While of course everyone already knows how fun it is to remind a certain kind of suggestible girlthing of various phantom body parts such as tails, ears, or wings. It's fun to watch how its posture quickly shifts to account for them. The eroticism of a subject suddenly sitting differently in its chair, taking off its hat, or finding it suddenly harder to avoid your wandering fingers. I think a still underrated kind of exploration of the space is describing a vacancy in its mouth. An emptiness to be filled, an oral fixation, or even just miming a larger tongue. Then watching how suddenly it speaks slower or in a slightly different pitch to account for its unavoidable awareness of the open space. It's really cute.
I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.
dude.
$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.
Please be an active participant in your own brainwashing.
What do I mean when I say active?
Kink is supposed to be fun, whether it is simply for a scene or a long-term dynamic.... particularly for a long-term dynamic. Discounting any spectators, every party involved should be an active participant in some way or another.
Now, it is remarkably easy to be active as the brainwasher. But what if you're the brainwashed? One of my pet peeves is toying with a subject online and every response they have to me is a simple key smash. The occasional ones are cute, it does indeed show their brains short-circuiting. But there are only so many teases and flirtations the tist can make back. After a while, the well simply runs dry.
This doesn't mean you have to try to be the best subject, have the best reactions, make the hottest sounds, and other such nonsense. It just falls back on the age old skill of ✨ communication ✨ with the involved parties.
Think back to your negotiation. What did you agree on, as the brainwashed, on what you want to become? What were your short-term or long-term goals? This could be as simple as mantras appearing after a certain action, or becoming more of a braindead object in your day-to-day life.
Outside of the brainwashing, try to do little things during your day to assist. If you're being brainwashed to be sluttier, wear slightly sluttier clothes consciously so that your brain helps shape your new thoughts with active behaviours. If you have hypnotic files available, listen to them regularly without prompt, and report to your brainwasher accordingly.
Discuss with your brainwasher on if there's anything they would want you to do, or things that might please them. Don't just go to them and expect them to think of something. If you truly aren't sure, try browsing social media platforms for things you might find fun and bring these to them. Offer suggestions. Share fantasies when you have or find them.
Whereas outside of brainwashing only truly works in any dynamic longer than a single scene, tips for inside brainwashing are applicable to everyone.
My own communication skills can fluctuate. It can be incredibly difficult to maintain and improve upon them, particularly when my mind is mush. I often resort to "good" as answers to questions - not untrue, but too simple for what I really want to convey. I have my own self-set goal of if I can't think of words to say, do actions to show, or at least show in the best way I can.
Otherwise, sounds. Sounds are excellent ways of communicating without having to stress about words. Moan, whine, whimper, beg. Beg for more, for less, for everything or for nothing. I find that repeating certain phrases that stick in your mind, not necessarily phrases intended as mantras, is a fantastic method of really getting that conditioning to stick. Even after years, there are certain phrases or responses that are cemented in my head even months after they last came to mind.
Feedback afterwards is also incredibly useful. Perhaps your brainwasher said or did something that really stuck out that you want to experience again, or expand upon further. Or conversely, perhaps there were things that you did not enjoy, had no reaction to, or just wouldn't experience regularly. Tell your tist. It doesn't have to happen immediately during/after aftercare. You can write up the moment afterwards, or message your brainwasher after a week when the thought pops into your head.
Hell, you can have your own notebook that you write in whenever that you later on share with them the next time you succumb to the brainwashing.
You could make it part of the scene.
Can you imagine being brainwashed to be more open, more honest, to fight against your anxious and shy brain? Your brainwasher "forcing" you to admit just how much you loved losing to them? Making you describe in detail exactly what made you weak, and what you'd beg to have more of? And then, after your mind crumbles and your will disappears, having the last of your brain beg for exactly that?
Yeah, that's what I thought.
Kink is a group project.
Everyone dislikes the person who does nothing to contribute.
swinging a pendant back and forth above your eye level and slowly raising my grasp as your eyes travel from left to right, back and forth, your eyes rolling upwards as I pull your wrist forward and command you to sleep. Counting you back up from one to five, snapping you awake, then guiding your head to focus on that pendant once again until it takes up all of your attention and you sleep again for me. Waking you back up then dropping you deep down into trance again and again until I count you back up and your eyes remain blissfully closed in trance because that feels so much better than thinking about following that pendant swing back and forth. You don’t think, you just see that pendulum in your mind’s eye, swaying from right to left over and over again and now when I drop you, there is no relief. You will drop deeper and everytime you do, the image of that pendulum swinging back and forth will be the only thing you can think of, which only takes you deeper each time you slip down, falling into a pliable, obedient, state of mind. In a state like this, you may think you’ve reached the deepest level of trance, but the truth is that you can always sink deeper. Just drop and let it all slip away into a delightfully easy state of deep and beautiful trance.
dom hypnotizing their sub by having their sub watch them masturbate. the sub on their knees, at the doms feet, head resting on their thigh. the dom stroking their cock or rubbing their clit and using that motion to coax the sub into a deep trance. the sub not allowed to touch their dom or themselves, just forced to lie there, enchanted by their doms cock or cunt, completely mindless and obedient while they drool all over their doms thigh
Condition your service top to gradually fall in trance while fucking you. Enjoy them becoming blanker and blanker with every thrust. Command them to cum when you are totally satisfied with their services. They will be a drooling mess after that and you will both be happy.
Ghost sex where it shoves its ice cold fingers into your brain and makes your whole body go numb while it keeps pressing just the right nerve to make you keep cumming over and over
[trying to hypnotize you but i'm not really into it] okay uhhhh listen to the room around you or whatever do you fuckin- do you hear the sound of the birds chirping by the window? yeah that. focus on that. okay yeah now take a deep breath i guess uhhhh yeah feel like how your muscles are relaxing or whatever, everythings just like, whewwwww yknow like whewwwww deep breath just whewwww.. yeah you get it.. just let yourself relax.. like.. whewwww.. chill.. yeah yeah.. and then uh.. it feels nice right.. like you like this.. uhhhh.. uhhhhhh.. here.. just focus on the warmth overtaking your body i guess.. like.. dont even think about anything else yeah just that, yeah yeah, just like, fuck me this is taking too long can you just start doing exactly what i tell you?
ok well don't get mad at me you ASKED me to- no dont look- no. look at me. me. i'm talking to you. keep your eyes right here. yeah. you ASKED me to do this to you. you WANTED this. you can't be upset at me, maybe this isn't how you wanted it but this is what you told me to do! eyes here. don't move your eyes. i'm trying to get something through that thick skull of yours. when you put yourself in a position like this, demanding something of someone, you can't be mad if it doesn't go how you expected. i didn't want to do this. you wanted me to. this is what you wanted. you wanted me to sit here and talk you into some kind of trance so i could mess with your mind and make you do whatever i wanted, thats what you ASKED for. how'd you like it if- no don't talk. don't look away. stop it. i'm trying to tell you something here. don't think about anything else, i have to impart this on you. i didn't want to do this. you're forcing me to do this. this is all because of you. i'm sure you wouldn't like it if i made you do things you don't want. look. i'm making you listen to me right now and you don't want to, do you? see how it feels? i'm sorry i can't do it how you expect me to but i don't even like this shit. hypnosis isn't real. i can't hypnotize you. i don't want to hypnotize you. you're not being hypnotized. hey- hey. eyes on me. you need to understand this. you're not being hypnotized. i'm not gonna- did you just cum?????
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