they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"
you exhaled deeply once you felt jaeminâs middle finger slide across your glistering foldsâ which were aching for his touches, begging for him to fuck you already yet he always remained in taking his time with you, playing properly with you before actually fucking you silly. You lifted your hips a bit for him to access your hole deeper, one finger now getting sucked into your cunt. His thumb was between your pussy lips, stroking around the sensual bundle of nerves to get you even more wet for him. Heâs enchanted by your lewd voicing, jaemin loved it whenever you were vocal with him. He needed to know if he made you feel good so heâd also be aware on how to continue the act. He kept his painfully slow pace on you before you grunted out in frustration, wiggling your hips so heâd add another finger already in which he replied with a breathy laugh. Yet he didnât want to keep you in agony any longer, youâre his precious girl after all! Jaemin finally pushed his second finger past your entrance which had your walls twitch around him, already feeling your climax build up deep inside your gut.
"fuck baby, you feel so good around me." Seonghwa groans into your ear as he guides your hips against his. his black hair sticking to his sweaty forehead, the veins in his hands pulsing under his skin as he bounces you on his cock.
the fabric of your skirt is bunched up over your hips, as Seonghwa started to fuck up into you. you clutched at his shoulders, whining as Seonghwa's tip brushes against your sweet spot. "a-ah daddy, close." Seonghwa moans loudly, pushing you back to lay down on the couch.
hiking one of your legs over his shoulder, his fast pace picks up again. his tip abuses your sweet spot, sending your orgasm through you. your back arches off the bed, whining at how Seonghwa pounds into you. "where do you want it, bunny?"
with the way his dick was pressing against your sweet spot had turned you into a babbling mess and unable to properly answer Seonghwa. with your inability to respond, you opted for wrapping your leg around his waist. Seonghwa moans loudly, as he cums inside you. he cums in thick spurts, filling you up like you wanted.
Seonghwa breathed heavily, pulling out of you. he delivers a harsh smack to your inner thigh, eliciting a small whine from you.
Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.
If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Donât risk it. Your body knows.
If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but youâll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.
Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.
Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.
Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say âhey dad! Yep, Iâm almost there, Iâm sending you the route.â outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.
If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say âBetty, oh my god, I havenât seen you in so long!â. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know youâre trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.
If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like âhey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If youâd like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.â This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when youâre in a crowded train and you notice harassment.
Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.
I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided Iâd come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.
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