abt me
i follow from main (tagged under readmore)
you can call me tex or cody or neil
pronouns (in order of pref): he, it, xe
26 y/o. bisexual nonbinary trans man on T, had top surgery, has been neutered (see readmore for explanation), and pre-op bottom surgery(for now).
i love academically dissecting kinks/sexuality. donāt follow if that bothers you lol
autistic/nd so sorry if iām awk ā¤ļøāš©¹š¤·š»āāļø
hmu if you live near/travel to the north texas (southern usa) area and you wanna hook up
everything here is consensual risk-aware sex/kink, roleplay, and/or fantasy.
please let me know if i reblog bots, stolen content/reposted & unsourced, AI/unreality, something untagged, etc. so i can delete it
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other accounts:
main: @dunmertitty
horny sideblog: @illegallymale
nudes/lewds: @hehimh0le (canāt tag, uāll have to copy/paste)
masc chest/mantits appreciation: @nonbinarybara
about me: basics, looks, sexuality, fyi
im 26 and i go by tex or cody or neil (and various other names im forgetting). only use he/him/his, it/its/itself, or xe/xem/xeyr for me.
iām a masc(presenting, not acting lol) nonbinary transsexual man; you may interpret that however you wish w/ regards to interacting*!
*if i followed/reblogged smthn youāre uncomfortable with, please let me know before blocking me and i can mutual block you to lower the chances of accidentally interacting again!!! also if you have a sfw blog that youāre okay with me following, lmk!!
if you havenāt wandered upon my selfies yet, iām a short white fat/chubby hairy guy with glasses and a big ole septum ring š¤·š»āāļø jsyk
iām on T, have had top surgery, cannot get pregnant*, and have not had bottom surgery (yet?). also i donāt have nipples lol
*i got my tubes/ovaries yoinked so i cant get #boypregnant. i say neutered in my intro - i KNOW thats about balls, iām just using it for #GenderAffirming purposes (if you have a problem with that, pls fuck off lol). i love being bred and being fucked raw so this was a necessity lol.
use masculine (or neutral) terms to talk about me! generally i use the words below for my anatomy (but i am open to trying new things):
chest: chest, tits, pecs, boobs, etc. š¤·š»āāļø (since i got top surgery im not rly dysphoric abt my chest so im open to more words, even if theyāre typically feminine)
clit: dick, cock, tdick, boyclit (not clit alone)
vulva & vaginal zone: cunt/mancunt, hole/front hole (ik itās super unsexy but sometimes you need to differentiate), boypussy, crotch
booty/bootyhole: butt, ass, hole/back hole, pussy/bussy (yes i know, confusing)
iām bisexual and capable of being attracted to any genders/presentations. iām also not strictly monogamous or polyam; i just kinda go with the flow (ambi-amorous? idk). not gonna get into it but iām also on the aro/ace spectrum (greyromantic/sexualā£ļø)
it doesnāt come up much (bc iām medicated and in a stable living situation atm) but i am various degrees of neurodivergent and mentally ill. so things of that nature may or may not pop up š¤·āāļø wrt sexual things, usually itās only my depression meds (sometimes dick donāt work) that get in the way. iām also schizospec so sometimes i have trouble with paranoia/mild hallucinations. also im autistic so i kinda seem awkward but usually the ppl i hook up with find it alluring & pathetic
stances(?) on stuff n things
generally leftist but i generally i think political labels are stupid and meant to divide people. i think people deserve basic needs and rights just byā¦ existing.
working on reading literature/analysis from genres/perspectives below when i have time/energy (lol) so feel free to give me recommendations!!!:
antiracist (specifically from Black folks bc i live in the us south, but im interested in reading more latinam/mexican works too since all the everything is going on. ALSO also im trying to learn spanish (specifically mexican/central american vernacular since thats the vast majority of the speakers im around); im on super basic stuff rn but i need practice so hmu if you got leftist lit in spanish!!
intersectional feminist
transfeminist
disability theory/activism
feminist literature from sex workers - iāve only read small zines/posts so lmk if you have any longer/comprehensive suggestions!
or if you have suggestions for other perspectives, iām open!
wrt queerness/sexuality: im cool with whatever labels ppl use for themselves as long as its in good faith (ie i dont think pansexuality is inherently transphobic). but regardless of sexuality i will call you out if you do/say anything transphobic, racist, or any other kind of bigoted lol
generally i try not to engage with pro-ship/anti-ship rhetoric, but i do occasionally reblog posts from both āsidesā (in a nuanced critical way, not in a libertarian centrist way lol) so donāt follow if that bothers you. i think itās kinda childish to use such black & white language to understand the relationship between the ārealā word and fantasy/roleplay/fiction and the nuances of representation within. basically the post like āidk bro i think it dependsā - i think it humorously encapsulates how/why nuance is important.*
*TLDR: fictional depiction isnāt endorsement but analysis and critiques on people or their works/materials are not censorship. also all books should be open access/free. tag your shit correctly (or let ppl know in your bio if you donāt tag) so ppl can block it if they donāt wanna see it.
preferences/sexy stuff
like i said, im a big bisexual so im kinda into everyone. kinda focusing on fag4fag and/or t4t stuff rn (bc i lowkey had some comphet stuff going on in high school/early college where i only had sex with women [to assert my masculinity/manhood or some stupid bs]) but when i started T (2018ish), i felt comfortable enough to get over that and explore sex/sexuality with other trans people and/or other men.
anyone (respectful) can hmu - my gender is vague/fluid enough that iām okay with non-men-attracted folks (str8/dl/questioning dudes, lesbians, asexuals, etc.) to flirt with me, but i will prefer/prioritize flirtations from men-attracted folks as i am a man, albeit bigenderly. but also donāt blame me if you turn gay or bisexual lol
iām exploring kink; below iāll list some of my yes/nos:
iām interested in = ā
not attracted to but generally will still partake in = ā ļø
limits/hard noās = š
love/fav = š
havenāt done yet but interested in trying = š
most kinks you can assume iām into both sub (ā¬ļø) & dom (ā¬ļø) but iāll mark if only one or the other
list is non-extensive and may frequently change
ā : breeding (no preg)šš, petplayš, s&mā¬ļø, bondageā¬ļø, impact play & hickeys/bruises/scratches/marks, cncš, cockwarming, piss/watersportsš, choking, hair pulling, service/houseboy/maidš, praiseš, degradationš, gender affirmation, bro sex/str8 boy rp/forcemasc, certain fauxcestš, edging, overstim, frotting/scissoring/tribbing, monsterfucking, tentacles, exhibitionismš, masks/face coverings, intox (weed/aphrodisiacs)šš
ā ļø: wax playš, feet stuffš
š*: misgendering/detrans/forcefem ā¬ļø, intense impact playā¬ļø, scat, vomit (altho i am okay with participating in the aftercare), actual pregnancyā¬ļø
*this is not a dni, just stuff i donāt like. idc what kinks you have, do whatever you want as long as:
everything real is consensual. fantasy/fiction is tagged/warned in some way
all reposted content is sourced!!!!! support sex workers
some safety thing like safe sane consensual or RACK or whatever
you tag stuff so i can block tags i donāt want to see
youāre not tagging images of me with anything that misgenders me
anyway idk i guess thatās it. lmk if you need questions/clarifications!! or want to make out or frot or smthn
