How exactly do you work on your self-concept? Despite trying, it still seems difficult to me and I end up the same as before.
HOW2LOA : improve your self concept !
before we start i want to mention that self concept isnāt just your confidence and self esteem but it is how you view yourself, how you assume others view you and how you perceive yourself and life in general!
working on self concept isnāt necessary to manifest but it definitely helps to have a good idea of self.
the only self concept that i really recommend working on is the assumption that you can manifest, that you are the creator of your reality, that you have power over your surroundings, that you manifest fast and effortlessly and in general anything that has to do with your manifesting abilities. this will help because it will be your foundation that you can fall back on when fears or doubts come up because they most likely will occur.
how do you manifest a good self concept? you persist, as with anything else. drill it in your mind that manifestation works for you, even if you have no proof of that yet. embody the version of you who has manifested everything you want, who gets whatever they want in seconds, who knows they are powerful so they do not need to doubt because they know theyāll get their manifestations, because they always do. tip: dress the part and act the part if that makes you more confident. building good habits will help you with persuading your mind!
there is a version of yourself out there that is just like who i described. they are you. you are them. there is no separation. you already have an amazing self concept. there is nothing to fix or heal. you are already confident, sure of yourself, powerful, determined, strong willed, positive, successful, you have a good self image and high self esteem. you are your best self now. play the part. stop trying to fix or correct yourself.
the moment you get opposing thoughts literally gaslight yourself. would your best self think like that? no. and since you are your best self now there is no need to dwell on those negative thoughts. they do not matter as they are just opportunities to jump to a different reality. but you are in your desired reality already so you donāt need to entertain them. this isnāt about doing, its about being, thinking as if, tapping into that version of you because the moment you decide it is instant and you jump to that reality! and when you fall back into the old state and think you have stayed the same, just make your decision again to be your best self.