HER Essentials

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[filmtribv]

Aamito Lagum THREE THOUSAND YEARS OF LONGING(2022)

[gaiasgaurdian]

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This post is for anyone who needs protection. As you cut chords, it can be worrisome and create anxiety. You are protected, cared for, and loved by the universe. No one can cause you harm going forward, and your ancestors or guides will take care of them.

[1badbytch]

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[madamlaydebug]

[byinvitation]

I think often about independence and freedom and the sheer will, discipline, faith, and prudence it takes to take care of yourself at your desired level(s). Not just physically, mentally, or financially. But spiritually, energetically and in terms of self-actualisation.

It takes guts to create a life you want. It takes audacity to show up and demand your weight in gold. And it takes cunning to understand that some decisions just have to be made. There’s no shame in wanting. There’s no shame in receiving. Shame doesn’t exist for in our field, only love, abundance and audacity.

[honestsinnerrr]

DATING 101 💬

Men are INFO DIGGERS

Stop telling men your deepest (darkest) insecurities

Stop telling men your deepest (darkest) secrets

Stop telling men your sexual history

Stop telling men how you were mistreated by exes

Stop telling men YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS

A lot of them don’t ask about your personal life to genuinely get to know you. They dig for information to use AGAINST YOU. They dig for information to JUDGE YOU. MEN DO NOT NEED TO KNOW EVERY INCH OF YOUR LIFE. KEEP SENSITIVE INFORMATION TO YOURSELF.

[lovemeinluxuryslap]

[nsaint1]

wake up girlies!!!

[churchyardbasementromance]

Black Women at Peace X X X X

[belalugosishreds]

[mikaeled]

Pam Grier in Foxy Brown (1974) dir. Jack Hill

[flyandfamousblackgirls]

Trina Parks on set of the James Bond film “Diamonds Are Forever” (1971). Trina Parks is the 1st Black Bond Girl.

[a-state-of-bliss]

Max Calendar 1998 - Monica Bellucci by Fabrizio Ferri

[flyandfamousblackgirls]

Belindah Chaka

[balsanja]

Aretha, Donna, Roberta, Melba, Diana & Natalie

[thegardenofbae]

she is 😍

[byinvitation]

STOP being insecure about your RIGHT to have whatever it is YOU want. This is YOUR life, YOUR world. The rest of us are merely background characters. LIVE according to YOU.

[thepeacefulgarden]

[modelsof-color]

Akuol Deng Atem by Amit Israeli for Revue Magazine France F/W 2021