate radqueer/transids as a concept and I have to punch the air about it. I may not even use this account much, but it's here if I need it.

I don't have the energy for a full DNI, but bigots, radqueers, transid, and other adjacent communities should not interact. Not very comfy with proshippers either.

Sidenote, if I ever say anything stupid or ignorant about any kind of subject, by all means, tell me. I'm open to other's opinions and criticism as long as you're willing to be polite about it.

That is it for now, thanks.

[hellsites-an-understatement]

gang, “fixing” a person of color’s critiques of a community that’s based on appropriating marginalized identities that already face oppression and discrimination in the name of ✨Acceptance✨ because you don’t want to face that said community is imperfect is NOT the serve you think it is.

you kind of just blatantly showed that you don’t care about indigenous people if their opinions don’t fit into your worldview.

[hellsites-an-understatement]

i have awoken from my slumber because SOMEONE decided to post a blackout of one of my posts.

me when certain people are defending the commodification of my culture. me when certain people try to claim my culture as their own when my people can’t even claim our own land.

anyways read Don’t Call Me “Hawaiian-at-Heart”: Self-determination and Identity Theft, it’s actually a neat article about native hawaiian identity and how people try to appropriate it.

[hellsites-an-understatement]

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oh damn, haven’t been on in a bit. here you go

[antiradqueerguy]

Mild debunk

(I don't believe that the coin listed is the original coin but i haven't found anything to confirm that so if you find anything earlier than NOV 11 2021 talking about radqueers send me a DM)

so going to this site

and clicking "Old Radqueer" you find the original coin that was archived a couple days after the one shown in the post above, scrolling down you find this wonderful post

well what do those terms mean? glad i asked because scrolling down the coiner makes a post detailing what they mean.

The (possible) original coiner believed that small children could consent to have sex, and full on admitted to it. right there! like right on their profile only maybe a day or two after they coined radqueer.

which is why i believe that tojiqueer (or whatever they go by now) thinks that the radqueer coiner is the same coiner as xenosatanism, which i couldn't find anything on but the original coiner of xenosatanism was a radqueer, (CW)Dec 4 2021 , like they even use the radqueer tags on their posts there's no denying it.

now this is basically a bunch on crap glued together with elmers and a dream, but if you find anything else reblog because i'd love to see.

Edit: fixed writing error

[littletissueghosts-deactivated2]

abusers should never have flags because flags are used to show your pride and you should never be proud of abusing someone. Fuck you. You may be anti radqueer, but you certainly support the same things as them. <3

[transmasc-joan-of-arc]

I fucking hate the radqueer shit. Nobody is saying kids can't explore their sexuality. We're saying they shouldn't be sexual with adults who are undeniably taking advantage of them. Adults are using them. You aren't fooling anybody.

[transmasc-joan-of-arc]

Let me be very fucking clear.

You are not a professional. This is not your job.

You are not a parent or guardian. This is not your responsibility.

You are not a friend. You are a crusty stranger clicktivist on a dying blog platform with no ability to self reflect.

You as an adult have no place divulging sexual and/or paraphilia related subjects to random children on the internet.

You are a predator.

[desdecourse]

coming out of retirement to say that if you’re radqueer or even some of yall radinclus you are not allies to people of color nor any other oppressed groups and you are not welcome in their spaces 😜 you can’t be antiracist and also think it’s okay to be “transnazi” or “transharmful” or “transracist” because why are you supporting an “identity” that wants to be harmful to people of color 😁 you are in fact supporting racist ideologies and you are therefore racist. thanks!

[scarlet97531]

⭕️❗️okay I gotta say something because this has wormed itself into my brain and I will not be able to sleep if I don’t talk about it

I think the issues and hate surrounding the radqueer community mostly come from a confusion between “all identities are valid” and “all behaviour (related to valid identities) is valid”

Like for example, the difference between identifying as transharmful(I also have thoughts about this transx format but that’s a different conversation), and wanting to “transition” by harming someone. I, as a killer sans fictive, could be considered transharmful because of my pseudo memories of harming people, and I don’t think it’s bad to see that as a fully valid part of my identity. But obviously the behaviour of harming someone else to try to turn that internal experience into an external one should never be encouraged.

(This is one reason I think the transx format for these labels isn’t great, because the word trans is obviously strongly associated with transgender people which is an issue because physical transition is often necessary for transgender people’s health, whereas physical transition for most trans ids is not a realistic or healthy goal. Of course there is also social transition, but generally when people hear transition they think of physical transition. It would be better to use different terminology that doesn’t have those associations, similarly to how therian and otherkin communities have their own terminology even though their experiences can be similar.)

I think the radqueer community’s trash reputation is probably the result of a lot of trolls pretending to genuinely be radqueer supporting horrible things, misguided people who have genuinely good intentions but the way they approach or present things is bad and/or makes them look really bad, and then people with good intentions and a good approach that don’t get talked about because they are inoffensive and outsiders just want drama.

I think there’s a lot of young and neurodivergent people in both of the more genuine catagories, and that probably contributes to these issues.

Overall I think the radqueer community is a “good idea, bad execution” kind of thing. I think there are ways to do “all good faith identities are valid” right, but between the bad reputation and the many issues within the community itself(again, I think mostly the identities vs identities and behaviours thing), I don’t think the term “radqueer” is really viable anymore and it’s probably best for people with genuine intentions to find similar terms and communities that don’t have those issues.

This is all based on what I’ve seen on Tumblr in like.. the last two months or so (we literally never heard of radqueer before we started using Tumblr more recently) of seeing “radqueers dni” in 90% of ppls intros and having no idea why. So we looked up definitions, tried to look at the actual radqueer community, and arguments for and against a bunch of radqueer related stuff. We are absolutely not an expert on this stuff, this is just the little scraps we’ve finally started piecing together to start to maybe understand some of this. There’s a good chance we’re totally wrong, and we’re open to being corrected on stuff.

I also wanna add another note here though, I think the hate towards radqueers is massively disproportionate. From what I’ve seen the radqueer community is really small, and 90% of the posts I’ve seen related to it are just coining posts for obscure terms. Not exactly something I would think would be worth being so well known and so intensely hated. We all know the internet has weird stuff on it, I don’t know why this particular category of weird is considered so much more important than the others.

Damnit this is way longer than it was supposed to be. I’m just gonna stop here and try to sleep now. I jumped around a lot while writing this so there might be a lot of mistakes and confusing stuff.. yeah I’m just gonna try to sleep though.

[scarlet97531]

⭕️❗️also something somewhat related to this, a while ago we saw a nightmare sans fiction kin saying stuff like “why are you surprised I’m an asshole? I’m Nightmare what did you expect” and generally ignoring people’s concerns and criticisms about his behaviour. Like he thought that because being mean was related to his identity he couldn’t or shouldn’t be held accountable for that behaviour.

My thoughts on this are kind of like “freedom of speech doesn’t mean freedom from consequences”. When part of your identity is harmful or has the potential to be harmful to other people you have two choices: express your identity in a harmful way and pay the consequences of those actions, or find a way to express yourself that isn’t harmful.

People not wanting to be your friend because you were mean to them has nothing to do with your identity, it has to do with your behaviour. People can understand and respect your identity while still holding you accountable.

Like as an example, being a trans man doesn’t make it valid or good to be toxically masculine or misogynistic just because those things are associated with your identity. You are still responsible for your own actions. If you have issues related to your identity that’s causing harm to you or the people around you, go to therapy.

It doesn’t matter what your identity is, your internal experience is morally neutral, but it’s your behaviour that can be good or bad because your behaviour effects other people.

[antiradqueerguy]

Who is ciel and what did he do???

Good lord how to describe Alice* /neg

Alice is a xenosatanist 15yr old who at one point abused her girlfriend and is possibly still abusing her. She's had at least 4 different callouts about her (Link1 Link2) and her behavior on tumblr and off tumblr,

She was also reported to the police last year for her behavior and the fact he threatened someone's family, I'm not sure if any other police reports have been made since last year, but i wouldn't be surprised.

Edit: corrected names and pronouns

[antiradqueerguy]

IT LOOKS LIKE CIEL AND (that other person i never remember the name) FINALLY BROKE UP FOR GOOD HOLY SHIT IM SO HAPPY FOR (persons name)

THE ANGELS HAVE REGAINED THEIR WINGS, THEY ARE FLAPPING BACK TO HEAVEN WITH SMILES FROM EAR TO EAR,

[antiradqueerguy]

I DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR SAYING THIS. SOMETIME BEING APART IS BETTER.

[antiradqueerguy]

i think they are getting back together

the angels are dying and falling and it's raining acid and meteors

[antiradqueerguy]

IT LOOKS LIKE CIEL AND (that other person i never remember the name) FINALLY BROKE UP FOR GOOD HOLY SHIT IM SO HAPPY FOR (persons name)

THE ANGELS HAVE REGAINED THEIR WINGS, THEY ARE FLAPPING BACK TO HEAVEN WITH SMILES FROM EAR TO EAR,

[antiradqueerguy]

I DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR SAYING THIS. SOMETIME BEING APART IS BETTER.

[anti-rq-gumi]

About the con-abuse thing. I am going to debunk things you both said as a consented "victim" of one of these. I do not consider myself a victim but just so you know what side I was on.

I was in one of these relationships because I was in a really bad mental state. An alter of mine had to put a stop to it because I was *actually* harming the body.

It was not "play", I would shake and cry for hours because I did something wrong by him. He would force me to tell him everything embarrassing and things he could used against me. As well as sexualize my trauma. I hurt myself for him. Got harassed when he thought I blocked him. So, no. The abuse is very very real.

However, I have seen safewords. No, I was not given the opportunity myself, but I do know they are given in a lot of con-abuse scenarios. But despite that, it is NOT and never will be the same experience as BDSM.

Hope this gave some insight.

Thanks for the perspective, it did. /gen

[antiradqueerguy]

https://www.tumblr.com/antiradqueerguy/758096428227756032/why-are-you-anti-xenosatanist

.. that didn't answer my question? why are you against that?

ME (antiradqueerguy)

THINKS THAT ABOLISHING THE AGE OF CONSENT, AND POSSIBLY HAVING MINORS DO SEX WORK, AS WELL AS EVERYTHING ELSE I LISTED ON THAT POST

IS PREDATORY AND EXPOSES MINORS TO UNWANTED SEXUAL SHIT AT A EARLY AGE, WHICH IS NOT GOOD FOR THEM

And using evidence from a study I found on google about exposing 2000 8th graders to pornographic material, 50% of them having early sexual debuts, unsafe sex (inconsistent condom use), and multiple sexual partners, Many of them got STIs and had unintended teen pregnancies.

so yeah it fucking sucks, And nowhere does it say "SEX ED IS MANDATORY" or "MORE FUNDING FOR SEX ED" on that stupid ass manifesto, If xenosatanism became law we'd have another aids outbreak and child sexual abuse would be more common.

hope that answers you question (which the first post should have but I guess you don't really know how to read)

[report-rqs]

Here's a recent post from the radqueer coining tag, and here's how I phrased my report if you want to model future reports of radqueer posts off this:

Describe, what you are reporting: This is a term for someone who "identifies as" or wishes to have parasocial delusions, complete with a pride flag for people who identify this way.

Describe, as best you can, how it violates Tumblr's Hate Speech Policy: This is a transphobic and ableist attempt at appropriating transgender terminology, and it encourages people to try to enduce delusions in themselves. The entire "radqueer" tag on Tumblr is full of content like this and it's disgusting.

[lilliaespi-deactivated20250818]

I have zero idea how old you are, so I'm going to try to make this as easy to understand as possible.

Keep in mind, I'm 30, been involved heavily in the BDSM community since 2012, and am a health educator, kink educator, and fetish educator. WITH THAT OUT OF THE WAY (and having worked in healthcare for damn near 10 years), let's get into it.

There are SAFE ways to explore potentially rough or 'dangerous' quirks, kinks, fetishes, and/or BDSM related curiosities that DO NOT involve fantasizing and/or romantcizing serious harm to people.

Case in point, the porn community has RUINED and destroyed the fact that there's an actual difference between "CNC" (consensual non consent"), "free use", and "rough sex". Let's educate EVERYONE here so there's no "but what about"-isms.

Free use: Consensually telling your partner "you can have sex with me any time outside of barrier/parameters pre-established (like can only occur inside the home), but the scene can stop at any time if I drop a safe word (like "pineapple" for lack of better phrasing, thanks Tiktok).

Rough sex: Roughly engaging in sexual acts with partner, often involving teeth, scratches, some kind of impact play device (like a paddle or whip), possible electrical play (like a tens unit or violet wand), possible fire play (with proper safety involved to not leave serious burns), possible ice play (again, proper safety to not leave permanent damage), etc. THERE IS A STRONG EMPHASIS ON SAFETY AND CONSENT to keep everyone as safe as possible. Some communities refer to this as "edge play" as in "you're walking the knife's edge with safety". But some people interpret "edge play" as "orgasm denial and control", so read the context when you come across this type of play. Safe words can still be dropped to end a scene.

CNC (consensual non consent): Formally known as biastophilia, it is the fetish or kink (strong orgasm desire) to sexually harm a cause serious injury to a partner. It can be as 'light' as SEVERE verbal degradation (not going to put explicit examples here, think of a verbal abuser from a partner that involves dehumanizing) or as severe as rape/sexual assault (forcing your organ in them), broken bones, etc. When it come to the porn scene, a lot of CNC scenes are DIFFICULT to shoot (attempt rape, gang rape, rough shoving between sexual partners, severe sensory overload OR deprivation, attempt kidnapping, blow jobs to the point of vomiting, potential no lube anal sex, organs prolaping on the penis due to trauma, etc.). There is a reason why even PROFESSIONAL ACTORS in the adult industry (XXX) have serious trouble shooting a lot of these scenes and require SIGNIFICANT aftercare. MANY tap out, again due to the psychological natural consequences that happen during these scenes.

Once you are legally of age (again, I'm making this post for a safety perspective for ALL blog viewers here), you can SAFELY and LEGALLY navigate BDSM circles to learn HOW to manage all three above (Fet...e, local workshops, local munches, reading books about how to do these things safely, watching interviews online with real performers and sex workers of all kinds, safely navigate XXX spaces online, etc.).

If you are legally a minor (17 and younger for most areas, it's when a court no longer deems you a dependent on your parent/guardian figure, NOT age of consent), STAY THE FUCK OUT OF THESE SPACES UNTIL YOU ARE OF LEGAL AGE! It is fine to have curiosities, fantasies, kinks, fetishes, etc. develop during your pre-teen and teen years because your hormones are going crazy. IT IS NOT OKAY to force yourself into these adult spaces.

Child predators(creeps) exist, point blank. Adults who want to do horrible things to pre-teens and teens exist, point blank. We want to keep minors out of these spaces TO KEEP Y'ALL SAFE. Stop pretending that "you're the exception" to grooming or anything like this. YOU ARE NOT. Child predation is an EPIDEMIC online for a reason.

DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF into BDSM spaces, kink spaces, and/or fetish spaces online. IT IS FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY!

For the love of fuck, drop the radqueer bullshit that's just straight up albeist nonsense and a slap in the face to those who suffer from these real life horrific things that often lead to severe cptsd, ptsd, potential victims of child trafficking, victims of child creeps/predators, etc.

People have sadism thoughts. People have masochistic thoughts. It's about HOW YOU LEARN to SAFELY navigate these waters with a CONSENTING partner when BOTH of you are legal adults. This is why BDSM safety workshops and spaces online exist.

[antiradqueerguy]

Can I ask what you think would've been good steps to smth against xenosatanists? Maybe some people will actually do it who knows.

AntiRadqueerGuys Guide to remove xenosatanists in every way I can possibly think of! (for radqueers and antis :3)

Report their accounts, Report anything that could possibly be bannable or could get posts taken down, This includes but not limited to posts about self harm, sexually explicit posts, harm to minors, violent threats, Anything at all.

Archive posts as well, They are extremely useful when a user pops up again, Any post you think is a bannable offense archive it and use it to ban them again, (I do this often with ciel/alice when i remember to)

Send tumblr support a email saying something like "Blank user and their previous awful actions" send them the links to the archives and then explain what is inside the archives, how you know that that account and the new account are owned by the same person and offer proof of that if you can. It will get them banned (from experience)

Email support and tell them that their tag supports xenosatanism, explain what xenosatanism is and what it supports (i recommend picking the ones that could get something taken down for harm to minors) and send them the archive of the xenosatanist carrd Link here , Make sure to report as many of the xenosatanist tags you can find,

Make a big bold bright red DNI stating if xenosatanists interact with you, You will report them, And when they do interact report them for all bannable content you can find on their account. Make it known that they cannot interact with you and they should not interact with you.

Report their discord servers (YOU NEED TO JOIN THE SERVER TO DO THIS), If you see in the tags a xenosatanist discord server to do this enable developer mode through your settings, this will be needed to get the server ID and the message ID and the user ID of the person who sent the messages of anything awful(make sure to keep track if there is multiple copied), Copy the server id and any message ids you find that could break discords community guidelines, Once you have everything that could possibly be bannable and send it to discords trust and safety team do help & support, Use the email associated with you discord account, and then do general question, and then drop the server ID, the message IDs, and the user IDs of the people who sent those messages.

you can also just report individual messages sent inside the server that could break discord community guidelines and hope their accounts get banned.