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My default setting is assuming people don’t want to talk to me
self care, that’s it. self care is buying yourself something nice and drinking a smoothie while going for a nice walk and telling owners of dogs and cats how cute they are and watching the sunset
I deserve a man/woman/person who sees me as a human being.
Someone who makes me feel loved and cared for.
Someone who respects me.
Someone who is gentle and compassionate, who goes out of their way for me without asking.
Someone who communicates effectively. Sees me as special.
I deserve to feel validated, and a priority.
I deserve to be cherished through words and actions to back it up.
I deserve to feel good enough and worth it, even during a bad moment or a struggle.
I deserve to feel like a queen reigning forever.
I deserve to feel safe and secure.
I deserve a man/woman/person who makes me feel supported, who doesn’t tear me down and gets excited for me.
Someone who makes me feel like I can do anything and will be right there with me.
Someone who is proud of me and proud to show me off to anyone.
Someone who is loyal and honest.
I deserve a man/woman/person who encourages me, and reminds me to take care of myself.
I deserve to feel happy.
I deserve someone who is in it for the long run, and doesn’t play mind games.
I deserve someone who follows through.
I deserve someone who listens to me and understands.
I deserve someone who doesn’t pressure me.
I deserve someone who makes me feel at home.
I deserve someone who protects me.
I deserve someone with a good heart just like me.
I deserve someone with good intentions.
I deserve someone who isn’t angry or possessive.
I don’t deserve to settle for less.
I don’t deserve someone who treats me like I’m not convenient.
I deserve the world.
I deserve the best.
Trying not cry while working
“After the honeymoon in Dubai ends and the cash for visiting restaurant daily starts to rapidly run out, young married couples nowadays tend to have a staple diet of microwave foods, beans on toast, cereal for supper, frozen chips and pizzas, fish fingers, pot noodles, donner meat, and burgers meals, with extra chilli and mayonnaise from the local takeaway. Using the gas cooker seems like rocket science for many couples and knowing how to use the kettle in order to boil water is an achievement. I guess knowing how to feed yourselves isn’t considered romantic enough nowadays. Someone in the marriage should know how to cook. Not only is this food unhealthy for the body but constantly eating out is bad for the soul. The state of the person cooking your food and the environment it was cooked in affects the heart. Was your food cooked on Bismillah? Was the person clean? Was his heart present? Did he use crude words whilst cooking? Was it made with love? Did he thank Allah whilst preparing it? The salaf were scrupulous with their food and very specific with those who prepared it. The women of Shām would recite at least 1000 Salawat upon food before feeding their children and they grew to be righteous. Awliyah are made just through food made with righteous niyyah.”
— Shaykh Mohammad Aslam
Masya Allah masya Allah
Im miserable and depressed what should i do
Assalamu Alaikum,
Concern a therapist if your depression is chronic. Secondly perform ablution and pray and cry and plead to Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala and ask for his help that really helps. Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala loves us more than our mother and his decision are always for our good. Try to think positive if you keep thinking negative, you will get more depress. Depression is just a trial it will pass too. So don’t lose hope. If possible seek help from others. This quote will help you in shaa Allah
“To all those suffering from sadness or depression, know that it isn’t your fault. It isn’t because you’re weak. It isn’t because you’re just not grateful enough. It isn’t because you’re just not religious enough. It isn’t because you don’t have enough faith. It isn’t because God is angry with you. To all the well-meaning people who tell you this, just smile. And know deep in your heart that the tests of God come in different forms to different people. And know that, by the help of God, every test can become a tool to get closer to Him. And that, verily, with hardship come ease–and like all things of this world–this too shall pass. By yasmin mogahed”
Always keep these things in mind when you are facing a trial:
1. Try to do dhikr, it will help.2. Think that after every hardship, there will be ease and this time will also pass.3. We have to be patient in every trial and we will get rewarded.4. By being patient we are pleasing our creator.5. Trials are blessing in disguise and it will remove our sins.6. Try to divert you mind, listen to islamic lectures, read books or talk to your siblings.7. The hardship will go on its appointed time and if we not remain patient, we will lose the reward as well.8. Thank to Allah in every situation may be HE is saving us from greater affliction.9. Pray to Allah, ask for HIS help.10. Allah loves us more than our mother and HE will take care of everything so don’t stress.11. This life is a test and we will not get everything we want and we have to be happy in Allah decree.12. We have to please our creator and strive for akhirah, this life is temporary and it will end.
13. When you get hopeless look at those who are less blessed than you and you will be thankful to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
Recite Astaghfirullah as much you can. As narrated in hadith
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
If anyone continually asks pardon, Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress, and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide for him from where he did not reckon.(Abu Dawud)
Following are some dua that you can recite:
1.“Verily, distress has seized me, and You are the Most Merciful of all who show mercy.”
(Aayah No. 83, Surah Al-Ambiya, Chapter No. 21, Holy Qur’an).
2.“Allah is Sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of Affairs.”
3. O Ever Living, O Self-Subsisting and Supporter of all, by Your mercy I seek assistance, rectify for me all of my affairs and do not leave me to myself, even for the blink of an eye.’ [صحيح الترغيب والترهيب 1/273]
I hope it will be helpful. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala forgive us and guide us to the straight path.
Ameen
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Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but doesn't treat you like a fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of,and celebrate those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn't make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love's job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect - do not hold them to this standard. Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely, and often. Love someone who is humble and kind and empathetic. Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street or a stranger in the supermarket. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important. ❤️
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