Venus (Probably) Had Herpes

GHSV2 since June 22, 2017. My story is on the left sidebar.

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The dangers of fake STD tests | Brut.

A man she met on Tinder sent her an STD test … Only it turned out to be fake. With just $20 and a few minutes to spare, anybody could obtai

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Excess = outbreaks

I had every intention of making a list of all the inane reasons why I've had outbreaks recently. Midway through I realized the list was always coming back to two words.

Too. Much.

Too much bread. Getting fingered too hard. Too much booze. Too many late nights with too few recovery naps. Too much time on the couch. Too much friction with not enough lube.

It's so easy that it's hard. Why am I surprised about an outbreak and yet automatically know where it came from. Yes, the causes seem inane, but they're not. Bread comes with a good meal. Fingers, friction, and late nights come with sex (most of the time). Couch time comes with movies, books, and cuddles.

Moderation is a myth and balance is aspirational. Ideally you only have to balance your life once and you're set. But no. Nope. It's changing, always changing. I am always fine-tuning and figuring what is too much for today.

I'm curled up on the couch with whisky and a cotton ball of ACV. Took my pills. Will get good sleep tonight. We will see about tomorrow.

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The secret swings

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Disclose, then wait…

Sometimes you have to wait for the response

Disclosure doesn’t always meet with success or failure. Sometimes they need to take their time to assess more of you to put it in context. Not easy to wait, but there are many factors in good relationships.

And, if rejection (or acceptance) comes, recognize that H is just one part if the equation.

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“Be nice to yourself. It’s hard to be happy when someone is mean to you all the time.”

— Christine Arylo

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The spammers need a new script, seriously y'all this is so dumb!

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que sea sano, cursi y con mucho sexo

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Cases of ‘Flesh-Eating’ STI That Causes ‘Beefy Red’ Ulcers Growing in UK

Donovanosis, a “flesh-eating” sexually transmitted infection that has been known to cause “beefy red” ulcers, has become a cause for concern

WTF no no no

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I'm volunteering to teach sex Ed to junior high students this spring. It is balancing a fine line between not immediately saying all these things about herpes and also seeming like I know what I'm talking about. If I out myself it's honestly fine, but I don't want the teacher or parents to get mad.

(Also I'm in denial about my age. I AM NOT OLD but y'all these kids are so young.)

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I made a Disaster Bi pride flag.

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Yeah this is about right

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