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The people who spent years harassing kyonghui and nicole and my sister off the site have fundraisers that make thousands of dollars and meanwhile I'm supporting a family of two on $300 a month

strawhatsufi

Hi everyone, I'm a refugee with several long-neglected medical problems in addition to permamently disabling autism. I don't currently have any access to medication or treatment at all because I barely make enough money to pay rent and feed myself. My phone and laptop are both dying.

I really need a break of like $1000. Which is a fraction of what I saw some truly fucking dogshit people raising yesterday so I'm sick of feeling like it's unreasonable or impossible for me to afford fucking contact lenses so I can see my own fucking yard. (I'm blind even with glasses.)

paypal link

strawhatsufi

ty prev and cosigned... i'm blocked by some of the biggest names in mutual aid posting for some verifiably very stupid reasons and others have been directly involved in harassment campaigns against my family and are thus blocked for our safety

some updates since this post is about a month old now

not quite sure how much money this has raised so far, checking is an entire ordeal because, stateless so my banking situation is a mess. it's for sure short of the $1000 goal I set but also remarkably better than the $300 average up to this point which is good because

my phone gave out entirely and I did have to replace it, also,

my landlord and i had a very unpleasant conversation in which she very forcefully tried to get me to explain my chronic health conditions and the nuances of my legal status to her in a language i barely speak,

(i don't even understand what my legal status is right now or if i even have one that's a whole other thing i have to sort out)

and if i could explain my health conditions well that would be one less thing in the way of treatment wouldnt it

and i was not able or frankly willing to do that so i am moving out at the end of june

and i was able to book the biggest travel expense well in advance (thus saving a lot of money for this-month me).

will this new situation be superior in terms of healthcare and education access? i think so but it's going to be expensive to set up at first because we don't have housing etc ready

still blind, still without several medications, laptop still basically how it has been

the next 45+ days are extremely important

save-the-child-qais

STOP SCROLLING, MY BABY QAIS’S WOUND OPENED AGAIN BEFORE MY EYES.

I started using torn, worn-out clothes instead of medical bandages for my baby Qais, and his wound became infected and opened again because I cannot afford proper supplies anymore.

save-the-child-qais

Tonight, I tried cleaning the blood from his small body with shaking hands while he cried in pain, and I realized I no longer have anything left to ease his suffering.

save-the-child-qais

I beg you as a devastated mother in Gaza, watching her child break apart in front of her without being able to save him.

Please donate now and help me keep my baby Qais alive.

save-the-child-qais

TRAGICALLY, tonight my baby Qais lost consciousness again after his wound reopened and the bleeding returned, and I felt completely helpless watching his small body collapse in my arms. Please, I beg you, donate now and help me save him.

transgenders

i hit post limit yesterday & it kinda completely fucked me making this on time. had to get borrow out for it but it was still late atp. so im in the hole & i gotta make sure our phones ($19 & $25ish by June 15th) stay on too. anything helps, im in so much debt i literally always have something important to pay. please help me not drown in bills during pride month, trying to survive a cult & my birth month.

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transgenders

completely fucking cleaned out again bc im not making all these bills on time and sinking further into debt. how am i supposed to escape a literal cult if i never can save up, am always behind & in so much debt? i dont want to be here anymore & there are no job opportunities around me anymore! please help 🙇 im tired of not being able to fully pay anything off and having no hope. im tired of being abused!

zombie-luna

timidsketch

I don't know whether or not this is true, but I'm reblogging this because we live in a world where the third search result when I tried researching the validity of this information was a link to an article about a weight loss product.

The second search result had included the slur "ob*se" in the title of the article.

There are seriously people who tell me fat people aren't oppressed. Meanwhile, trying to find information about how to keep a fat person from drying in a car crash is met with links to products that make dirty money off of how society views my body.

I immediately gave up trying to research this.

squirreltastic

The tiktok is correct. Basically it's about arranging your belt so it there is an accident the pressure is in your strongest bones.

timidsketch

"Seatbelt should be across your hips rather than your stomach for everyone, but i think it's more common for fat people to wear seatbelts over the stomach

Pelvic bones are strong and sturdy, and you're going to be MUCH less likely to injure internal organs and such when you suddenly slam into a nylon belt"

Text and photos by @thejacespace

I wanted to put both of these reblogs in one reblog chain since this is helpful information. Thank you both for giving more information than fatphobic Google did.

mybigfatgaylife

Thanks to everyone who worked on verifying this information.

sailatina3

Waifu impact has a spanish translation and yet deltarune doesn't.

sailatina3

LEAVE THE MILLIONARE ALONE HE'S JUST A HARD WORKING WHITE BOY MAKING THIS GAME ALL BY HIMSELF PLUS LIKE A DOZEN OTHER DEVS BUT THATS IRRELEVANT OK ALL HE HAS IS 2 OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL INDIE GAMES OF ALL TIME SELLING ATLEAST 13 MILLION COPIES PLUS HIS PAYCHECK FROM WORKING ON POKÉMON PLUS HIS PAYCHECK FROM PUTTING SANS IN SMASH BROS HE IS LITERALLY INDEPENDENT AND ABSOLUTELY DOES NOT GAVE ANY INDUSTRY CONNECTIONS. HES SO HUMBLE AND DEFINITELY DOES NOT HAVE MORE MONEY THAN I'LL EVER OWN IN MY LIFE FROM MERCH SALES MADE IN SWEAT SHOPS PROBABLY. WHEN YOU INSULT MY FAVORITE WHITE BOY IT HURTS ME WHY CANT THE STUPID BEANERS JUST SHUT UP. ITS JUST A VIDEO GAME WHY DO U CARE. I DEFINITELY DONT CARE WHICH IS WHY IM SUCKING THIS WHITE BOY DICK SO HARD. SPENDING MY TIME DEFENDED A MAN WHO WILL NEVER KNOW ME. ITS WORTH IT IF I GET TO PUNISH LATINOS FOR THINKING THEY DESERVE ANYTHING.

r0zeclawz

im thinking about my game again and i realized i never figured out how to make fiend hold weapons so heres an attempt at something. for context she has one fucking huge crystal arm and her other arm ends in a stump a bit after the elbow

i figured that maybe it would be cool if she had some sort of prosthetic thing that attaches to the stump which in turn she can attach weapons too, like no hand or anything just shove the handle in there. then she can swing it around energy sword style. maybe for bigger weapons/pole weapons she actually holds it with her big crystal claw? ill think about it. suggestions are welcome

r0zeclawz

refining this concept. doing it like this allows for more flexibility and looks cooler. maybe it could work like the first model for daggers and stuff? well see

shes having fun

bananonbinary

tony's chocolonely mildly pisses me off every time i eat it. like yeah i get it ur doing a whole symbolism thing about unfairness and whatever, but its actually SO DIFFICULT to eat fucking. gerrymandered chocolate. your symbolism is ruining my chocolate experience.

who approved this.

bananonbinary

like. ur already more expensive. i understand this. i am willing to pay more money to have slave-free delicious chocolate. why must you punish me further by making it a goddamn puzzle to break a piece off.

closet-keys

Tony's Chocolonely does not ensure a living wage for cocoa workers in West Africa (see 2020 report by Voice Network).

Food Empowerment Project maintains an updated list of chocolate brands they recommend based on the following standards:

transparency about the country of origin for cocoa

if sourced from Western Africa, the workers must own the companies/be in charge of the profits from their labor (this standard is because child labor and slavery have been widely documented for decades in this area)

if sourced from Brazil, the workers must own the company and/or be in charge of the profits from their labor, or the company must be going above and beyond to support the workers and their families (this standard is because "child labor and slavery only recently have been documented in cocoa in Brazil" and they are "giving Brazilian companies that are trying to address the issue by supporting the workers and their families the benefit of the doubt.")

this isn't perfect, obviously, but it is much more grounded in the rights of workers than the various certifications (e.g. Fair Trade, Rainforest Alliance, etc.) you'll see on product packaging

aloofraven

I think it should be noted that the Food Empowerment Project specifically only lists companies making "at least one vegan chocolate product" and that they only ask about the companies' vegan chocolates specifically. Their list is not an exhaustive resource for every type of chocolate.

[Source: "Understanding Our Chocolate List" from their website]

Before I found that link I was curious as to why I didn't see any Norwegian manufacturers on their list(which makes sense now, as their chocolates are almost exclusively milk chocolate) and looked up where our companies source their chocolate from and found Nidar gets theirs from the Rainforest Alliance and Freia from Cocoa Life, both of which have been under scrutiny for not preventing child labour and not paying farmers a living wage among other things. So it appears Norwegian chocolate is out of the ethical picture.

roninnozlo

I stated this in the comments of the post already, but it’d probably be better to add it as a reblog, so it’s more visible and doesn’t need to be restated by anyone else in the future.

So, Tony’s allied with Barry Callebut to get its cocoa. Barry Callebut is one of the biggest chocolate companies in the world, and it is unethical, obviously. This led to Tony’s revealing in February 2022 that 1701 child laborers were in their supply chain. Barry Callebut had over 21K at the time. Both of those numbers have risen, and Tony’s has outright admitted they don’t give a fuck about child labor laws when asked about it, content to let children to continue farming their cocoa instead of actually doing the activism they claim to do. (business-humanrights.org, feb 6 2022)

About a week ago, Tony’s joined Barry, Nestle and Ferrero in pushing against the reinstatement of important EUDR deforestation legislations. Under that regulation that they pushed against, they would’ve had to be more transparent about their supply chains for their more key ingredients - So Tony’s is lobbying against the exact thing they claim to stand for. (confectioneryproduction.com, mar 18, 2026)

Won’t restate @closet-keys’s addition, of course. That’d just be redundant and maybe annoying since, yknow, it’s already been said.

If you wanna find a better chocolate brand it’s really damn easy. There’s lists on slavefreechocolate.org of both the ethical and unethical companies. Both lists can be found here:

Below is a list of chocolate companies that only use ethically grown cocoa.  Find out how you can tell if the chocolate you are ea

And it doesn’t have the vegan product restriction the other list has, which solves @aloofraven’s issue.

save-the-child-qais

STOP SCROLLING, MY BABY QAIS’S WOUND OPENED AGAIN BEFORE MY EYES.

I started using torn, worn-out clothes instead of medical bandages for my baby Qais, and his wound became infected and opened again because I cannot afford proper supplies anymore.

save-the-child-qais

Tonight, I tried cleaning the blood from his small body with shaking hands while he cried in pain, and I realized I no longer have anything left to ease his suffering.

save-the-child-qais

I beg you as a devastated mother in Gaza, watching her child break apart in front of her without being able to save him.

Please donate now and help me keep my baby Qais alive.

save-the-child-qais

Unfortunately, my baby Qais’s condition became worse tonight, and his tiny body could no longer handle the pain, weakness, and constant bleeding. Please, I beg you, don’t leave us alone—donate now and help me save him.

grannie-nasty-deactivated202602

Hey all— my sweet friend Iris (who you may know as @punishedyke) recently lost her home. Things are just really precarious for her right now, and it would be good for her to have an emergency fund and money to afford a few small comforts. If you have anything to spare please send it her way.

UPDATE: her Venmo got flagged (🙃) but her ko-fi works!!!

Support Iris

punishedyke

No SNAP so anything you could share would help

punishedyke

Back on SNAP but still homeless

punishedyke

It's US Pride Month, give a poor homeless trans woman who didn't get SNAP this month for whatever reason some money to eat

alghabat

happy pride month, can anyone help a black trans person get some groceries + cat food? we would appreciate anything that you can spare, even a $1/€1, nothing is too small. please reblog this anything helps

10/20

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identitty-dickruption

when you look at a psychiatric diagnosis and you see that it has a 3:1 diagnostic rate of women to men, it's more likely to be diagnosed in trans people than cisgender people, and it's most prevalent in hispanic people out of any ethnic group. you really do have to consider who benefits from a label that amounts to "Biologically and Pathologically Hysterical". yknow.

identitty-dickruption

it’s not a “stigmatised” disorder. it’s a disorder that was designed to stigmatise, to shame, and to oppress. acting as though the diagnosis is a stigmatised one is missing the part where this diagnosis is in fact meeting the exact purpose it was designed to fulfil

beyond-a-name

OP's tags from both the original post and the reblog were too good to hide.

that's really exactly it.

as someone who could very easily qualify for a diagnosis of bpd or cptsd, and even very often resonates with both, everything described in bpd is just a demonization of the same patterns of behaviour described by cptsd. it is just describing you as evil for struggling with being hurt so much, and in doing so, takes the focus away from the person hurting and puts it onto how it inconveniences everyone else.

we really need to be critical of how these labels come to be, because they are deliberately created, and they are created by people with biases. they are so often just a tool of oppression, another extension of a discriminatory machine.

I hope it isn't derailing, but I think this is also really illustrated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. "narcissist" was a word for an asshole before it was a word for a disorder. rather than describing how someone might struggle to relate to others or be open to true connection, and centering the person who needs to heal, they instead called everyone who struggles with that an irredeemable dick and dressed it up in medical expertise so you wouldn't think to question it. frankly I think it's silly to call for treating "narcissist" like some sacred medical term instead of looking at how fucked up it is that they called a disorder that???

it was ages ago, but there was a post on here talking about just how many "disorders" and diagnoses boil down to "shitty bitch disease". and well, once you see it, you never stop seeing it. anti-social personality disorder? shitty bitch disease. npd, shitty bitch disease. obstinate defiance disorder (come the fuck on) well that's shitty bitch disease. bpd is maybe the most classic example of this. you don't need to listen to her, she has shitty bitch disease. pay no mind to the fact that this label somehow only makes it onto the most marginalized. don't worry about that, because you don't need to listen to those people anyway. they don't have reasons or pain or bad days or feelings or any of that pesky stuff that real people have to explain their actions. no no, we haven't abused them, not at all. haven't you heard? they were broken from the start, and I can prove it. see? they have shitty bitch disease.

integratedcane

Based on the design made by @googoogaga733!

You can now purchase the vector file for this drawing on my ko-fi!

Thank you all for the support :D

kirikomamura

"life is so hard for men because *starts describing the events of a mafia city ad*"

kirikomamura

this happens every day and yet people believe men arent oppressed

kirikomamura

many lv1 crooks finding a way to get genuinely mad about this post

save-the-child-qais

STOP SCROLLING, MY BABY QAIS’S WOUND OPENED AGAIN BEFORE MY EYES.

I started using torn, worn-out clothes instead of medical bandages for my baby Qais, and his wound became infected and opened again because I cannot afford proper supplies anymore.

save-the-child-qais

Tonight, I tried cleaning the blood from his small body with shaking hands while he cried in pain, and I realized I no longer have anything left to ease his suffering.

save-the-child-qais

I beg you as a devastated mother in Gaza, watching her child break apart in front of her without being able to save him.

Please donate now and help me keep my baby Qais alive.

save-the-child-qais

abdulrahman-family2l

My little nephew is dying; I feel like he's taking his last breaths. I will never forgive anyone who ignores this.

abdulrahman-family2l

Please, we urgently need €850 for emergency surgery for my nephew. His health has deteriorated significantly; he is now in a coma and unconscious, suffering greatly. Time is running out, and every moment is crucial for him.

abdulrahman-family2l

My nephew is his parents' only child. He lost his father in this genocide in the Gaza Strip and suffered multiple traumas during this war. He has already had one operation and now needs another. Please don't leave him alone. Donate towards his operation. I don't want to lose him like I lost my mother and brother. Please donate, donate!

Donate here - PayPal - Vetted#642

abdulrahman-family2l

Guys, my main account has been blocked to silence me. We still need 600 euros now. Please, please, we haven't been able to get my nephew's surgery because we still need 600 euros. Please, please, my nephew is very tired and in a lot of pain. The surgery was supposed to happen yesterday, but it was postponed until today. Please, please donate, donate! 😭😭💔

abdulrahman-family2l

Only 10 hours left until the operation. Please, please don't let us down. Donate, donate so we can perform it today. Donate! 😭😭💔

herdsystem

Please help my friend Abdulrahman, this is the third blog he's had in a month, and for the "crime" of being Palestinian and asking for help for his family. Please, donate so his nephew can have a chance at life!

abdulrahman-family2l

There are almost 8 hours left and we still need 570 euros. Please save us! Don't let us down! Don't let my nephew miss his appointment! Donate! Donate! Prove to me that the world is with me and by my side! Please, I don't want to lose my nephew! Donate! Donate! 😭💔

abdulrahman-family2l

Oh my God, oh my God, only 6 hours and I can't sleep, I can't because I'm so worried. We still need 550 euros. Please save us so we can get my nephew the operation. Please save us, donate, donate! 😭💔

abdulrahman-family2l

Guys, we couldn't get my nephew's surgery done today, and it's been postponed until tomorrow, and it's been postponed again today 💔😭

abdulrahman-family2l

It's easy to ignore an online post, but it's impossible for a family to ignore their child's cries of pain. We hope our post finds someone with a kind heart; my nephew urgently needs surgery, and we still need 500 euros 💔

abdulrahman-family2l

Oh my God, oh my God, tomorrow is the last day of my nephew's surgery, and we still need 490 euros. The surgeon called to confirm the operation and told us it can't be postponed for my nephew's sake. Please, please, there are only 14 hours left until the surgery. I'm crying now, crying. Please be our hope, don't leave us. Donate, donate, donate! 😭😭💔

abdulrahman-family2l

Only 12 hours left and we still need 490 euros. Please, please don't let my nephew die. Please donate, donate! Save us from this! My nephew is exhausted and in so much pain. Please stand by me. I hope anyone who sees this post and these words will help and not ignore me. Please donate, donate! 😭💔💔

behaviornerdwithahat

In case anyone finds it helpful because mobility aids are horrifically expensive and inaccessible…

And for those people who have access to mobility devices but might benefit from a second chair they can abuse without risking expensive damage…

Erik Kondo has made a website, Open Source Innovations, that details plans for DIY wheelchairs. These wheelchairs can be made from common materials like wood, plastic, and pvc. They are lightweight and can be custom fit to the user allowing from the same degree of movement you would get from a custom chair. And they are durable and easily repairable. (he has been stress testing his latest design by dropping it down stairs, dropping it out of a car, launching it across a driveway, and throwing it off a deck). Its 12lbs and I think he said its was in the $200 ish range for parts.

He also is working on cheap, open source, accessible designs for beach chairs, off road chairs, motorized attachments (think smart drive), and so on. Plus he skateboards in his wheelchair. Cool dude, helpful info, pass it on.

sumi-sprite

It's incredibly sad people have to resort to this, but it's a damn good resource. Use it. Spread awareness. Maybe one day people with physical disabilities won't need DIYs like this. But until then, reblog and share.

this-is-accessibility

This is Accessibility!

That's so amazing! It is unfortunate that so many people will need this, but very very cool that it exists

organizationstationone4all

That other link seems to be broken.

miscling

help this thing eat!

hi everyone! it's time for another fundraiser to pay for basic, everyday things! it has decided to be cheerful about this one? sure why not...

this thing is a transfem community organiser working with two groups, and it's an autistic, adhd, plural, disabled mess about it. still, it's doing good work and managing a lot of things!

it needs money for food and bills, and needs £100 to pay for its next grocery order on the 15th! anything after that will go towards its adhd assessment costs so it can get meds to help with that (£10/£400)

if you can help it out, >donate here< or reblog!

£0/£100

miscling

thank you very much for the donations! it has reached £100 and now it's time for a stretch goal. anything from here on will be used to help this thing with other bills and get an adhd assessment (which will be £400). there's 1 day left on this fundraiser, so anything until the next one will go towards that! thank you all again for your kindness and generosity!

£0/£400

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