It Be Like That

Imma just post. May be fandom May not. Who knows. Not me.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Something I thought about,

(I feel the need to preface this by saying I myself a lesbian )

I genuinely do not really enjoy watching porn like it’s not my favorite thing to do when I’m trying to have a great time with myself

But sometimes I get a hankering, and I would like sapphic porn that is not made for a straight man because every single time that I watch porn, it feels performative for a males point of view not a female I don’t know I could be crazy 

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Okay this is such a niche hope to find this fanfic and I remember so much of this fic just not its name.

BUT it was a shklance where (obviously langst) 5+1 where lance had been abused in a past relationship and kept doing things that ticked them off. Like asking permission to buy something at a space mall wtc, the plus one is Lance in one of their robes and the others slippers while they brush their teeth and I just need it in my life at least one more time

[thedreadpirateblogger]

So I watched "Quite on Set"

I keep hearing "Drake Bell was abused, but he's also an abuser" like these are remotely comparable offenses.

TW: sexual assault, child abuse

Not to minimize the psychological harm done to that girl, I'm sure receiving explicit messages from an adult at 15 was emotionally traumatic and violating. But when Drake was 15, Brian Peck took over his life, estranged him from his father, followed him across the country. He was stalked, raped, and tortured by a John Wayne Gacy fan with economic power over him. That's not just upsetting, that's an actual living hell.

And the only person in the industry there for him was Dan Schneider??? Of course he came out of that with a fucked up sense of what adult men can say to teenage girls. Therapy is where you unlearn that shit and he didn't talk to anyone for 20 years. How could he? He told the police what happened to him in gruesome detail, and Brian served 16 months before going back to work at Disney. Between that and all the support at the hearing, he must have felt there was no point in talking about it because no one cared.

Not to mention how easy it is to distance yourself from what you're saying and who you're talking to over text. Mix that with some dissociation and substance abuse, the cognitive dissonance wouldn't be hard to maintain. It was bad, but it doesn't make him beyond redemption. He's clearly trying to be better.

What I'm saying is cut Drake Bell some fucking slack, okay?

[idkwhereelsetobe]

I’m watching victorious because why not, and the episode where Tori gets in trouble because she “hurt Jade” when they were practicing fake fighting. Like I’m not a Tori girl or anything BUT

1) it was a huge possibility that would happen with anyone. They were fake fighting and weren’t processionals. The reaction was too much and Tori was obviously apologetic

2) when it was found out jade lied to just get tori in trouble where where her consequences

That episode always erked me

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Nah listen, if my friend is going to act petty and rude the whole time she is there because she is very obviously jealous. THEN everyone says I need to forgive her because she’s so great I’d be PISSED.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

My pronouns are They/Them, but I still present female, but I’m in the south so I can’t look at customers who call me ma’am and be like “actually it’s they/them” because then I’ll get fired but it is so exhausting being called something I’m not.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Back again for the wilds

Like, listen Kirin is an absolute dick but the fact his first reaction to finding out what happened to Josh is to go want to beat the fuck out of that man. 10/10. What an absolute lad

[idkwhereelsetobe]

The trech dweller is back

Wilds season 2!!

What the fuck, boys failed? My woman I am glad they did no one needs that trauma

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Yooooo Leah and Raf found eachother and of course her asshole son is there

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Bro but like I know Leah is Gaslight gatekeep girl bossing rn but her and Raf would low key be a vibe but we shall see

[idkwhereelsetobe]

The trech dweller is back

Wilds season 2!!

What the fuck, boys failed? My woman I am glad they did no one needs that trauma

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Yooooo Leah and Raf found eachother and of course her asshole son is there

[idkwhereelsetobe]

The trech dweller is back

Wilds season 2!!

What the fuck, boys failed? My woman I am glad they did no one needs that trauma

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Literally only on episode one of queer eye and I feel like we are missing so much with the background of grandma. Women lose hair but what is behind the absolute fear of her being seen without her wig? I’m just mosey and and like to know.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

No complaints about episode two. Angel was an amazing bean who I loved. THREE ?!?! They legit washed his hair because he wouldn’t? Like sir do you not know basic hygiene. Wtf

Edit: he’s now asking about pronouns. Kinda vibe with him tbh. Like I respect the respect

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Literally only on episode one of queer eye and I feel like we are missing so much with the background of grandma. Women lose hair but what is behind the absolute fear of her being seen without her wig? I’m just mosey and and like to know.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

I know Rizzoli and Isles is an old show, but I just finished it. But did Angela annoy anyone else? Like yeah she’s a mom and loves her kids, but every chance she had she told Jane how much she hated her job, She WENT to Jane’s doctors appointment then when Jane tried to set boundaries it was “you don’t want to be like me” umm no you went to someone else’s pregnancy appointment.

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Today I saw my TikTok that asked if you and your girl best friend couldn’t shower together then y’all aren’t best friends. I asked her expecting to be told no, we couldn’t shower together. This is what I got instead

I’m not mad..

[idkwhereelsetobe]

Okay, but the fact Nora bit Rachel’s wrist/hand and now Rachel has no hand... damn

[idkwhereelsetobe]

I have said it once and I’ll say it again

White people do not get a say in how much people of color experience racism

BECAUSE THEY HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED IT THEMSELVES

Ex) I’ve have 3 bosses who are black..... well Barbra whoop Dee doo racism is gone now. Doesn’t mean she didn’t have to work three times as hard as a white woman to get into that EXACT same position with what is probably less pay than a white woman. But go off I guess

[idkwhereelsetobe]

I just have to know.... Is it too much to ask for someone to call me little goddess and be as sweet to me as Hades is to Persephone

Like if someone could just let me know THAT WOULD BE GREAT