::Alexandra::36::Here for the Buffet::Scotland:: Ask Me Stuffs I answer polite asks and WCIFs (be specific please) only and may take several days as I'm "WCIF Lazy"😌. I don't take CC requests as this is my hobby, and I have to like something to make it. Download my sims from theTS4 Gallery: FrostyBreakfast I won't upload my personal sims as they're very CC-heavy.
Ah the notorious cursed rugs! Whether your sim is artsy, inherited a mansion, or is a fussy old lady of loves drinking and spilling the tea, there's a rug for them!
Polys - A WHOLE 2
Swatches - A deeply upsetting 41
Size - A monstrous 5x7 for easy scaling
Sponsorships - None lol
Tea and Biscuits - Yes
Hot Tubs - Undetected
I made a poll about whether to make a new Tumblr for Paralives and then murdered it because I wanted to make a new Tumblr. Whether I use it or not is another story...
Paralives for Lunch has entered the chat ☀️
I'll still follow from this one though.
Thought I may as well detatch both jewellery sets from their outfits while I was doing things. This set includes the necklace and bracelet from the very bebowed and bejewelled dress.
Alfie is my 7-year-old lab mix, and he means everything to me. Recently, Alfie was d… Erin Biehl needs your support for Help Alfie Get Life-
A friend of mine (from back in the Sims 3 forum days) is in need of aid to help her sweet pup, Alfie, receive surgery. If anyone is willing to make a small donation, it would make a huge difference for this sweet boy.
Alfie's mama, Erin, has been an animal advocate for many years and has helped nurse various dogs and cats back to health, all out of pocket, without asking for anything in return. So, if you can help, not only would it help Alfie, it'll empower her to keep doing the good work so many animals need.
For good measure, I have made a donation (thank you to the folks who still support me on Patreon, allowing me to pay it forward), so you can rest assured this is legitimate.
Okay I won't lie, I've been in a creating slump recently (the current status of the game is mostly responsible for that), but when I saw an excellent, gaudy, huge, and slightly trashy (in a good way) jewellery set outfit locked in the new Bridgerton kit, my first thought was "THE AUDACITY", my second thought was, "I NEED THAT". So here it is!
Swatches: 5
Polys: Necklace - 1104, Earrings 176
I also patched (12th May 2026), so you if you haven't, they may not work...or they might. A mystery!
My other projects will happen, this game is a whole strugglebus right now though.
Since the latest patch didn't murder many things, I thought I'd patch. S4S also updated very quickly, so the stars aligned and I decided to update the following three accessory tops for the new base layer accessory type:
Not a huge change, these can now be found in the base layer section instead of rings. I've left the original files on the original set uploads for now so you can go back and replace if you decide you'd rather keep them under rings.
PLEASE DO NOT DOWNLOAD THESE IF YOU HAVEN'T INSTALLED THE LATEST PATCH (12th MAY 2026)
Things I unfortunately won't be able to help with:
Troubleshooting if base layers aren't showing up for you. We're almost twelve years in and it could be due to a variety of mods. My own game is held together with sellotape, crystals, moonbeams, and dreams.
Convert other creators' content to base layers. That's up to them, and I wouldn't want to overstep.
Create a 20 Item, 904390389083098503 Swatch 1990s CC Collection. If you know, you know.
Please tell me you have heard of Lady Miss Kier 🤩 Would you ever be interested in making some cc inspired by her?
(aka "A Quick and Easy Guide On How to Suggest an Idea Without Demanding It" 😂)
I'm absolutely screaming at that last line 😂😂😂!!
I'm familiar with her and living for that 1990s 60s revival 😍!! I'm filing this away in ideas for when I get inspired, but I'm not planning anything new for the immediate future. It's not a yes, but it's definitely not a hard no, because those looks are iconic 💜
I wasn’t going to post this because I’ve been living a lovely, peaceful, drama-free life, but since this entitled individual has been screeching about being blocked on other peoples Patreons…
Read on for an example of how not to treat CC creators…especially the ones who make free content.
The tale starts here with a request for a commission incorrectly in my “CC issues” channel on Patreon. Not only do I not take commissions (I do take suggestions and make them if I like them, but I’m a free non-early-access CC creator so I mostly do what I want), but I wouldn’t make that hair. It’s not on brand and I don’t enjoy it. It was also the wrong channel.
What are the five other replies you ask? More requests that I ignored. One had twenty, mostly fully interactive build buy items that would require coding. I make mid-century ballgowns, so why would I suddenly be capable of creating a fully interactive, animated 90s Gameboy?
Anyhoo… I compared notes with a CC making friend who said they got a weird request (hence having this screenshot). By DM, not in the fabled top seekrit creator discord that doesn’t exist lol.
I didn’t get a response to my polite “no, but there are excellent hair creators out there” response, so I went on about my business, and ate biscuits or whatever I do.
And then…
Yesterday when I was taking a quiet moment to think about our lady and saviour Cher Sarkasian (I was actually at the dog park, but that sounded better), I received the above comment on one of my posts and responded.
I later thought “why am I even bothering?” and blocked him. No refunds required because he was an unpaid member, so literally no money exchanged hands commission claims or not.
Which brings me to the reason I’m even making this post.
This absolute jobby of an entitled individual has been running around screeching on other creators’ Patreon pages about me blocking him.
I’ve been so lucky in the years I’ve had Patreon to have absolutely lovely, supportive members and I have to mention that as I call out this goblin.
Don’t do this to creators. I work a full time job (and a part time one…and I volunteer for a charity. I’m a busy bitch) and make content for free because I enjoy doing it. I would not enjoy making that hair, so to anyone thinking of pulling this shit on a creator (or anyone who has a screechy little comment on their page about me blocking someone).
I wasn’t going to post this because I’ve been living a lovely, peaceful, drama-free life, but since this entitled individual has been screeching about being blocked on other peoples Patreons…
Read on for an example of how not to treat CC creators…especially the ones who make free content.
The tale starts here with a request for a commission incorrectly in my “CC issues” channel on Patreon. Not only do I not take commissions (I do take suggestions and make them if I like them, but I’m a free non-early-access CC creator so I mostly do what I want), but I wouldn’t make that hair. It’s not on brand and I don’t enjoy it. It was also the wrong channel.
What are the five other replies you ask? More requests that I ignored. One had twenty, mostly fully interactive build buy items that would require coding. I make mid-century ballgowns, so why would I suddenly be capable of creating a fully interactive, animated 90s Gameboy?
Anyhoo… I compared notes with a CC making friend who said they got a weird request (hence having this screenshot). By DM, not in the fabled top seekrit creator discord that doesn’t exist lol.
I didn’t get a response to my polite “no, but there are excellent hair creators out there” response, so I went on about my business, and ate biscuits or whatever I do.
And then…
Yesterday when I was taking a quiet moment to think about our lady and saviour Cher Sarkasian (I was actually at the dog park, but that sounded better), I received the above comment on one of my posts and responded.
I later thought “why am I even bothering?” and blocked him. No refunds required because he was an unpaid member, so literally no money exchanged hands commission claims or not.
Which brings me to the reason I’m even making this post.
This absolute jobby of an entitled individual has been running around screeching on other creators’ Patreon pages about me blocking him.
I’ve been so lucky in the years I’ve had Patreon to have absolutely lovely, supportive members and I have to mention that as I call out this goblin.
Don’t do this to creators. I work a full time job (and a part time one…and I volunteer for a charity. I’m a busy bitch) and make content for free because I enjoy doing it. I would not enjoy making that hair, so to anyone thinking of pulling this shit on a creator (or anyone who has a screechy little comment on their page about me blocking someone).
Angela Pleasant was a horrible little bitch. Everyone knew that. Lilith was simply providing a public service by slapping her. She should be awarded for this act of selflessness, honestly.
More after the cut:
While her daughters murdered each other, Mary-Sue was feeling smug. Bless poor Cassie. She had it hard with Don-Manuel Miranda Lothario, and now she was shacked up with the older, starving artist Darren Dreamer. This wouldn't happen to Mary-Sue; no, her marriage was as solid as her husband's...wallet.
Yes, Dan-Dan had a new lease on life and was truly taking care of his fitness. Mary-Sue assumed it was all for her, and she was too busy in her political career to consider that there was another possibility.
Yes, Daniel had his eye on other prizes. He was far more interesting in getting getting fuzz-deep into Kaylynn's feather duster than pleasing his wife.
While Daniel was having his chrome polished, his darling little girl/the true face of evil was having the rock that lived where her heart should be smashed into smithereens by her boyfriend Dustin, who was far more interested in her behated sister's boyfriend Dirk. How could she face school after this? He was breaking up with her?? The audacity.
Meanwhile...
Mary-Sue was similarly outraged. She had built an entire persona around perfection, and now her husband was sampling other pies...in her bed of all places? Nope. Mary-Sue knew that in order to save face, she had to kick him to the curb. Little Dan-Dan could fend for himself in a shitty bachelor apartment and like it.
Lilith cut herself some trauma bangs to cope with the rather unemotional absence of her feckless father.
Mary-Sue attempted to win her daughters over with some shitty, burnt mac and cheese. Lilith hated her regardless, but also hated Daniel, and Angela sure as hell wasn't leaving their McMansion for a seedy apartment.
In spite of their supposed trauma, Lilith's grades actually went up, and Angela tried her luck with Stevie-Ray Turpin. If Mary-Sue was paying attention to her daughters, the latter would appall her.
The prophecy did not come true and Mary-Sue found herself promoted to Lobbyist. Perhaps Daniel had been holding her back?
To celebrate, she invited her parents, Coral and Herb over for some rather safe sandwiches.
Lilith adored her grandparents, even if Coral was attempting to encourage her to be nicer. Perhaps, she thought, they'd let her move in if she gave it a solid go.
There would always be tomorrow...
In the spirit of things (and genuinely missing her friend), she invited Dirk over to make up. He apologised profusely and they decided to remain friends.
Mary-Sue tracked down Don-Manuel Miranda Lothario's (he still has the shitty little ponytail I gave him) apartment for some revenge woohoo, but insdead she bumped into Mr Kim from the neighbouring apartment. She enjoyed their chat and found herself leaving without meeting Don Jr.
Inspired by her sister's apparent selflessness and not one to be outdone, Angela made up and made out with Dustin (who was still apparently not exclusive with Dirk while they manouvred their break ups). Oh dear.
Mary-Sue received a second promotion to Campaign Manager (because she's just that good) and to celebrate, she invited her bff Cassandra and her new interest Mr. Theo Kim over to celebrate. Theo got the memo.
Fun was had by all...
Well...Mary-Sue had a nice time.
In fact she had such a nice time that she moved that nice Mr. Kim in along with his cat, Dr. Isosceles.
Still in my build/buy era and today I bring you some prints!
She's a cultured woman...like a yogurt. Show your friends how deep and tasteful you are with these William Morris Prints. Did you purchase them on a potentially problematic e-commerce site? Probably. It's not how they sell them though, it's how you sell them to your friends and admirers. You were so inspired by that museum trip after all....
Swatches: 12 (three prints, four frames)
Polys: 50
Price: §250
Ah the notorious cursed rugs! Whether your sim is artsy, inherited a mansion, or is a fussy old lady of loves drinking and spilling the tea, there's a rug for them!
Polys - A WHOLE 2
Swatches - A deeply upsetting 41
Size - A monstrous 5x7 for easy scaling
Sponsorships - None lol
Tea and Biscuits - Yes
Hot Tubs - Undetected
Still in my build/buy era and today I bring you some prints!
She's a cultured woman...like a yogurt. Show your friends how deep and tasteful you are with these William Morris Prints. Did you purchase them on a potentially problematic e-commerce site? Probably. It's not how they sell them though, it's how you sell them to your friends and admirers. You were so inspired by that museum trip after all....
Swatches: 12 (three prints, four frames)
Polys: 50
Price: §250