Ade's Space

Mod Ade from Fatphobia Busters. I have many names, but Ade will do. 35. Intersex male. Pansexual/Polyamorous. Fabulously Fat Space Dandy. Traditional Artist and Bird Enthusiast. Repetitive/extensive trauma and abuse survivor with Dissociative Identity Disorder. I post what I like and I like what I post. This here is a safe place where you will hopefully find information, pretty things, and enjoyable posts. All welcoming, just don't be a bigoted dick. Please let me know if I need to tag or I have reblogged something problematic. Expect many birdies, nerdy things, artsy things, fabulous things, advocacy things, mental/body positivity, and so much more. Intersectional Feminism, Human Rights, Fat/disabled positive, mental illness safe space, LGBTIQA+ and Black Lives Matter supporter.

[synkverv]

gays will get divorced and make it everyone's problem smh

[gracerings]

louis staying with the man who orchestrated the murder of his daughter for over 70 years just to spite his ex-husband and lestat deciding to let louis find out on his own about his new husband trying to kill him, breaking his own heart and torturing himself in the process too, just so he could say ‘see I was right’ 70 years later,, this is the toxic obsessive failmarriage representation we deserve

[zntauri]

cw eldritch cat/ lots of eyes/blood (?

sorry for the long post btw

I added this one just because lol

I really thought i could finish these in 2 week when i barely have free time lmao

spanish ver. of the last drawing and references⬇⬇⬇

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[cyberneticfallout]

How I’ve been welcoming the new Fallout fans:

[il-bambin0]

genuinely - i wish people would just leave fat people alone. i don’t care what a fat person eats or doesn’t eat. stop using them for your steaming pile of dogshit you call comedy. it’s not funny. like, if you see a fat person and instantly shit yourself from anger, i cannot help you.

these types of people cannot stand seeing a fat person exist without going “HhhHmMmMMMMMm ACHSKUALLY, YOU ARE UNHEALTHY.” please. be quiet

[gb7zone7]

waking up to Pokemon Sleep rewarding me with a shiny Chatot because the app detected that I farted at 3:18 in the morning

[poreyneel]

And I would like to spend... (the eternity with you)

[fitzbeloveds]

#i live there

[fatphobiabusters]

This post is to remember the singer Cass Elliot who tragically died due to fatphobia. To put it simply, an entire life of cruelty about Cass Elliot's fatness caused her to resort to starvation diets, substance misuse, and what very well could have been an eating disorder. She attempted to survive the fatphobia by playing the fatphobic, stereotypical role of the "funny fat person." Not even in death was she allowed to escape fatphobia, as her tragic death was used as a fat joke by spreading a rumor that she had died by "gluttony." More specifically: choking on a sandwich. Despite that not being true, people continue to believe that debunked myth today. If not for this fatphobic society, Cass Elliot, an incredibly talented singer, would not have died at age 32, involuntarily leaving her only daughter parentless, and likely would have still been alive today.

If you're not sure who Cass Elliot was, this is one of her most iconic songs with her former band:

And here is a solo performance by her. Some people might recognize this song since it was apparently used for a TikTok trend:

For more details about the horrendous fatphobia she endured her entire 32 years, here is a video and two articles that explain. A trigger warning for the second article since it uses the slur "ob*se" and "overweight."

‘Mama Cass’ Elliot Died Almost 50 Years Ago, But Her Memory Is Still Obscured By Fatphobia

“Cass deserved far more from us,” says writer and researcher Lexi Pandell.

Mama Cass: How fatphobia made a mockery of a legend

The iconic singer of The Mamas & The Papas broke barriers in the music industry by succeeding while also defying established beauty standard

In memory of her, please do not call her "Mama Cass." She hated that nickname because it was used specifically due to fatphobic stereotypes.

If anyone needed an example of how deadly fatphobia has been for centuries, I hope you'll think of Cass Elliot, one of the plethora of people who have been killed by fat people's systemic oppression and still faces oppression to this day while 6 feet under.

-Mod Worthy

[fuckysuckybrigade]

Legendary horror manga artist Junji Ito loved the Barbie movie (x)

[calamitys-child]

I'm a pacifist like institutionally but I'm absolutely certain that violence solves at least some problems on a much smaller level. I don't believe in wars or nuclear weapons or military campaigns I do believe in the power of that guy who punched the nazi in the face so hard his entire media presence immediately crumbled to dust

[dadvans]

every day that i log into this website and no one is talking about this man stabbing another man in the throat and licking the blood off the knife and his fingernail polish changing with his murder outfits and his murder outfits being rotating unbuttoned silk shirts, wide linen pants, and crocodile shoes, and flirty fun hairstyles and too many accessories, and he color coordinates his soft gothcore color palettes with the pimp cars that he drives, and he only has a boner for (1) murder and (2) a six-something hyper masc baby boy on a cliff he blows kisses to when baby boy shoots his enemy off a giant dam with a rocket launcher, like???

i'm being tested by god

[anxietyproblem]

[screaming-heart]

when you’re healing, you will fuck up. maybe you’ll relapse, maybe you’ll do something you know is gonna hurt you, maybe you’ll deprive yourself of something you need, whatever. but healing isn’t linear, its wibbly wobbly and weird. you’re not terrible for messing up, you’re not terrible for not being ready to move forward, you’re not terrible for not being perfect. you still deserve healing, and you still deserve respect.

[depression-took-over-my-liiife]

[herr-kater86]

I deleted my vent blog on here. There's no point in it. I just need to remember how to numb out again.

[lilhawkeye3]

“What is it, one-eyed Visenya? Did we finally conquer Dorne?”