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[i-see-7-cats]

goddard futuristics sitcom

[caseyscraftycorner]

watching my husband get diagnosed with and treated for sleep apnea over the last year was not the thing that radicalized me re: weight and healthcare but my goodness it has solidified my stances.

sleep apnea is more common in people who are fat.

society decided for some reason that this meant that being fat causes sleep apnea. its often difficult to get referrals for sleep apnea treatment if you are fat, because some PCPs will tell you try losing weight first.

turns out!! having untreated sleep apnea causes weight gain in a not-insignificant number of people. it also makes it fucking impossible for many people to lose weight.

my husband worked out the same amount before he got a cpap as he does now. there have been no major diet changes either. yet he has been losing weight -- and gaining muscle tone -- consistently since he started using a cpap in january.

also, his blood pressure -- which was high, which docs blamed on his weight/diet -- went down significantly within one month of starting cpap treatment, before his weight changed significantly.

ANYWAYS. this is getting long. two final thoughts.

- I Want To Strangle Medical Fatphobia With My Bare Fucking Hands

- if you are exhausted constantly for "no reason", and especially if you snore, you should probably ask your doctor about getting tested for sleep apnea. it is extremely common -- estimates are around 1 in 10 people -- and is also wildly under-diagnosed. like, some estimates suggest that 80% of people with moderate-severe sleep apnea are undiagnosed.

[mixxling]

Fat person with sleep apnea here. Before I got a CPAP, my resting heart rate was in the 110s. Everyone wanted to blame that on my weight. I lost 100 lbs and my heart rate didn't budge. But I was also constantly tired and napping all day with no relief from the exhaustion. I eventually got a sleep study and learned I had sleep apnea, and within weeks of starting CPAP therapy, my heart rate dropped to under 80 bpm.

Sleep apnea can cause so much harm when left untreated. If you suspect you might have it, PLEASE insist upon testing and treatment. It can change (and save!) your life.

[failchild]

this website is so funny there'll be a popular poll going around that asks something like "what's your favorite breakfast food :)" and in the notes there's always someone saying Oh My God of course you unemployed tenderqueer virgins like pancakes no wonder none of you go outside

[twicejoyhalfpain-deactivated202]

penultimate is such a good word. its like....maybe the second best word

[fadedlovemp3]

id be so pissed if i got a parking ticket in gotham like a MAN dressed up like a CLOWN is violating the geneva convention weekly fucking calendar man is out there doing god KNOWS what and ur gonna fine me for parking for 30 min in a 10 min loading zone??? fuck this im becoming parking man and never paying for parking again weeheehee you’ll never catch me batman !

[daybreaksys]

girl has never even been to gotham and already fell for the gotham villanising curse

[zoazoaa]

If you are attracted to a girl it's important to show her sinister artifacts and relics

[soapulp-deactivated20200310]

not evil anymore i want to be loved now

[soapulp-deactivated20200310]

evil again

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[astastories]

There is something so tragic about Maias childhood and his mom life, and I love that she seems so kind and that she had so much love in her heart for her son - especially when his dad couldn’t, or wouldn’t love him

[thatdisasterauthor]

If your alt-text entering window pops up OVER the image I am trying to write alt-text for, you have designed a bad alt-text entering window.

[slayerscake]

Tyranny and Wicander are the devil and angel on your shoulder but specifically the ones from Game Changer/Make Some Noise and Tyranny really thinks you should eat that deviled egg that's been laying on the window sill

[ryebreadedd]

happy aromantic visibilty day to one of my fav fandom wiki comments

[livingmeatloaf]

[ID: a comment by user "WaterHat fan" on 4/14/2025: Nobody should "date". /End ID.]

[seren-starlight]

Person who makes coffee incorrectly: You can't make a cup of coffee without breaking a few eggs

[haberdashing]

if you computter keyboard is working properly ight now, withoutt any keys sticking or efusing to type letters properly, you should ake a momentt and be grateful for that fact. enjoy tthe blessings of having a functional compue keyboard. because, as you perhaps have gleaned fm thtis very text post, not all of us are able ot take such litttle luxuries forr grranted...

[i-see-7-cats]

why is there a paw patrol ad on the packaging of these tomatoes

[mechdeer]

Bonus Thjazi:

[currentlycryingaboutlancelot]

on a separate note i can’t stop thinking about evil therapy speak claudius

[currentlycryingaboutlancelot]

“honestly hamlet you’re violating a lot of boundaries by constantly trauma dumping on your mom about your dead father. it’s manipulative and toxic to refuse to hold space for her and her new marriage when she’s just trying to do what’s best for her peace. anyway get the fuck over it it’s been a month”

[parkchanwoohoo]

My supervisor keeps cutting off my sentences and while I could respectfully ask him to stop interrupting me during meetings, I hate him and his stupid misshapen head and my new tactic is to let him finish his sentence and then restart my sentence from the very beginning and keep doing that again and again until I get to the end of my sentence. This is not a mature or professional way to conduct oneself in a workplace but it is: Deeply Fucking Funny because he gets so impatient so fast

[parkchanwoohoo]

I'm not kidding like you can see him grit his teeth and you see this muscle twitch in his jaw and it is hysterical. He's so angry he wants me dead but strangling me at work would be way less professional than whatever juvenile bullshit I'm doing

[parkchanwoohoo]

I maintain this could be vaguely sexually interesting if he were hot but he isn't. I'm suffering worse than Christ over here