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Anon stating that Noah going to gay bar equals to him being promiscuous is genuinely disheartening. A lesson in history: Gay bars were underground sanctuaries for LGBTQ Community in a time where they faced dangers. They were essentially safe spaces where the community could come together to enjoy companionship More than that they were places where the community came together to organize resistance. This article actually does a good job explaining the correlation. Moreover to assume that because someone goes to a gay bar means they are promiscuous is a deeply problamtic belief. Would the anon think the same of a straight person going to a bar? It reinforces the belief that LGBTQ community is promiscuous. I would request anon to read this paper on how such beliefs has negativity impacted queer people's life. And even if he is as the anon says 'promiscuous', then what? Since when did it become ok to shame people for having consensual sex? And since when does that oppose to one being sweet and kind? There is no logic to this conclusion.

The more I read anon's thoughts the more I see them for who they are. Someone who is painfully straight and who thinks they hold the moral compass for what constitutes as acceptable to Noah's sexuality. It's only acceptable for him to be gay and receive love if he is shy, sweet and palatable to them. Otherwise he is this manipulative horrible person who is secretly evil and is doing something nefarious. Reality check - Celebrities don't owe you shit. Not their personal lives, not their relationships, not even as the anon puts it 'their real self.' Will is for us, Noah is for himself. And please actually do a little research on LGBTQ community if you are going to argue against a gay actor. It's sad and painful to see the level of insensitivity this anon possesses when it comes to the community.

I could not agree more with what you’ve articulated, and I think it is essential to ground this discussion in both historical context and sociological reality.

Gay bars have never simply been places of leisure; they have historically functioned as vital sanctuaries for LGBTQ+ individuals in societies that criminalised, pathologised, or outright rejected them. From the era preceding the Stonewall riots to the decades that followed, these spaces were among the very few where queer people could gather without fear, build community, and organise resistance. To reduce such spaces to reductive assumptions about promiscuity is not only inaccurate—it erases a profound history of survival, solidarity, and political struggle.

From a sociological perspective, what we are seeing in anon’s reasoning reflects a persistent stereotype: the hypersexualisation of queer identities, particularly gay men. This stereotype has long been used as a tool of marginalisation, framing LGBTQ+ people as morally excessive or deviant in order to justify social control or exclusion. Psychologically, these assumptions often stem from unfamiliarity combined with ingrained cultural narratives—what people do not understand, they oversimplify, and what they oversimplify, they often judge.

There is also a striking parallel with misogynistic patterns. Society has historically policed the sexuality of women—labeling them negatively when they express autonomy or openness—while simultaneously holding them to standards of purity and restraint. What anon expresses is, in many ways, a homophobic extension of that same logic. Why is it that a woman who embraces her sexuality is scrutinised, and likewise, a gay man who does the same is suddenly perceived as excessive or inappropriate? The common thread is a discomfort with visible, unapologetic sexuality that does not conform to traditional, heteronormative expectations.

What becomes particularly telling is the implicit condition placed on acceptance: queer individuals are tolerated so long as they remain “palatable”—discreet, non-threatening, and aligned with a narrow image of softness or innocence. The moment they embody something more complex—joyful, expressive, flirtatious, or simply human in their full range—they are scrutinised or even vilified. This reflects the unspoken but pervasive attitude of “you can be who you are, but only as long as it does not make me uncomfortable.” That is not acceptance; it is conditional tolerance.

And ultimately, this reveals something deeper: the discomfort is not with Noah as a person, but with the visibility of his sexuality. It is the age-old sentiment, repackaged in softer language—“be who you are, but don’t show it too much.” That is precisely the kind of mindset that continues to sustain subtle, internalised forms of homophobia, even among those who may not consciously identify as prejudiced.

If one chooses to support a public figure who is openly gay, there is also a responsibility to approach that support with a willingness to understand the realities of queer identity beyond surface-level perceptions. That includes engaging with the history, the cultural context, and the lived experiences of the community—like the very resources and discussions that were shared. Without that effort, what may feel like a personal “impression” can, in reality, reinforce long-standing and harmful narratives.

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Cliff Marleau, I'm so fond of you.

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People fighting between Zukarra and Kattang. While I am favouring Zukarrang.

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Being a bisexual is hard. I can't focus ATLA. I am simultaneously distracted by Katra's biceps and Zuko' broad shoulders and Aang' s pretty face.

[mybloodstream-caffeine]

Why haven't we opened the dialogue about childhood frenemies hollanov?? We're constantly bickering. You're always at my house. I hate my childhood nickname. You're the only one who still uses it. You stole my first girlfriend. We kissed in my bedroom once, just to practice. You took me to my first real party. You drove me home when I got drunk. Okay fine we kissed more than once. I hate you. You give me butterflies. You're always touching me ugh god stop touching me you're so annoying. Touch me again. You make fun of my clothes and my posters and my bedsheets. You took my virginity. I don't even like you, really. Unless you say it first.

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Ohhhhh my god yes!!! This au is absolutely required.

Like Yuna Hollander being absolutely protective of Ilya because Gregory is PoS. Or Shane punching Andrei in the face that one time Ilya came to school with a blck eye. Mind you they are in middle school and Andrei is attending High school. Ilya spending weeks at the Hollander house after Irina passess away, until Gregory thretens to call authorities m Shane hates Gregory more than anyone. Ilya knowing all signs of Shane's anxiety. He has a list of all of Shane's stressors. He is the only one who can talk Shane out of a panic attack.

On more fun side, Shane hates Ilya smoking. Also there is so much jealousy in this au. Shane hating all of Ilya's girlfriend. Ilya hating all the people who flirting with Shane which Shane does not even clock. And Ilya is always interrupting these flirt attempts. Them knowing each other's evrything. Every scar and fear and embarassing stories. Evrything.

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Can anyone recommend any fic where Shane's hockey iq is demonstrated or his leadership skills? Please 🥺🥺🥺.

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I HATE Nice Boy Shane Hollander. It's undeniably Shane's image in the HR universe. But it's like people fail to understand that it is a Public Persona carefully created by Yuna Hollander. Shane Hollander a prissy, competitive, drunk on victory, asshole. And he deserves to be one. Ilya bates you with his words. Shane bates you with his silent judgements. Shane doesn't get peer pressured. Why would he, when he is better than his peers. He is better than all of them combined. Alot of people think that he would be hurt by Comeau or other player's treatment. But honestly? I doubt they were ever his friends. Shane doesn't give a fuck about anyone other than Hayden and JJ. Others are just noice for him. I bet he doesn't know any WAGs other than Jackie. Shane is above them and he is proud of it. As he deserves to be.

Edit- I also think that this image is a by- product of Shane being a bottom. People assume that means he is not a fucking asshole. That he is a nice boy. Fuck that.

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fall in love again and again...

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🚨 UNDERAGE PORNOGRAPHY USING DEEPFAKE AND TELEGRAM IN KOREA🚨

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In Korea, middle, high school and college students are taking screenshots, even sneaking pictures of classmates, family members (sisters, cousins, even their own mothers) to make pornography videos and pictures in Telegram, using AI and Deepfake. Most of the victims right now are underage, and some are even using the generated pictures to threaten the victims.

It’s really a serious issue, and there are more than 220,000 memebers in said chat (it’s an estimated number, and it’s certain that there are more offenders not included in this) There are separated group chats for each middle school, high school, etc, the high school I’m attending right now included.

But as the Korean government did with the Nth room, their actions have been very timid, as well as the media. There isn’t any news coverage even though it’s basically a child pornography crime, especially since most of the offenders are underage. The schools are also taking limited actions.

People, especially the victims themselves are doing their own research, based on Twitter, sharing information about the schools of the victims to raise awareness, and also to share information about the perpetrators. Girls are taking down their profile pictures, instagram stories, making their profiles private, as they all have been used for the crime.

Please share, talk, and ask about this issue.

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I don't know how many people enjoy both these fandoms. But like am I crazy or Hollonov incredibly Wangxian coded. Being equals. Being incredibly good in their field in a way where only the other gets you. LWJ and Ilya losing their mothers to suiside. Their dad's being major assholes. Obviously WWX and Shane are different. But also both of them are geniuses.

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i'm posting this here because i have more FREEDOM without having my characters cut off,

but i want to rant with total impunity about the parasocial relationship that some people – mostly on twitter – have with finn. i can’t stand them or that shit anymore

on one hand, there are the people who want to know everything about his private life. oh my fucking god, can’t they just follow him? can’t they just like him as a celebrity? why do they have to take everything to extremes? at the end of the day, he’s still an ordinary person like everyone else. i don’t like that shitty argument that he’s famous and should just put up with it. that's simple bullshit. you lot are simply wrong, and i don’t know if there’s any hope for you.

and on the other hand, there are the people who hate him for ANYTHING, and not just him but his characters too. luckily, i’ve been fortunate enough to interact with extremely kind people on bylertwt and bylertumblr who have appreciated both characters, but outside of that, there are people who demonise finn and all his characters just because. and guess what? he’s still just an ordinary person, and that argument that he’s famous is still bullshit.

i consider myself old now (well... maybe not that old) and i think that for the most part, this is all about very, VERY young people who haven’t yet learnt the basic rules of interacting with the world, but please, put an end to all this parasocial madness and learn to enjoy something you like without taking it to extremes. and if you don’t like it, learn to keep quiet if you’ve got nothing positive to contribute.

the world is already overflowing with hate and there are fewer and fewer places where you can find peace. don’t help spread hatred; instead, help create places where you feel at ease, where everyone feels that way

thank you for reading my complaints

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Happy birthday Will Byers. You ment so much to me. Your gentle heart, your kindness, your strength, your love, your bluntness. You taught me so much about kindness. How you can hold on to it even when the world gives you no reason to be kind. You taught me to love without expectations. You taught me the value of selfless sacrifice. You suffered so much only to be given the bare minimum. Your suffering was hardly ever recognised. Your strength was often ignored. But don't worry. This is not the end of your story. Where your writers failed, I hope we will succeed. To love you whole heartedly. You have exited the narrative and are now safe in our gentle hands. You will have your happy endings. Many and many of them.

[narrativelogicofbyler]

happy birthday to one of my favourite characters, someone whose presence in the narrative carried a kind of gentle resonance, the sort that doesn’t need grand arcs or dramatic monologues to matter. you existed in the small choices, the glances, the pauses between lines. the kind of character work that film and television students learn to pay attention to, because that’s where the real storytelling often lives.

you deserved a softer journey than the one the narrative offered you, but that doesn’t diminish the tenderness you brought to the screen. sometimes a character’s impact isn’t measured by what the script gives them, but by what the audience feels in the spaces around it, the potential, the quiet ache, the sense of who you could have been if the story had held you with more care.

you are loved. and you will be remembered, gently, warmly, in that way certain characters settle into us and stay, not because the text fully understood you, but because we did.

[byerswonwon]

Happy birthday, Will Byers. I don’t really know how to write this without it feeling like I’m closing a door I’ve been living inside for years, but maybe that’s what this is. A quiet kind of goodbye. You were never just a character on a screen. You were the softest echo of being unseen and still choosing to love anyway. You taught me that silence isn’t emptiness, that there are whole galaxies inside the things we never say. The way you loved, so gently, so selflessly, like holding a candle in a storm just so someone else could see… it changed something in me.

I think that’s why it hurts. Because you stayed kind in a world that kept taking from you. Because you felt everything and still chose not to let it make you cruel. And because some loves, like yours, don’t get to be loud or returned or easy… they just exist, quietly, beautifully, and a little heartbreakingly.

So this is me, letting go. Of you, of this story, of this little space I carved out to feel everything a bit too deeply. Thank you for being my comfort, my ache, my reminder that softness is not weakness. Wherever stories go when they end, I hope you’re finally somewhere warm, somewhere seen, somewhere loved the way you always deserved.

Goodbye, Will. And thank you for everything. 🤍

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I don't care what anyone says. I am never gonna watch anything made by the Duffers ever again. Even if Christopher Nolan himself praises their next project, I refuse to watch it. Even the thought makes me feel icky.

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen: the Duffer brothers’ horror series is absolutely terrifying

The creators of Stranger Things’s new dread-suffused drama sees a happy couple head off for an idyllic wedding – a poorly-lit cabin in the w