My self-worth is important when it comes to relationship
I will no longer give 100% to someone who would only give me 25% of their effort. I will no longer be with someone who constantly checks their phone when they are with me, using the excuse “I am bored”. I will no longer be with someone who says to others “I’ll call you later cause I’m with someone” when they receive a call. What am I just a somebody to you? I will no longer be with someone who doesn’t put in the work to build a future together. I will no longer be with someone who disappears for a couple of days and then texts me back. I will no longer be with someone who can’t return me a hug because their arms are crossed in from of me. I will no longer be with someone who doesn’t ask me about what’s really important to me. I will no longer be with someone who isn’t willing to cheer me on when I’m achieving my goals. I will no longer be with someone who doesn’t know what they want with me.
This doesn’t mean I don’t love you. This doesn’t mean i don’t appreciate your good side. This doesn’t mean I can’t see your potential. This doesn’t mean I don’t care about you. This doesn’t mean I wouldn’t want a future with you. This doesn’t mean I’m only focusing on the negative side of you. This doesn’t mean I can’t see the little things you do for me.
But with all honesty, I care too much about myself to be set aside and called upon when needed. I made the mistake to fall in love with your potential. And each day I’m let down over and over again, waiting and hoping. No longer with I devalúe myself for love ever again.
